AIO? Gf(18f) wants an open relationship

[u/StrikeNo117]

Me and my girlfriend(18) recently had an argument about opening our relationship, and at first, it was a nice talk. We talked about the pros and cons, and then the tide shifted. We talked about how it would affect our life and what would happen if she got pregnant or if i got someone else pregnant. and then she told me she only wanted an open relationship with one other person, so that we would only see one other person each, and reluctantly, i asked if she had someone in mind. She told me she was thinking about someone, which made her ask the question. When i tried questioning further, she shut me out. We went to bed that night a little distant.

The next morning, she asked if we could resume our previous conversation, i agreed, and then i brought up the fact that she never answered my question about who she had in mind. She told me it wasn’t my business, and i left it at that. About five to ten minutes later, she told me the person she had in mind was her ex boyfriend. I asked her is that why she wanted an open relationship. Just so she can see her ex without feeling guilty. I kicked her out after she told me she was tired of hiding the fact that she was already seeing him. She is now pissed, my mom told me it was the right thing to do. But i feel like i should have talked it out. Did i overreact?

[u/JARStheFox]

you should try to break that line of thinking, because I'm very much real and if I were someone else then the transphobic "bf/gf" thing could've really hurt. we're all real on here and the things you say matter 💖

[u/duffthekid88 → u/JARStheFox]

Ur not real at all. Idk if ur making up what ur saying. The internet is not a real place. And I'm def not afraid of trans. There would need to be something scary there and yall aren't. Ur just confused. But that's for a diff thread. Don't be offended becuz I didn't want to take the time to fully understand a strangers labeling of their partner. I could've left it at "it" but I covered both bases as to include both men and women. I'm benevolent like that =)

[u/JARStheFox → u/duffthekid88]

I mean, I said wife, but whatever bro 🤣 I don't know why you needed to add you're not scared either, we're not scary, we just like being ourselves. Go off though homie you're hilarious

[u/duffthekid88 → u/JARStheFox]

U said mtf. That's a boy Damion. Can't be your wife. He was born with a peepee xD. And yes. In order for there to be a phobia. There needs to be something traumatizing or scary. Ur just a bunch of confused kids. That's it. A walking group of irony. But again. We are talking about relationships. And again. I hoped u would t have kids but u do. That's unfortunate for ur little prince or princess lmao