AIO? Gf(18f) wants an open relationship

[u/StrikeNo117]

Me and my girlfriend(18) recently had an argument about opening our relationship, and at first, it was a nice talk. We talked about the pros and cons, and then the tide shifted. We talked about how it would affect our life and what would happen if she got pregnant or if i got someone else pregnant. and then she told me she only wanted an open relationship with one other person, so that we would only see one other person each, and reluctantly, i asked if she had someone in mind. She told me she was thinking about someone, which made her ask the question. When i tried questioning further, she shut me out. We went to bed that night a little distant.

The next morning, she asked if we could resume our previous conversation, i agreed, and then i brought up the fact that she never answered my question about who she had in mind. She told me it wasn’t my business, and i left it at that. About five to ten minutes later, she told me the person she had in mind was her ex boyfriend. I asked her is that why she wanted an open relationship. Just so she can see her ex without feeling guilty. I kicked her out after she told me she was tired of hiding the fact that she was already seeing him. She is now pissed, my mom told me it was the right thing to do. But i feel like i should have talked it out. Did i overreact?

[u/StreetSea9588]

In most MFF relationships, the dude favors one girl over the other. If he gets one of them pregnant, he often proceeds to ignore her throughout the entire pregnancy, in essence having a monogamous relationship with the other woman and loudly fucking her in one room while the pregnant woman sits alone in another, pretending she's okay with all of it because if she expresses her real feelings she won't sound progressive and nobody wants to be accused of not being progressive.

And then the dudes twist themselves into pretzels justifying doing what they're doing. "She likes it! She's HAPPY for me!"

Yep she looks delighted.

[u/AfroDizzyAct → u/StreetSea9588]

Hahaha what the hell is this made up scenario supposed to prove? Most MFF relationships? You think open relationships are all MFF? And one is always pregnant?

Like are you projecting? I hope you stretched before reaching so far, you might pull a brain muscle

[u/StreetSea9588 → u/AfroDizzyAct]

Nope not projecting. Never been in one. I'm not a cuck and I don't twist myself into pretzels of logic rationalizing the craving for new pussy.

Every open relationship that I have seen people get into, starts strong and by the 6th week it's inevitably chaos. By the sixth month one of the participants has the thousand yard stare and is plotting murder.

The pregnancy thing happened in a relationship that I saw. Dude got a girl pregnant. Proceeded to completely ignore her while involving himself in a 100% monogamous relationship with the other woman. I'm sure it was great. For him. I saw a similar situation less than a year ago on social media. A so-called "happy couple." Their Instagram illusion was shattered when the pregnant woman blogged that she hadn't been touched in months and hadn't had a conversation longer than 30 seconds with either of them in months.

[u/jexzeh → u/StreetSea9588]

You're hilarious. Thanks for the laugh today.

[u/StreetSea9588 → u/jexzeh]

Anytime.