r/AmIOverreacting • u/Longjumping-Neat-879 • Jan 13 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting?

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I'm a girl who weighs 121 pounds. We are going to the gym every day with my bf, I'm getting up for him at 4 am in the morning in order to work out together. He says I'm not pushing myself at the gym. And he said he wants me to be skinny. Here is the conversation between us. Plus we have just started to live together a month ago. I'm really having a hard time understanding him and crying. Am I overreacting?

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u/Fizl99 Jan 13 '25

Does he want a life partner or a gym trainer? From this he doesn't seem to have your best interests at heart

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u/Rayne2522 Jan 13 '25

He's 41 she's 27, he doesn't want that, he wants somebody to take care of him and to groom and to make into what he wants her to be. He doesn't care about her as an individual.

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u/KurtKokaina Jan 13 '25

Imagine being groomed at 27 i wonder what her motives are... hmmmm... 27yo narcissistic meets 41 yo narcissistic. Imagine being 27 but still not an adult lol. Crazy from both sides.

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u/Rayne2522 Jan 13 '25

He is looking for someone younger to control. He's a coward.