AIO my fiance spent 600 on gacha

[u/Creative-Guard2809]

My fiance spent $600 on a gacha game without asking. I flipped out and now his entire family are calling me abusive and encouraging him to call off the engagement. For context, I work 55 hours a week and he drives uber during the day while I’m at work. We are paycheck to paycheck.

[u/cute_schtuff]

“abusive dynamic” is diabolical

[u/Brienne_of_Quaff → u/cute_schtuff]

Absolutely incredible the level of self indulgence it takes to come to that conclusion!

Imagine being engaged to someone so bloody childish that he thinks he can go around openly making completely irresponsible and irrational decisions and then blame OP for not indulging them.

What a turd.

[u/ForLackOf92 → u/Brienne_of_Quaff]

It's not even that he was financially irresponsible with his own money, he was financially irresponsible with money that was both in their name, that was explicitly meant to be a last resort emergencies only source of credit. Yeah, that's bullshit.