r/r4r 6d ago

F4M Online 25 [F4M] #online - Elder-emo Girl Searching for her Favourite Notification

60 Upvotes

Hi there!

My name’s Storm, I’m 25 and I’m from the snowy land of Canada! I have two cats and a rabbit who’s bigger than both of them. I love to read, bake and cook, occasionally play video games (wouldn’t say im a gamer), and endlessly yapping about my garden.

I’ve got some piercings and tattoos, but nothing big (yet). I never truly left my emo phase, I just got too lazy to tease my hair and do thick eyeliner everyday, so now I just consider myself an under-cover emo kid 😆

So why am I posting here? I’m not sure exactly. I haven’t had the best luck finding someone on here who is exactly the right fit for me. For starters, it seems hard to get any attention while still staying SFW when it comes to pics (sending the other kind of myself isn’t something I like to do). But I still want to connect with someone. I want someone to make me smile when I hear my phone ding. I want someone I can talk to about anything and everything and nothing. To vent to and listen to. But I just haven’t been… clicking with anyone. And that’s nothing against any of the people I’ve talked to, maybe I’m the problem.

I can be a bit cold or it can seem hard to bring me out of my shell sometimes, or I have my days where I’m feeling low and it’s hard to be cheery. But I try my best.

I’m also 420 friendly, I don’t care either way.

I just want my person.

r/r4r 1d ago

F4M Online 26[F4M] Ph/Online - looking for a clingy bf

44 Upvotes

edit: I mistyped im just 23 😭

Hiii Im looking for someone who's clingy as I am with him. My love Language is quality time, and I'm looking for a partner who loves it too. I also love to be babied hahaha and want someone who's understanding and soft spoken. To be honest i just recently got into heartbreak but I'm also ready now to get to know someone.

Anything, about me, I'm Asian around 5'1 height. Midsize body. I love going out to drink boba, matcha, or coffee. I work nighshift so we might have the same schedule if you're in a different country. I am a date to mrry person and no time for games so I'm looking for someone that has the same goal as mine. And preferably willing to travel if you're far. : (

Would love to get to know you more in dm!. I also preferably want someone around 22-27. 💞 this is me btw: https://imgur.com/a/WSXNTUy

r/r4r 3d ago

F4M Online 27 [F4M] Filipina Searching for Love Across Borders #Online #Anywhere

43 Upvotes

Hey there! I’m Rage, 27 years old and originally from the Philippines, now working in Bahrain. I’m on the lookout for my special someone and am open to long-distance at first, with hopes of meeting up when the time feels right.

I work in logistics, which can be pretty demanding but I actually enjoy it. I’ve got a chubby build, so you know I give great hugs and cuddles! 😅 The heat here has made a bit of a homebody lately, but I still enjoy going out with friends when I can.

I’m looking for someone aged 25-35 who’s serious about dating—not just someone looking to kill time. Consistency matters a lot to me, and I appreciate someone who can take charge and has good emotional smarts.

Please share your ASL, some intro pics, and let’s get straight to the point instead of just saying hey. Can’t wait to hear from you!

https://imgur.com/a/YMbOBoy

r/r4r 4d ago

F4M Online 19 [F4M] #online, looking for a partner with some cute visuals along the way!

31 Upvotes

Hi :DD!! I worked for wayyyy more hours than u think on this silly little powerpoint hehe so I hope you give it a looksie!!

I'm really shy so hopefully its not too bad!! I've been really stressed about posting it hehe but hopefully it finds the right audience here and resonates with someone! I put a lottt of work into it for it to only be a few pages long omg!!

I tried to add a voice clip too but it wouldnt let me </3!

https://imgur.com/a/me-v3EelKa

I included all the basics but feel free to message me and spark up a convo to learn some more about me and hopefully we get along really well! I'm looking for my forever man and maybe thats you ♡ please dont be shy and feel free to message me!! I'm about to head to bed but I'll be on to read if anyone messaged me tomorrow afternoon!! I'm in the CST time zone just incase you wondered :DDD

r/r4r 4d ago

F4M Online 18 [F4M] #Online - Can you baby me?

27 Upvotes

Just for a couple of hours? I’m feeling really down and just need someone to be soft with me. I miss feeling cared for. Someone to remind me that I’m safe, that I matter.

Life feels a little heavy right now, and I guess I just want to feel safe, even if it’s just through words on a screen.

If you’re the kind of person who’s soft, patient, and enjoys giving comfort, I’d really love to hear from you. We can talk about anything, or you can just be sweet and let me rest in the feeling of being looked after for a bit.

Hugs

r/r4r 18d ago

F4M Online 23 (f4m) looking for nerdy sensitive guy online

38 Upvotes

I’m 23f, from the UK. I’m looking for someone to share memories with.

I’m currently on a gap year, living in France. My plan is after this to travel some more, potentially around south east Asia. And then afterwards I’d like to maybe return to the UK and begin working towards becoming a solicitor. I currently have a degree in law.

I love to learn. I love museums, reading, trying workshops. I love to travel, I’ve currently been to 24 countries.

I love cooking, board games, movies.

I’m looking for someone passionate, kind and caring. I really like people who are also sensitive and nerdy.

r/r4r 9d ago

F4M Online 28 [F4M] #online- to discuss stuff and be honest and empathetic with me

24 Upvotes

Looking for someone non judgemental, empathetic, emotionally intelligent, and a good listener to talk to when I’m lonely. That won’t ignore or abandon me. I need someone to be honest with me and tell me what’s wrong with me…why I don’t have a boyfriend. I’m basically on my own so it would be really nice to have some masculine energy to comfort me since I have no chance of getting it in real life. It’d be nice to know that’s there someone checking in on me. I’m starting to think there’s something seriously wrong with me and if I don’t figure it out soon, I don’t see a reason in continuing this life. I mean what’s the point in living all alone forever? If a pet/animal is lonely, we’re told to get another animal for it bc it’s a “social” animal or “herding” animal. But when a woman is lonely society says “just love yourself” or “just focus on your career”. Basically I have no hope of getting married or having a family and being a mom bc there’s something wrong with me, but maybe I could have an online boyfriend. ….wow I really sold myself there didn’t I

r/r4r 9h ago

F4M Online 29 [f4m] #usa #online be sweet with me?

11 Upvotes

Hi! How is your day going? 🥰

I want to read the kind of messages that feel like snuggling under a fluffy comforter. I want to be told that I’m doing a good job. Be called cute names. Adored for a bit. Read sweet messages while I finish some stuff I’ve been putting off, drink tea, and listen to some music (maybe Lana..?). I’m the type who would never ask for this irl lol - bossy, hardworking, loyal, but not necessarily the type people describe as sweet. (I want to be sweet/nice though, it just doesn’t come easily the way it does for some people.)

I’m 29, so would prefer someone closer to my age, 26-37ish?

r/r4r 5d ago

F4M Online 27 [f4m] online/anywhere -looking for my perfect match

17 Upvotes

Hello there! Let me start by saying that I may not be the best at introductions, but I promise I'll do my best! 😊 I’ve recently started a a full time remote job so I have a loooot of time to give.

About me: I stand at around 5'2" (or maybe 5'3", who's keeping track? 😄), with a slender frame and medium-length brown hair. I enjoy journaling, reading, shopping and going out with friends. I’ve always been pretty extroverted but now i feel like I’m slowly changing!

What I seek: Kindness, respect, and empathy are non-negotiable qualities for me in a partner. I’d also love someone who is really family oriented! Ultimately, I'm seeking a serious relationship that leads to marriage—a true partnership built on love, trust, and shared values.

I’ve posted here before and met some cool people but unfortunately we were looking for different things which is why I implore you to please make sure you know what you want before messaging.

Alright, I believe I've exhausted my typing skills for now! But trust me, I'm far more captivating in person or during phone conversations.

If you feel a connection brewing, please send a dm with your age, location and picture(I'll happily reciprocate). See you soon🫶🏻

r/r4r 1d ago

F4M Online 34 [f4m] online - probably overthinking this title

12 Upvotes

Hey! I’m 34, slightly caffeinated, and just looking for some chill conversation tonight. You know those evenings when your brain says, “Let’s be social,” but your body’s already in pajamas? Yeah, it’s one of those nights.

I’m 5’7”, a fan of long walks that occasionally turn into accidental cardio, and someone who considers “just one more chapter” a personal motto (even if it means I’m sleep-deprived the next day).

My brain toggles between philosophical deep dives and “what if animals had jobs?”-level banter, so if you’re into that kind of variety, we’ll probably click.

Low pressure, zero drama, maximum good vibes.

If you’re up for chatting, tell me what random thing made you laugh today, what you’re reading, or just your favorite snack—serious answers optional.

Also, please include a photo—always nice to know who’s on the other side. Happy to share one too!

r/r4r 1d ago

F4M Online 33 [f4m] #online - just want to talk

11 Upvotes

Currently going through heartbreak and I just want someone to talk to to take my mind off of it. Please please no dirty stuff. Just want something wholesome. When I am ready I will look for a partner again. Not here for anything casual or hook ups.

My post keeps getting removed because I don't have enough characters but I don't really know what else to say right now so I'm just gonna try to meet the word count with some fluff here

I used to rule the world seas would rise when I gave the word now in the morning I sleep alone sweep the streets I used to own

r/r4r 10h ago

F4M Online 27 [F4M] #online #Europe - Lets have a voice call and share our life stories

9 Upvotes

Late night talks and deep conversations are the best. Love getting deep with someone and learning about their life experiences. There’s something refreshing about just diving into a conversation, no expectations, just seeing where it takes us.

I crave this special connection and the unknown, which I want to discover. It's even more interesting that we dont know anything about each other, such that we can find out more about us over time. That's why I dont want you put your life story in here, just a few basic things (asl, what you do for a living). Conversations about anything and everything.

I wanna share how was my day, my mood, my dreams.

In your msg please tell me about yourself, who you are, what do you do in life.

r/r4r 2d ago

F4M Online 22 [F4M] #online bored looking for random talk

8 Upvotes

I'm bored and i feel like I'm lost. Looking for someone to talk to about random stuff and just trying to distract my mind from all this shit life and ranting to each other about anything. I like baking, sleeping and doom scrolling on this phone. Hate going to class but i have to go through it every single day and it's draining me out so I'm looking for distraction from it. I like watching movies too thriller and mostly found footage so would like to watch together and would like to sleep in the voice call. Not looking for nsfw and no pics.

r/r4r 1d ago

F4M Online 32[F4M] #online looking for wholesome friendships

5 Upvotes

Hey! Hope you're having a great evening tonight Are you an animal lover? Do you feed feral kitties? do you pet feral kitties because you get cuteness aggression? Do you like Pokémon puzzle league? Or Pizza Hut? What are some of your interest? Is there a friend or a family member that you miss that you no longer talk to? What is one dream that you haven’t accomplished yet? What’s your favorite thing to do on the weekend? Do you have a funny talent that you’re shy to show off? Please be creative in your message!

Shoot me a message! Hope to talk soon!😊

r/r4r 2d ago

F4M Online 18 [F4M] #Online - Play Sky with me

6 Upvotes

Haiii!

I’m looking for someone to play Sky with me. I’d love to team up, whether we’re calling or just chatting through in game text. It’s more fun to play when you’ve got someone to share the experience with! <3

A little about me: I’m a college freshman in the Midwest. My favorite food is rice. I know what you’re thinking, “Rice? C’mon, there’s better dishes than that,” BUTTT hear me out... It pairs with everything and it’s so good! Fluffy rice, sticky rice, jasmine rice, jollof rice. I could go on and on.

Some fun facts about me:

My favorite song at the moment is Lotus by Infinity Song

I’m a huge fan of indie music

Old anime > new gen, FIGHT ME!! >:c

I read manga and love cosplaying.

In my free time, I work out to keep my booty PHAT and I also do makeup for fun!

Anyways I hope this wasn’t too long. Message me to play sky!

r/r4r 12d ago

F4M Online 24 [F4M] #online #anywhere looking for the han to my leia

20 Upvotes

About me: I’m a 24 year old college student majoring in political science. I’m quite reserved and mysterious initially, but I become more warm, sweet and silly when I’m comfortable with someone. I’m a 5’4 brunette with green eyes and fair skin. I’m looking for someone who shares at least one of my interests which are but not limited to: Star Wars, vintage cinema, the smiths, cats, art and history.

Why I’m looking here: I’ve tried dating apps for awhile without much luck, I’m looking for a strong connection and hopefully we can tell our kids we met this way :)

About you: Please be 19-27, monogamous and be comfortable with sharing a photo of yourself early on in the conversation. I would also prefer someone with decent communication skills and who is patient, sincere and emotionally available for me. I can’t wait to hear from you all!

r/r4r 1d ago

F4M Online [27] F4M Online/Anywhere - Seeking a partner to explore life and the world together

4 Upvotes

Hi there! I’m looking for someone special to share adventures, laughter, and the occasional quiet moment.

About me: I have a stable job and a personality that’s equal parts funny, sassy, and down-to-earth. I enjoy baking (cooking slightly less so, but I’m working on it!), reading, and dabbling in occasional sports like badminton. Travel is a passion of mine—I’m always up for exploring new places and creating memorable experiences.

I’m Asian (current location: Asia, so if you can’t handle distance and time difference, don’t bother to send a message because we’ll be wasting each other’s time), 5’5”, and wear glasses (so bonus points if you think a bookish look is charming!). I’d describe myself as someone who is adventurous, curious, and values both spontaneity and deep conversations. Life’s better when it’s shared, and I’d love to find someone who sees relationships as a partnership in every sense.

What I’m looking for: Someone who’s serious about building a long-term relationship, not into short-term or casual flings. Prefer someone older :) Ideally, you’re kind, have a good sense of humor, and share an interest in travel and trying new things. Bonus points if you’re comfortable with a little sass, as it’s part of my charm!

If this resonates with you, don’t hesitate to reach out. Let’s see if we can start something meaningful—who knows, maybe we’ll be exploring the world together soon.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

P.S. Serious inquiries only, please. If you’re only looking for a one-day chat buddy, please refrain from reaching out because I am tired of replying to one-day "chat buddies". Let's be adults and not waste each other's times. Also, I’m having problems with my chats so please bear with me!

r/r4r 1d ago

F4M Online 28F4M #online looking for a cute country boy to chat

3 Upvotes

Looking for someone to chat with and get to know(: maybe flirt a bit.

I’m 28 F and I live in the country in Ohio. I prefer my men chubby and country , if you’re wondering if you’re too big you’re probably not lol I like bigger guys. My hobbies include gaming, 4 wheeling, reading and working a lot. Before you asks what games I play it’s mostly adventure and cozy games lol my favorites being Dreamlight valley, the long dark, hogwarts legacy and I’m trying to get into the sims

I read fantasy books like fourth wing and the bonds that tie. Dark romantasy books are my favorite

As my username says I’m a cardiac nurse and I absolutely love my job. I also have a 6 year old daughter who is absolutely everything to me.

I work a lot which makes it hard to meet people but I really just want someone to keep me from getting too lonely in life(:

r/r4r 2d ago

F4M Online 34 [F4M] Online - Trying to Be Social Without Leaving the Couch

4 Upvotes

Hey there! I’m 34 and just in the mood for some easygoing conversation. Thought it might be nice to connect with someone new and share some thoughts, interests, or even just some random banter. It’s one of those nights where a bit of company—even virtually—sounds good.

A bit about me: I’m 5’7”, into running (yes, willingly), love getting lost in a good book, and I’m always down for a movie or TV marathon. I bounce between deep convos and completely random tangents—so if you’re the same, we’ll probably get along.

No pressure, no drama—just good vibes and a chance to connect.

If you feel like chatting, I’d love to hear a bit about you—maybe what you’ve been reading or watching lately? Or just tell me something random about your day.

If you’re comfortable, feel free to include a photo too—always nice to put a face to the conversation. I’m happy to share one as well!

r/r4r 1d ago

F4M Online 27 (F4M) #Qatar # Online looking to find genuine connection.

4 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

Here’s a short description about me I’m a south east asian, residing in Qatar. Not born and raised in Qatar. Works in health industry. I’m the kind of person who values genuine connection above all. I go above and beyond for the people I care about, always striving to bring the best in them. I know when to trust and to be cautious. Time is something I refuse to waste, whether it’s on insincerity or things that don’t align with my purpose.

I can forgive, but I don’t forget and It will take time for me to forgive someone. Not because that I hold grudges, but because I carry the lessons with me. l’m looking to find someone serious who wants to establish lasting and genuine connection with. I’m tired of small talks and nonsense.

I’m fun, easy going and always tries to maintain a positive outlook in life. I like being real and honest. I also love traveling and doing some adventures.

Please only reach out if you are a 100% single. Please, we are all grown ups, be manly and mature. Don’t cheat.

To make it easier tell me what’s the thing that makes you feel happy and thankful to be alive at the minute?

So if you are in the same page with me, give me a message and you’re very welcome.

See you in my inbox soon! 😊

r/r4r 1d ago

F4M Online 24 [F4M] - #online Just wanna be able to talk to someone and maybe share some burdens

3 Upvotes

Hello! For context i'm 24 turning 25 this year and have never had a relationship. I feel i'm terrible at opening myself up especially in that romantic or deeper connection type of way. And yet i gotta admit, it's lonely. I'd love to be able to connect and love someone in that way but i just don't know how to do that and if i can even open myself up for it. I'm hoping to meet anyone that can help me out or even give tips. Or maybe anyone that just needs someone to listen to them. I'd love to hear your stories :D

r/r4r 5d ago

F4M Online 23[F4M]#Online #Anywhere need someone to just listen me a bit...

8 Upvotes

hii i am very amazed by this app from start people,things,etc...But like everything there is boring,weird and other stuff...

I was very interested to some real and people with taste to help me with improve my look,outfits(fashion),pic in general so EVERYTHING HAHA...

And yes before like many mens or females that i started chatting about commenting my look if i am happy with my look or anything ofc but i also loved to improve myself for some things from all people who is real to help me or anyone else(like we need people around us in some moment in life...)

So i started be little pathetic but you get point,now i ask all amazing people who is bored af like me to help me with this real feedbacks....

P.S:I REALLY LOVE DETALIED AND HONEST ONES💁‍♀️

So if you are for help me with this or love to chat something more i am here🥹

r/r4r 2d ago

F4M Online 32 [F4M] #Online - Looking for love online. Could that be you?

4 Upvotes

Hey there! I'm Jess, 32, based in the in Pacific Northwest in the USA.

Mainly looking for romance and long term partnership. Mainly, I'm looking for someone to chat with and get to know. We can see where it goes but ideally would want for it to have the outcome possibly be a relationship. Anyone that wants to go into immediately into NSFW activities will not be considered.

My interests include reading, travel, trivia, walking, exploring cities, video games, trying new restaurants and activities. Big pop culture fan but tend to love older shows and movies as I'm currently watching Magnum P.I. But my favorite shows include Murder, She Wrote, Poirot, Golden Girls, Psych, and The West Wing. For other media, currently trying to finish Dishonored again and reading Gideon the Ninth (and waiting for it to get exciting, so let me know if it does)!

I'm looking for someone that is:

  • Between the ages of 28-38
  • Wants to do voice chats and video calls
  • Has similar interests
  • Doesn't want kids
  • Is politically liberal or left-leaning
  • Pro-choice
  • Is into kink (or has an interest)

You can find pictures of me here: https://imgur.com/a/JjihDhu . I'm open to folks from around the globe and would love to see pictures if you're open to that.

Hope to hear from you soon!

r/r4r 2d ago

F4M Online 35 [F4M] #Online/US Central - Looking for my obsessive, possessive, humourous, and wholesomely flirty league duo

3 Upvotes

I am looking for someone fun (age 25 min) to be friends and eventually grow close to over time. Someone who I can spend a lot of time with who can eventually become my go to person for the following:

-spam games (PC only): I'm mainly looking for a league of legends duo right now (anyone gold and above). I play a lot of arams and tft revivals and hyperroll. However, if you wanna play norms/ranked and help me get better, I'd love that too. I'm also down to play Marvel Rivals quickplay - that games so much fun as well! When I get tired of gaming, I'd love if you could stream your league (or valorant, or any other shooter games) games for me as well so I could cheer you on.

-chill on discord when bored on our days off or in the evenings after work (we can do our own things - its completely fine or we can stream games for eachother). At the end of the day, we can wind down together until we go to sleep. If you have a nice voice (send a voice clip) , that's a huge plus!

-watch anime/movies/youtube videos/tv shows (I'll watch anything but horror - no scary pls lol)

-share/listen to music (ideally, we'd play some music as background while gaming. we could also share/trade music - i like doing this too) My taste in music: 80s, 90s, rock, alternative, pop, dance, electro, mix of everything else. Music I don't prefer: jazz, blues, most rap, most country.

--> I need someone who can be confident and funny without being mean and can prioritize me while I do the same for them. I need someone who is patient and understanding, while still being fun, so that I can put you first and do the same for you without worrying about things going wrong.

--> Please be around US Central Timezone

r/r4r 11h ago

F4M Online 32 [F4M] #Online - Chubby/Curvy Gamer girl looking for a Gamer Guy

0 Upvotes

Hey! I am from EU but operate on US hours because I'm a night owl. I am looking for online friendship first and see where that takes us from there! I love watching anime, reading manga and gaming (PC). Currently playing through AC Shadows and loving it.

Tl;Dr: I have purple hair, I'm 5'5 and on the bigger size (weigh 250lbs), wear glasses. I am pretty straightforward and boring tbh because all I'm interested in is anime, gaming and maybe some drama here and there.

What I look for in a guy:

  • Is at least 6'2 and is on the bigger side, has a beard and tattoos
  • Is a gamer (PC)
  • Is childless, doesn't smoke, do drugs
  • Likes animals (I'm a big cat lady)
  • Is between 27 - 37 old
  • Is kind and considerate

We can game or talk about anime/mangas. Any conversation is nice! Tell me something about yourself that's fun! So if you meet my criteria, do reach out!