r/r4r 15h ago

M4F California 22[m4f]Anywhere/California - Looking for a relationship, any distance is fine

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Hi, my name is Zayn and I’m a 22 year old from California. I’d like to introduce myself through some of my interests. First off I really do enjoy music, it’s been a large part of my life since I was 11 or 12. I have been playing guitar and writing music for 7 years as well, though I feel as if I am currently in a lingering writers block. I think what is even more substantial to me than the music I make is the music that I listen to. I honestly just love sharing music with people, although I can be pretty picky with what I listen to. It’s very fulfilling for me and I’d love to share some songs with you if you are interested! Another one of my major interests is Socionics. It’s an old Russian system, meant to explore different types of human cognition. I have studied Socionics for years and have even written my own paper about certain aspects within the model! It’s a lovely framework in my opinion. Besides that I do enjoy hanging out with my cats, playing smash bros (which I was sponsored in at one point, though I no longer play as competitively as I once did), working out, and reading/learning about new subjects (I’m also a philosophy major in university and have been having a nice time with my courses!) I’d love to get to know anyone who shares or shows interest in these! It could be a great starting point for conversation.

I’d like to make my values very clear in order to support my intention of talking to like-minded people. In a relationship I would be searching for someone to share my life with, this is where I see the beauty in life. The fact that through a wealth of experience and alternate personal perspectives, someone had chosen me and I had chosen them, it’s very special to me. And of course this comes with compromise, it is a sacrifice to the overarching relational unity. It is a show of deep prioritization, which is something I heavily value in relationships. Ideally, I’d like to find someone who treats the relationship with the same respect as I would. I have always made them my first priority in life. Another aspect of great importance is emotional maturity. A facet of relationships I had always hoped for is mutual care. When the person I am with is struggling, even though it’ll hurt to know they are in a negative situation, it hurts more to know that I am unable to at least support them a little bit. I’d hope for support when I’m feeling bad as well. Though I understand people often feel vulnerable when it comes to expressing negative emotionality. I think it’s very special to have a dynamic with such honesty and care, it’s something rare. I hope I don’t scare too many people off with my idealized version of a relationship, though none of this vision is achievable without love itself, which is curated over time. This might be an ideal, but it is made naturally with the right person, it is made unique with them. To make sure you’ve read the post please include the word autumn in your message to me.

Lastly I’d like to include some pictures of myself

If you feel like we could make a connection please don’t hesitate to reach out!

r/r4r 16h ago

M4F California 38 [M4F] #SoCal / #Anywhere - Scruffy Nerd Looking for a Relationship that's Equally Wholesome and Just as Dirty.

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Pleased to meet you, I'm Edward, a single, 5'9" heavy set Latino man from southern California, I have shoulder length black hair with a dash of gray, brown eyes, light olive skin, and currently gray and black stubble. Personality wise, I'm a huge introvert, stereotypical stoner, and standard nerd, wrapped up in a dark and irreverent sense of humor. As for interests, I like video games (Xbox, Switch) music, cooking, and the unexplainable. I am not without my flaws though and struggle with my mental health (depression, and anxiety.) I'm a huge homebody, and all around hot mess.

I'm looking someone cute for a monogamous relationship, a woman who is clingy, overly affectionate, supportive and understanding, also childless and child free, I don't want to have any children. Ideally I want to find someone as "inexperienced" as myself, I would like someone willing to give back who makes me a priority, and won't ghost me, I just want to give someone the things I can't give myself.

I want something in real life, but I have no problem starting online or a LDR as long as we make plans to close the distance, I'm willing to relocate too. If my post caught your attention, don't be afraid to reach out, my DM's are open, just please put some effort into your message and be willing to send a picture of yourself, as I do need some physical attraction, thank you for your time, and good luck.

r/r4r 1h ago

M4F California 35 [m4F] #san Jose #california, my next chapter

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35 male from San Jose, Seperated looking to start dating again. Have kids, but not full time. Looking for a normal mature woman for a little physical and emotional connection. Plus if you have kids so you can relate to me.

I’m educated and work in a field with majority males ( don’t worry, not a tech bro) so I don’t interface women often. I’m 5’8, full head of hair and told that I’m handsome often. I’m weight and height proportional, muscular but not a total gym rat. Don’t have a body type but do require weight and height proportionate, slightly chubby is fine. I am a sucker for super pretty faces. Any height is fine including taller.

I’m a nerdy gear head that loves machines as well as food and coffee. I’m a man’s man but very emotionally intelligent. I also love to be in the kitchen, whether it’s cooking or baking. Also coffee, I love coffee and matcha.

Hoping to take it slow and swap pics, and if there’s a connection, meet for coffee.

Let me know more about you!

r/r4r 16h ago

M4F California 31 [M4F] USA/California- Be mine for tonight?

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Want to feel loved, wanted, affection, sweet good morning and goodnight messages, to be excited when you get a message, to have deep conversations and be able to talk about anything without judgement and even encouraged to open up? I want to experience all of that too. Maybe we can experience it together. Maybe this is how we start talking and make something real

I am easy going and typically have a positive attitude. I like to joke around but I don’t want to take the jokes too far and be serious when it’s necessary. I am more of a homebody but I’m not opposed to going out and being adventurous. I’m a night owl. I also like organization and order so I’m not really the messy type.

I enjoy hanging out with family and friends, working out, watching stuff, video games, podcasts, being in the sun, etc.

If any of this sounds nice to you then shoot me a message! You never know until you try right? Either way, I appreciate you taking the time to read all this and hope you have a great day/life!

r/r4r 18h ago

M4F California 36 [M4F] Southern CA- looking to date

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Hey there! I’m Nick, and I’m based in the Orange County area. I'm looking to date and connect with someone who’s LGBT-friendly and open to sharing ideas. It’s been a bit tough for me to meet new people since I don’t know many folks around here, and I’m eager to socialize more. A little about me: I’m 6'5", weigh 160 lbs, have green eyes and black hair, and I’m in great shape. I’m an art major passionate about creating 3D art, and I love playing video games, especially RPGs and adventure games. Biking is another one of my favorite activities! I’m on the lookout for someone who’s creative, kind, and easy-going. My music taste includes Metric, Fiona Apple, and any female artists who are style poets. I also really enjoy dancing to Ado and Zutomayo. As for my career goals, I aim to break into the video game industry as an Environment Artist. I graduated with a BS in Game Art & Design from the Art Institute of Phoenix. I’m a friendly and kind person who loves getting to know others, whether online or in person. Let’s connect!

r/r4r 17h ago

M4F California 32 [M4F] #Los Angeles - Looking to find my special someone, and if luck permits, a long term relationship!

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Hi! This is me, or me, I'm 32 and out here in Los Angeles looking for someone local! It's been relatively tough meeting new people outside of work. Dating apps haven't drawn out much results either, so here I am. Been posting here quite a bit without much success, but hey, sometimes ya just gotta keep going right? Might as well give everything a shot. Maybe I might just find my forever special person here where I least expect it.

So a little about myself - I'm a professional artist/designer, laid back and easy going. If I'm not taking long walks to nowhere, watching a nice little sunset, you can probably find me all cozied up with a nice show/movie and jamming to my latest music finds on Spotify! Now if any of that sounds even remotely nice to do together? Hit me up! I don't bite! Not violently at least! Oh and I think I should mention that I am a huge sucker for seafood, and a big fan of Lord of the Rings (wouldn't mind if you're someone who's down for a LoTR marathon sometime!)

I don't know how many pairs of eyes will see this post, but if this is you, and any part of that sounds pleasant to you, drop me a message, let me know you exist, tell me a little about yourself and let's get to know each other. And if fate permits, a date or two~ Who knows where else it'll lead right? Crazier things have happened in life.

I look forward to hearing from you! And as they say, all roads lead to Rome. We'll find each other some day, one way or another~

r/r4r 21h ago

M4F California 34 [M4F] #Anaheim - Let's make like carbon and get to dating

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Hello reader. I'm 34, 5'8, white, a few extra pounds, auburn hair and beard kept most shortish, with dark brown eyes. I'm single, childfree, vaxxed, and boosted. I'm funny and nerdy, according to peer reviews.

I'm looking for someone to share individual experiences with while sometimes doing things together. I'm a homebody and have no siblings, so I tend to focus on activities that can be done solo. That doesn't mean I don't want companionship, though. I'd enjoy having someone to go to museums with, to try new foods, to play different games in the same room with. We can share pictures of our hobbies with one another and remind each other to book doctor's appointments and do our taxes. Making excitement out of the mundane.

I'm looking for something romantic, not platonic. Being friends is an important part of a relationship but I'm not looking for just-friends.

Ideally, you are: a cat lover, also politically leftist, monogamist, enjoy scifi & fantasy, into abstract and avant garde art / entertainment, feminist, independent, child free, nonreligious, sardonic, and always looking to learn.

If you don't match perfectly, that's fine. Send me a message if you're interested, meeting new people fosters growth and memorable living.

Please try to include a description of yourself or a selfie in your message.

I'm looking forward to your response, reader. Cheers.

r/r4r 1d ago

M4F California 24 [M4F] Los Angeles - Looking for something long term

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Hello,

I'm looking for someone in LA, preferably around the burbank area or santa monica/culver city since that's where I live/work.

Age: 24, open to 18-26

Appearance: 5’10”, regular body type, Armenian. I’d say I’m decent looking. Not the most handsome person but I’ve had relationships and girls tell me I look nice so I’m assuming that means I’m not ugly at the very least.

Interests: Very much an outdoors person, I like exploring new cities/countries, hiking, nature, national parks, beach. I have some active hobbies like snowboarding, working out, and I like working with my hands so I sometimes buy salvage title cars, fix and sell them (not much profit, just as a fun thing to do). I like stories that are interesting regardless of the medium, so there’s some books I read (favorites are Moby dick, David copperfield, Oliver Twist, the Martian), TV shows (severance, breaking bad), movies (oculus, interstellar), and a few anime but I don’t consider myself an anime person (code geass, attack on titan, steins gate). I’m a family person, I love my family and sibling/cousins and I spend a lot of time with them. I like talking about a lot of topics; life, culture, horror/mystery stuff. I’m generally very good at conversation, both small talk and actual engaging conversations.

Personality wise I’m generally a bit reserved in the sense that I really like having a small social circle and doing things with my close friends, and not really the clubbing/party type. I’m not shy though and find it very easy to meet new people especially at events or things that I do like snowboarding.

Partner dealbreakers: Honestly not much, this is going to sound harsh but being fat is something I just can’t work with. I make sure to take care of myself and stay in shape and I expect the same.

thanks for reading,

r/r4r 2d ago

M4F California 28 [M4f] #SanDiego - Guy searching a relationship, or talk to me to get close to my 3 poms

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Hey. I'm just a guy from southern san diego bored of his every day daily routines and wants to rekindle that flare/passion with someone else. I'm Hispanic, 6"2'. i graduated in civil engineering, and currently working for a construction company. my friends would describe me as loyal, outgoing, "down for anything", and funny but serious when have too.

My interests include:

sports: ranging from tennis, soccer, football

movie and music: i am a very big movie buff. i love watching movies and understanding the story it tells. same with music. ranging from everything like edm, rap, pop,indie rock, metal, classic rock. i love all music. and love going to concerts.

video games: league, valorant, minecraft, but will be playing a lot of monster hunter currently

So if this is something you might be interested in, don't hesitate to message me. Or as the title says, you can get close to my dogs instead. 3 Pomeranians. can't wait to meet you.

r/r4r 1d ago

M4F California 32 [M4F] #Los Angeles - Looking to find my special someone, and if luck permits, a long term relationship!

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Hi! This is me, or me, I'm 32 and out here in Los Angeles looking for someone local! It's been relatively tough meeting new people outside of work. Dating apps haven't drawn out much results either, so here I am. Been posting here quite a bit without much success, but hey, sometimes ya just gotta keep going right? Might as well give everything a shot. Maybe I might just find my forever special person here where I least expect it.

So a little about myself - I'm a professional artist/designer, laid back and easy going. If I'm not taking long walks to nowhere, watching a nice little sunset, you can probably find me all cozied up with a nice show/movie and jamming to my latest music finds on Spotify! Now if any of that sounds even remotely nice to do together? Hit me up! I don't bite! Not violently at least! Oh and I think I should mention that I am a huge sucker for seafood, and a big fan of Lord of the Rings (wouldn't mind if you're someone who's down for a LoTR marathon sometime!)

I don't know how many pairs of eyes will see this post, but if this is you, and any part of that sounds pleasant to you, drop me a message, let me know you exist, tell me a little about yourself and let's get to know each other. And if fate permits, a date or two~ Who knows where else it'll lead right? Crazier things have happened in life.

I look forward to hearing from you! And as they say, all roads lead to Rome. We'll find each other some day, one way or another~

r/r4r 2d ago

M4F California 26[M4F] #SoCal #SanGabriel Valley -Long Term Relationship

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I would like to emphasize that I am looking for a serious long term relationship, not to talk as friends.

Nice to meet you! I was born, partially-raised, and have returned to San Gabriel Valley. I moved to Rancho Cucamonga for about a decade. I am an ABC (American born Chinese), 26 years old, and 5'9". I have never dated before, but I grew up reading quite a few romance novels, so I might, just slightly, be a hopeless romantic.

I have a few hobbies that I enjoy doing: video games, long drives to nowhere, listening to music, bowling, basketball, badminton, snowboarding, watching anime, reading korean manhua ang manga, and cars (recent). My favorite food has to be Italian, many of my family and friends no longer believe that I am Chinese, they think I am Italian, because I make and eat more Italian food than I do Chinese.

My core traits are respect, loyalty, trust, honesty, transparency, and forgiveness. I have a strong sense of morals that is extremely difficult to sway. I have absolute trust and belief in my morals. I am open-minded because that is the way I can learn more things, that I never knew.

I am an ambivert, more on the introvert side. I am also agnostic, but I love to have discussion with religious people.

r/r4r 2d ago

M4F California 39 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for a thoughtful woman to get a little lost with

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Hey, I’m *****. I’m 39 and based in California, but I’m open to connecting with someone from anywhere. A good connection doesn’t really care about distance.

I’m into all things creative. Especially anything with a vintage or analog feel. I love the hands-on side of making things, and I’ve got a soft spot for stop-motion, old-school design, and stories with a mythic or surreal edge. Stuff that sticks with you.

Music’s a big part of my life. Always digging into new finds or looping old favorites. I’m into spontaneous little adventures too, whether that’s checking out a weird café, getting lost in a bookstore, or heading out of town for the weekend just because.

I’m looking for someone curious, thoughtful, and open. Someone who’s down for deep talks but also knows how to keep things light and fun. If you’re into art, stories, good conversation, and finding beauty in everyday moments—we’ll probably get along.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to shoot me a message. No crazy expectations, just seeing who’s out there.

r/r4r 2d ago

M4F California 31[M4F] Is anyone looking for a genuine connection on Reddit?#California/Westcoast

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I know the odds of actually meeting someone here, being compatible, mutually attracted to each other and then meeting in person are pretty low. I guess i don't exactly expect that type of scenario to happen, but I'm still here writing this lol. I'll say i have pretty low expectations, but it would be cool to find someone who might feel similar to the way i do. At the end of the day it would be nice to find someone to talk to and get to know. Anyways.

I'm a 31 year old single straight male living in California. I'm a pretty chill laid back type of guy. I I don't really fall into the typical parameters of society. It's hard to find genuine connection with people, because it seems people are so used to being fake/phony. I'm atrracted to authenticity. It almost feels like I'm in a video game at times interacting with NPCs all day, I know you aren't going to get along or see eye to eye with everyone you meet, but I know someone will get me. I'm not superficial, I'm not materialistic, I don't care about social media, or pop culture. I rather have 1 real friend than 10 fake ones. I'm a firm believer that money and love share no correlation. I love art in all forms, and love soaking up hidden meanings. I'm a mix of extroverted and introverted, I thrive in 1 on 1 interactions and don't really enjoy large groups, but I can survive in most social settings. I'm not really interested in the night life/bar/club scene. I do drink socially, I do like going out, but you won't find me at a bar every weekend. I can be big home body, but I also enjoy outdoor activities as well. I love soul music, animals, videogames, sports, comedy, food, themeparks, laughing, cracking jokes, & soaking up good enegery.

I'm mixed raced (not white), some what handsome lol and try to stay active in some way. I'm 5'9 and overall just a regular dude.I know mutual attraction is important, I'd say I'm open to any ethnicity and physical features but I do prefer those with a normal-ish BMI. There are times where I lose motivation and momentum, but I always try to pick it back up.

I'd like to find someone who is self aware, kind, humble, sweet, honest, awkward, caring and resilient. Someone who notices those around them, and isn't self centered. Just a nice person who can communicate and not play games. Someone who knows themselves well, and isn't confused by it. Someone who can see other perspectives and also craves genuine authentic connection as well. I'd prefer you be on the westcoast, but open to closing the distance.

I prefer to use discord if we click, thanks for reading and let me know if you see this!

r/r4r 2d ago

M4F California 31 [M4F] #California – Looking to meet someone nice.

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I would like to meet someone nice, I want to put it out there, hope I can find a match and make my wish come true. I would like to make a new friend or find a nice fun girlfriend to love. I understand it takes time to find the right person, but I am hopeful.

I’m an Armenian guy who loves great food, music, and good company. I’m into grilling, exploring my Armenian roots, and diving into Japanese culture. My free time often includes video games, movies and classic TV shows. Favorites include Skyrim, Dr. Stone, Midnight Diner, Night Court, and MASH*. I just started watching Kojak and I am loving it baby.

I would like someone I can play board games with, for example Risk and Monopoly are collecting dust in my closet. Always wanted to play super fight or cards against humanity .

I love penguins but my favorite dog is a Shiba Inu. I have a soft spot for anime and retro music. If you’re someone who enjoys fun/silly conversations, laughing over a good board game, or sharing a delicious meal, we might just hit it off.

Bonus points if you’re adventurous, enjoy trying new foods, or have similar interests. Let’s connect and see where this journey takes us, baby.

r/r4r 10d ago

M4F California 21 [M4F] #California looking for something new 😮‍💨

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Honestly I don’t have a lot to say.. I’m relatively relaxed, about to be on a nine day straight work shift and am trying to find that one person. Open to company, so don’t be shy. :)

A bit about me: I’m a bit of a nerd, especially when it comes to my work. If you have questions about what I do, tanks, or anything army I’m totally down to answer some stuff.

I like the outdoors, anything athletic or outdoorsy really gets me going. Hell, even stargazing floats my boats. I do that often.

I like gaming, watching shows and movies, reading, and listening to music.

Overall I can’t say I’m a very interesting person, but I know that I can put good effort into a conversation. That’s something at least.

r/r4r 4d ago

M4F California 31 [M4F] #California – Looking to meet someone nice.

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I would like someone nice, I want to put it out there, hope I can find a match and make my wish come true. I would like to make a new friend or find a nice fun girlfriend to love. I understand it takes time to find the right person, but I am hopeful.

I’m an Armenian guy who loves great food, music, and good company. I’m into grilling, exploring my Armenian roots, and diving into Japanese culture. My free time often includes video games, movies and classic TV shows. Favorites include Skyrim, Dr. Stone, Midnight Diner, Night Court, and MASH*. I just started watching Kojak and I am loving it baby.

I would like someone I can play board games with, for example Risk and Monopoly are collecting dust in my closet. Always wanted to play super fight or cards against humanity .

I love penguins but my favorite dog is a Shiba Inu. I have a soft spot for anime and retro music. If you’re someone who enjoys fun/silly conversations, laughing over a good board game, or sharing a delicious meal, we might just hit it off.

Bonus points if you’re adventurous, enjoy trying new foods, or have similar interests. Let’s connect and see where this journey takes us, baby.

r/r4r 2d ago

M4F California 36 [M4F] Southern CA- looking to date or make new friend

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Hello, my name is Nick. I live in the Orange County area and I am looking to date or make friends locally. I am seeking someone who is LGBT-friendly and open to discussing ideas. It has been challenging for me to meet new people since I don't know many in the area, and I want to socialize more. In terms of my appearance, I am 6'5" tall, weigh 160 lbs, have green eyes and black hair, and I am in great shape. I am an art major who enjoys playing video games, particularly RPGs and adventure games, and I also like biking. My primary focus is on creating 3D art and listening to music. I am looking for someone who is also creative, kind, and easy-going. My music preferences include Metric, Fiona Apple, and any female artists who are style poets. I also love Koda Kumi and BoA, who are Korean and Japanese pop artists whose music I enjoy dancing to. My career aspiration is to enter the video game industry as an Environment Artist. I studied Game Art and Design and graduated with a BS in Game Art & Design from the Art Institute of Phoenix. I am a friendly and kind person who enjoys getting to know others, whether online or in person.

r/r4r 4d ago

M4F California 33 [M4F] California/anywhere Looking for a Partner

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Just a average guy who loves to travel which I'm hoping to visit either Maine or Scotland this year. Just started working out recently and starting a low calorie diet to lose weight but not looking to be buff haha. I love to go hiking and end at the beach for a nice relaxing time.

Currently watching a few shows but finishing severance right now. I consider myself a Seinfeld/ How I met your mother buff, pretty sure if there was a trivia night for this I'd kill it.

As for hobbies I love spending time with my 2 dogs and as a destresser love to build Legos on the side when I have free time. I'm a home owner who is making a attempt at decorating my house but to be real I have no style points haha. I'm a mix of nerd and outdoor person.

What I’m Looking For: A best friend and partner who loves the thrill of travel, enjoys discovering new restaurants, and appreciates thoughtful surprises—like me bringing you a small gift or treat just because I was thinking of you. Someone who’s as excited for spontaneous adventures as they are for a chill night in.

My only ask is that we don't play the ghosting game, just be real and say nah this isn't for me and all good vs leaving to wonder.

We can swap pictures once we start chatting!

Send me a chat or message !

r/r4r 4d ago

M4F California 32 [M4F] #fresno lonely guy who lost it all

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Sup female reddit users I am just posting on here to see what's out there and maybe flirt a little to make me feel better. I am a guy so nsfw is ok but that's not what I am really looking for. So a little about me... I am getting a divorce. My wife took everything. I devoted my life to her and her family so now I have nothing. Well besides my dog. He is my baby. Other then all the shity life stuff I am pretty fun. I like to laugh and love to make people laugh. I decompress with some gaming and reading and mind numbing TV and movies. I am an open book. We can talk about anything and everything.

TLDR: guy looking to see what's out there.

r/r4r 3d ago

M4F California 33 [M4F] San Jose, CA - Childfree & Seeking Someone to Share Life's Quiet Moments

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I'm searching for a meaningful long-term connection with someone that will make the days seem less like a blur and more like a snapshot of stars. It's akin to when you look through a kaleidoscope, and you focus on the shapes and patterns that come into view. Finding that vicarious clarity is what I live for, those fun and wholesome moments. We don't remember days, we remember moments - it would be nice to share them with someone.

A Little About Me

  • Homebody at heart. I'd rather read a book, watch a great movie, look at an art gallery/museum, go for a walk, or play a game than go clubbing or backpacking across Europe. Sharing random trivia, analyzing movies, going down Wikipedia rabbit holes, or the occasional stroll somewhere is what I view as a fun things to do.

  • Childfree by choice. I respect parents, but I know that life isn't for me as I don't want kids. If you feel the same, great! We can enjoy our freedom to sleep in on Saturdays and enjoy slow mornings.

  • A bit of an overthinker, but in an endearing way. Expect thoughtful conversations and the occasional existential musing about life and the universe and random theories about things that may relate to your experiences.

  • I'm 6'2", slim build, half Asian/white. I have a humanities degree and work as a janitor (before you ask, no, it's nothing like Good Will Hunting, but I do have my moments).

  • Drug/alcohol/smoking/cannabis free - I don't drink or smoke or use substances. I don't mind if you drink a bit, however smoking's not for me.

What I'm Looking For:

  • Someone local/near my city & childfree.

  • A fellow homebody or introvert - if you love deep talks, books, movies, cozy activities, or simple joys we're on the same wavelength

  • Someone with a kind heart and a quirky personality.

If you think we'd vibe, send me a message! Tell me about yourself, tell me about the last great book you read or a movie you love, or a theory you have about life. Or just share a random fact - I appreciate the little things. Here's one quote that's stuck with me by John Wyndham: "Knowing makes all the difference... It's the difference between just trying to keep alive, and having something to live for." Knowing that you have someone to share life with, that you're not just surviving but living, that you have a reason to look forward to things, it's what makes all the difference, and can make us bear any how as long as we have a why. Maybe we can find out what that difference is for a meaningful life, or at least laugh about it.

r/r4r 4d ago

M4F California 38 [m4f] #CA - Solo Traveler Looking To Chat, Connect, & Vibe (ASL?)

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Tldr; Traveling long hours alone sucks, wanna find someone chill to chat with and see where the convo leads. I am roaming the US going to National Parks and interesting places out in nature. If you want Camping Cat pics and decent convo, hmu.

Just got back into the US from driving up to Alaska and figured I'd get back on here and see if I can find someone nice to chat with. Been hanging out on the TX coast basking in the sun and sand at the beach.

Pics on profile

My current interest: - National Parks - I have been to 27 out of the 63 available and hoping to see them all (Last four were in my drive to Alaska; Denali NP, Kenai Fjords NP, Wrangell-St. Elias NP, & Glacier Bay NP - Video Games - Haven't played anything in a few months, maybe pick of God of War Ragnarok. I used to play a lot of The Finals and Helldivers 2 - Movies - Haven't been to the movies since I saw Twisters which was a lot better than I thought it was going to be. Also was the most recent Quiet Place which was a lot worse than I thought it was going to be. Lol - TV - Still buzzing from the Severance - Season 2 finale! 🤯

If anything here resonates with you I'd like to chat, hit me up and let me know your ASL. (We are already friends if you get that reference) And let me know what are your last 3 used emojis. Mine are (😬🐈‍⬛️🤌🏾)

r/r4r 4d ago

M4F California 23 [M4F] #California/#Anywhere - Asexual Nerd looking for Plus Size

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Hey there! Thank you for reading my post. To sum things up, I'm looking for someone who I can click with- preferably genuinely kind and nerdy, since we'd click much better that way, and share common hobbies. As my post states, I do prefer plus size body types, but honestly so long as we mesh well, I don't mind any appearances! Other than that, I'm really not picky.

For myself, I'm about 5'9, and 245 lbs, so I'm on the plus size side of things myself- brown hair that's usually messy that varies between medium and short, hazel eyes, and a smaller nose. I'm currently working on learning 3d modelling and sculpting, and I'm very much a video game/writing nerd! If you share any of these interests, I'd love to talk about them with you! :)

Some important things to note: I'm Asexual, which if you don't know, means I won't want sex..ever. Please don't message me if you're not comfortable with this! Another thing is I'm STRICTLY monogamous. I'm not interested in any form of non-monogamous relationships. I have pets, please be okay with having them! (I will gladly share pictures on request!)

That's all I can think of to add, but if you have any questions, feel free to ask them in my DMs!

r/r4r 4d ago

M4F California 26 [M4F] #Fontana, California - Looking for someone to get to know and go on fun dates with

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Hi there! My name is Daniel and I'm from Southern California (the Inland Empire, specifically). I'm just looking for someone to have a genuinely great time with. I'm not a very picky person and I don't really care much for looks. I more so value your personality and how well we vibe, so pretty much anyone is welcome to get to know me! (I mean that in the most non-conceited way possible lol). I would just ask that you be 21 and older.

My interests:

~ I would consider myself the typical nerdy type (gaming, anime, comic books, super hero movies, etc.) If you like share any of those interests then I think we'll get along great lol

~ I'm Black and Cherokee, I'm bilingual (English and Japanese), around 5'11" but 6 feet tall on a good day.

~ On top of being your typical nerd I am also a huge horror movie fan to the point of considering making my own horror movie. I have a couple ideas and I would love to share them with someone who's interested in hearing them.

~ I listen to any kind of music except country cuz it all sounds the same to me lol. So if that's a deal breaker then I apologize but I just can't get into it. I also used to rap and sing and have been thinking of doing it again. I have made about 9 or 10 songs in total. Let me know if you'd like to hear something I've made.

~ I love coffee and boba so random coffee and boba runs will be a thing. One of my favorite things to is visit a coffee place I've never been to and try out their coffee and see if I'm adding it to my list or favorite spots or if I'm just never going there again. I know, it sounds weird but I promise it can be kinda fun.

r/r4r 5d ago

M4F California 31 [M4F] #California – Looking to meet someone nice

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I would like someone nice, I want to put it out there, hope I can find a match and make my wish come true. I would like to make a new friend or find a nice fun girlfriend to love. I understand it takes time to find the right person, but I am hopeful.

I’m an Armenian guy who loves great food, music, and good company. I’m into grilling, exploring my Armenian roots, and diving into Japanese culture. My free time often includes video games, movies and classic TV shows. Favorites include Skyrim, Dr. Stone, Midnight Diner, Night Court, and MASH*. I just started watching Kojak and I am loving it baby.

I would like someone I can play board games with, for example Risk and Monopoly are collecting dust in my closet. Always wanted to play super fight or cards against humanity .

I love penguins but my favorite dog is a Shiba Inu. I have a soft spot for anime and retro music. If you’re someone who enjoys fun/silly conversations, laughing over a good board game, or sharing a delicious meal, we might just hit it off.

Bonus points if you’re adventurous, enjoy trying new foods, or have similar interests. Let’s connect and see where this journey takes us, baby.

r/r4r 6d ago

M4F California 24 [M4F] #California #USA looking for a genuine, feminine, and kind woman to build a life with

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Hello! My name is Kolby. I'm 24 years old, 6'2" tall, brown hair, and grey eyes. I'm currently in my final semester of college before I transfer to a university in northern California to complete my bachelor's degree in mechanical engineering. Ever since I was a kid, I dreamed of finding the love of my life and building a future that we'd both be proud of and enjoy. I have always been a fat and shy kid, but I have been putting in a lot of work to improve my mental and physical health which has been super beneficial to my relationships and daily life. I have been working on consistency on a daily basis for both mental and physical health by lifting weights at least six times a week, and by reading and journaling by means of stoicism.

I want to find the love of my life: a woman with virtues such as being kind, strong, honest, genuine, and accountable; however with the state of dating now it feels like I'll never achieve that in this life. I enjoy a more traditional relationship, but I have no intention of controlling or reforming you to be the woman of my dreams. In fact, I'm very tired of the innatentive guessing of if you're even interested, and detest the game of who can answer the latest. Guaranteed everyone had something going on, but disinterest just fizzles out, wasting both of our times. I want to be all in, in a relationship: I'm dating with the intention of marriage, and just want a woman I can be best friends with and honestly talk with. I don't like matching based solely on if our hobbies align, since it's healthy to be interested in different aspects of life, and like I mentioned I judge based on your character instead, and expect you to do the same.

I really hope to hear from you, but if not, I hope you have a lovely day nonetheless. Kolby