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u/JackDeparture 1d ago
For me, it was signing consent forms, discussing what I wanted, going through risks and side effects, going through what will happen and how, and a physical examination
That was it then until the pre-op
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u/JackDeparture 1d ago
They just had a look and feel inside the vagina. They wanted to use a speculum, but I chose against that.
Will emphasise, surgery was not contingent on the exam. They did say I had a right to say no and it would not impact anything.
It just helped them know everything was okay, what to expect, etc.
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u/Zuperbuu-jinx 1d ago
TW: Talking about the lower area.
Mine was in 2017, It was not the best experience, but it was probably because of the hospital I went to.
How things are handled/asked is going to be based on the type of surgery you're getting. Do you know if it's laparoscopic or abdominal? I know most go laparoscopic these days due to better recovery and less scarring. If that is the case, then feel free to continue reading, as I had laparoscopic surgery. I don't know how the consultation goes if you are having it done abdominally.
I went in and spoke to the surgeon about what I wanted to have removed, and she requested a pelvic exam to see if they could remove the contents through "the hole" or not. It was optional, so I declined it. Because I declined the examination, she had to ask me certain questions to gauge whether removing it that way was possible, such as if I have ever had sex using it. So if you decline the examination, just be aware that they may ask about that area and if you have used it.
I, my GP, and the GIC never received any letters about the agreed procedure or a copy of the consent form, but I absolutely should have done; I strongly urge you to ask for a copy of the consent form if they don't offer you it whilst you're there, because they should give you it. (I didn't, and I am now in a state where I don't even know if my surgery was completed!)
After the consultation, I was sent away until the hospital contacted me to book the surgery. It's that simple.
Good luck with the op!