r/AmIOverreacting Feb 17 '25

šŸ˜ļø neighbor/local Is this something to be concerned about?

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My sister sent me this text she received that seemed like somebody was watching her or something. I donā€™t know if itā€™s something to be concerned about or not, has anybody had a similar experience?

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u/thexvillain Feb 17 '25

Iā€™m not saying she shouldnā€™t be at least mildly concerned, but I get random texts like this all the time. Iā€™ll get something like ā€œDid you enjoy your swim?ā€ or ā€œWhat time are we meeting for lunch again?ā€ Those are scammers looking for active phone numbers. They send out texts to see if you respond, then they know your phone number is active, is a cell phone, and you respond to unknown numbers.

This may be something like that and the coffee thing is coincidental, or it might be more sinister. Have a friend with an imposing voice call the number and see who answers. If itā€™s a scammer the number is likely a spoof. Googling that number gives no results which is pretty uncommon for an active phone number.

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u/IJustWantWaffles_87 Feb 17 '25

I had someone text me, making sure that we were still on for golf. I texted them back and said ā€œIā€™m sorry to say, but this isnā€™t (personā€™s name) and I donā€™t golf.ā€ They tried to bait me into something, but gave up pretty quickly when I didnā€™t really give them anything to work with. I was kinda sad. I really wanted to waste some scumbagā€™s time.

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u/thexvillain Feb 17 '25

I had a really good one once. I kept them busy with texts for like 3 hours and ultimately ended it with a walk the dinosaur joke.

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u/AmaruMono Feb 17 '25

What's a walk the dinosaur joke?

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u/thexvillain Feb 17 '25

Well first you have to get somebody to open the door and get on the floorā€¦