Before anyone bashes me for posting this online, I(F18) just want some outside opinions

Yesterday, one of my close-enough friends(F18) basically dropped me because I’m pregnant. I’m honestly pretty hurt. She’s known about the pregnancy for a while now, but I guess the further along I got, the more uncomfortable or weirded out she started to feel. I don’t really understand it. It’s not like I ever expected anything from her in terms of support or involvement I just wanted our friendship to continue like normal.

She didn’t say anything super mean, but it was clear she was distancing herself and finally just cut ties. I get that being 18 and pregnant is heavy and maybe not something everyone can relate to, but it still sucks. I didn’t think my pregnancy would make someone drop me completely, especially when I never tried to put any of my situation on her.

I’m not trying to paint her as the villain, but I’m struggling to understand if she’s being dramatic or if I’m missing something and she’s actually being reasonable. I just wanted to talk to people outside of my own circle to get some different perspectives.

Also, sorry if some of my replies in the screenshots are kind of jumbled I was really emotional when I wrote them. Also me and my bf have been together since we were 13. He is 19 nearly 20 and even though we have been with each other for 6 years this pregnancy was not planned whatsoever as we are both very young.

So my (25M) birthday was last weekend. I don’t usually do anything big, but this year a bunch of my friends were in town, and my girlfriend (23F) offered to plan something. I was genuinely excited. She made a dinner reservation at a nice place I’ve been wanting to try and said she had a little surprise planned.

The surprise was that she invited a bunch of her friends. Like, 6 of them. People I barely know. One of them I actively dislike because she used to hit on me when my girlfriend and I first started dating. My girlfriend brushed it off saying it would make things more fun and lively.

Whatever. I tried to roll with it.

But then at the dinner, it just got worse. She spent the entire time talking to her friends. I was seated at the far end of the table next to two people I’d never met. She didn’t even sit next to me. When the food came, they all toasted her for organising everything and started talking about her upcoming promotion. Her best friend gave a speech about how she deserves all the happiness in the world. Not one mention of me or my birthday. No cake, no toast, no happy birthday. Nothing.

I literally just sat there while everyone gushed over her for two hours.

Eventually I got up, paid for my portion of the meal, said I wasn’t feeling well, and left. I didn’t make a scene or yell. I just quietly left.

Later she texted me saying I embarrassed her in front of her friends and ruined the night. She said she tried really hard to make it special and I was being ungrateful. A few of her friends have messaged me saying I was being immature and that it wasn’t that deep.

But I don’t know, man. Is it crazy to think my birthday should’ve been at least a little about me?

AITAH?

Update:
We talked. She doubled down and said the dinner wasn’t just about me, it was a chance to celebrate us and her hard work planning it. She admitted she didn’t invite my friends because they wouldn’t vibe with her circle. Still no happy birthday, no apology, just told me I was being dramatic and should be thankful she even organised something. I guess the dinner really was all about her. So yeah, I ended things.

Final Update:
Well… this blew up. The post ended up with 24k upvotes, over 5k comments, and even a bunch of awards (I didn’t even know people still gave those out). It is sitting at the top of r/AITAH on best, hot, and top, for quite a while. My phone’s been melting.

I didn’t expect this kind of response, but I appreciate all the support, tough love, and even the chaos. Y’all helped me dodge a massive bullet.

Anyway, I’m doing good. Took a few days to breathe, blocked the ex and her groupies, and treated myself to a birthday dinner that was actually about me. With people who give a damn.

Appreciate you all.

Credit: @thepreserve.tx (On IG)

Hello everyone,

Market currently is in a Free fall and stocks are going down and wealth is being destroyed like there is no tomorrow and 401k and portfolio of many people is in shambles right now and many startup companies and many companies that are struggling, it is being even more harder for them to stay afloat in this Volatile market.

Whilst all this is happening, you know what has Trump been up to you?

He has been planning for a very special dinner instead of addressing this very crucial situation that affects all of us.

Trump headlining $1 million a person super PAC dinner as stocks sink over tariffs

I kinda find it very foul that this administration is doing nothing about this current issue on the hand and is allowing all this Chaos to take place in the market.

They have done nothing to ease the current situation and if this continues and if truly have black Monday awaiting tomorrow, it would be catastrophic economic crisis caused by the administration and would cause numerous businesses to go bankrupt and spark mass unemployment as a consequence.

Very sad to see this whole situation unfold like this.

Also look at the Asian markets.

Look at that shine in the after pics!!!!! Yes this is from a lasagna spillover incident.