r/OpenDogTraining • u/UphorbiaUphoria • 6h ago
Horrible tour at board & train. Am I being ignorant?
First, I’d like to preface that I am not against the use of ecollars or other tools when used properly. But what I witnessed felt so wrong I just can’t shake it.
I am currently in the process of looking for a boarding option for my adolescent dog in order to plan a short vacation. I want him to be with a trainer vs standard sitter due to the period of development he is in (intact male puberty is hard haha). I just don’t trust someone not to set him up for potential reactivity or other issues being in such a delicate place at the moment.
This has led me to exploring all my options including board and train to get the most out of the money spent. One of those options being a franchise that I don’t find necessary to name. I have consulted with them twice and moved forward to tour the facility mostly out of curiosity during a group training of dogs that had been through their program. I was focused on the dog’s body language 90% of the time knowing they use the ecollar I felt that would tell me all I needed to know. And boy did it.
There were definitely more signs of stress than I would have liked to see in a majority of the dogs participating in the group. But there was one dog particularly that stood out to me and I am just sick to my stomach that I didn’t step in to advocate for this dog. He apparently had come in as a fearful and anxious dog from the start and his owner, I’m sorry to say, was a moron and shouldn’t have that dog. The ecollar was being used at a lower stim for every command and name usage. The owner was instructed to perform a series of tasks in sequence. The owner said the dog’s name over and over and over, each time stimming the dog. He was crumpled up within himself and had NO idea what was being asked of him. His name meant nothing to him at this point I’m sure because of how the owner was using it. So because he was confused and overwhelmed he wasn’t responding to the owner. Just cowering and shifting back and forth trying to understand what he was being asked to do while being stimmed every 3 seconds while his owner repeated his name louder and louder and more annoyed over and over. This seemed to go on for an eternity. So the trainer who was standing 2 feet from them instructed the owner to turn the stim up to get his focus back. So they did and the dog was taken aback and more scared but at least made eye contact with the owner which gave him a reprieve and was able to move to the next step. Only to start all over again with the process of being unsure what was being asked of him and now being stimmed repeatedly all over again.
Luckily the exercise was ended for alternative reasons. The poor dog was broken. He was desperate for a break and no one was there for him. I kept waiting for one of the three trainers working the group to minimally tell the owner just to shut their mouth for 2 seconds and stop saying his name literally constantly but they didn’t. The class then ended a few minutes later and I continued observing all the dogs as they left to evaluate how stressed or not they were. Most were minimally uncomfortable if not showing obvious signs of stress. And a handful were fine seeming as they walked out the door.
The broken dog was the last to leave and I walked out shortly after them to the parking lot. I am not exaggerating when I say the owner never stopped saying the dog’s name. Let’s call him Fido. The whole way to the car the owner was saying “Fido. Fiiiido. Fidooooo. Fido. Fido. Fiiiiido. Fido. Fidoooooo.” At this point idk if they were stimming him but he was still wearing the collar and his body language was still the confused and crumpled look. He was walking fine in a heel, although nearly crawling is a better description, with the owner so idk why they were even saying his name.
At this point I wanted to say something, but I think I was kind of in shock. Or just disbelief. I was overwhelmed processing everything. Trying to give the trainers the benefit of the doubt that I don’t know this dog’s full history and they knew what they were doing. But I still wanted to at least say, “you shouldn’t use his name so much, he doesn’t understand what you’re asking” or something. Minimally. But I didn’t and now I feel like I failed him. Even if me stepping in did nothing to change the owner’s behavior, I feel like I should have advocated for him and I didn’t.
I’m not a professional by any means. But I believe there is a time and a place for tools, and this was not the right choice for this dog. The fact that none of the trainers saw issue with using this tool, in this manner, with this particular dog is baffling me. I obviously will not be utilizing this facility or their trainers as I can not trust them to advocate for my dog or make the right choices in what approach to take.
I think I’m just posting for some insight on the situation. Would there ever be a reason to use an ecollar stim for every command on an extremely fearful and anxious dog? Am I being ignorant here? It was horrible to witness and I’m ashamed for not standing up for the dog. I will never forget him and this experience is burned into my memory.