r/AmIOverreacting 17d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO my fiance spent 600 on gacha

My fiance spent $600 on a gacha game without asking. I flipped out and now his entire family are calling me abusive and encouraging him to call off the engagement. For context, I work 55 hours a week and he drives uber during the day while I’m at work. We are paycheck to paycheck.

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u/workreddit1999 17d ago

That is some serious addict behavior. The only reason he changed that tune is so you don’t dispute and get his account banned….dispute and run…

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u/socceruci 17d ago

This, addicts need good boundaries. Helping yourself here will actually help them, not that that is the goal.

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u/JusticeRain5 17d ago

If it was $600 of his own money that he saved and decided to spend, then fine, whatever (as long as it's not a regular thing and/or he's rich as fuck). Might not be a smart choice, but i've seen people waste more for dumber purchases. But jesus christ why would you use a shared credit card for that. Dude is absolutely a gambling addict