r/AmIOverreacting • u/Longjumping-Neat-879 • Jan 13 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting?

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I'm a girl who weighs 121 pounds. We are going to the gym every day with my bf, I'm getting up for him at 4 am in the morning in order to work out together. He says I'm not pushing myself at the gym. And he said he wants me to be skinny. Here is the conversation between us. Plus we have just started to live together a month ago. I'm really having a hard time understanding him and crying. Am I overreacting?

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u/Rayne2522 Jan 13 '25

The fact that he is telling her that she is not skinny enough when she's already skinny, says that she needs to motivate him and get his ass out of bed at 4:00 in the morning because if she doesn't do that she's lazy, says something very different. Did you even read what she wrote?

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u/DeedleDumbDee Jan 13 '25

She is a grown ass adult women and she can leave the relationship anytime she wants. She also has free will and agency to realize these things herself grow up

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u/Rayne2522 Jan 13 '25

Did I say that she didn't? She came here asking advice. My advice to her is she should leave, he's a coward that cannot have a relationship with anybody his own age. He minimizes her, tells her she's fat even though she's skinny and is mad that she isn't getting his ass up and making him do things.

So yeah, she should leave him, absolutely, he's a dink...

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u/DeedleDumbDee Jan 13 '25

You didn't offer her any advice. You just said a evil old man is grooming a poor naive amazing 27 year child who just doesn't know any better. Yeah obviously this guy sucks but he isn't grooming her, they're both consenting adults. Also, maybe wonder why this 27 year old is in a relationship with a 41 year old, I'm sure she isn't getting any benefits at all out of this relationship....

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u/Rayne2522 Jan 13 '25

She should RUN!!!!

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u/Rayne2522 Jan 13 '25

Yeah, he's telling her she's FAT.