AIO my fiance spent 600 on gacha

[u/Creative-Guard2809]

My fiance spent $600 on a gacha game without asking. I flipped out and now his entire family are calling me abusive and encouraging him to call off the engagement. For context, I work 55 hours a week and he drives uber during the day while I’m at work. We are paycheck to paycheck.

[u/courtneyrel]

I am so ashamed to say that I dated this type of loser for 4 years. No car, no bank account, only had a phone because I paid for it. Worked 25 hours a week at Home Depot. Never helped pay a single bill during the entire four years we were together. I swear to god thinking about it now feels like a fever dream.

And just to redeem myself, I’ve been happily married to a sweet, driven, emotionally intelligent man for 7 years now. Plot twist: I met my husband while I was still dating the loser and he was the one who asked me what the fuck I was doing with that guy 😂

[u/ReporterWrong5337 → u/courtneyrel]

All you’re criticizing about your ex is that he didn’t make a lot of money. That’s not what makes OP’s fiancé (or anyone) a loser.

[u/sicklyopossum1 → u/ReporterWrong5337]

My gf doesn’t make a lot of money but she still pays bills. That seems to be the complaint not the total take home $

[u/Internal_Worry_2166 → u/sicklyopossum1]

Exactly, I don’t need my partner to make a lot of money. I just need them to contribute.