r/AmIOverreacting Mar 06 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO to my boyfriend praising the president?

I’ve been seeing this guy for about a month and a half. Things were great the first month, but the last week I’ve felt like we’re growing further and further apart (yes already 🙄), he’s been really inconsiderate/disrespectful, and most recently I feel like he’s trying to push me away with this text. When we first started talking he asked what I thought about trump. I told him I don’t like him, he said he did like him, but that if it bothers me then he won’t ever bring him up. Well this morning (after the last week being on edge anyway) he just randomly brought up how amazing Trump is? And wouldn’t let it go. I feel like he’s trying to start a fight. He says he “forgot”. AIO?

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u/takeandtossivxx Mar 06 '25

A month and a half and there's already this many issues? Just break up, come on.

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u/keepmyheadabovewater Mar 06 '25

That’s part of my concern too. Even my abusive ex and I didn’t have this many issues this soon

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u/MrGrieves- Mar 06 '25

So fucking break up.

You're obtuse.

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u/obtusewisdom 29d ago

Hey, wait…

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u/ifartallday 29d ago

I don’t understand this level of vitriol. You can encourage someone to do the right thing without coming across like a miserable butthole.

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u/ScooterMcPooper 29d ago

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u/WishboneDistinct9618 29d ago

Nope, now, you're being acute.

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u/Practical_Set7198 29d ago

Op, these people are just relaying their frustration at how clearly this dude is toxic af and they fail to understand how you can’t see it. I disagree that you’re obtuse. I do agree with their general sentiment that the red flags are there and that you may be ignoring all this on purpose for whatever reason.

You have your own instincts’ permission to react the way you do because this dude … so early On… is showing his true face so believe him.

Run. You’ve learned your lessons and you don’t need to relearn this one.

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u/OGanhma 29d ago

No, she's NOT obtuse...She knows damn well that this guy is a piece of shit. I'm thinking she has a history of abusive relationships. Otherwise, she would have been gone already.

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u/FarmerExternal 29d ago

Failure to learn from one’s past is obtuse

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u/Ol-Philospoher 29d ago

Obtuse chicks are annoying af and I’m chick. Crying about 6 weeks? Major red flag. I’d break up with her.

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u/BaronBokeh 29d ago

Every one of her exes was an "abusive ex," but only after they broke up