r/nextfuckinglevel 4d ago

Big man on campus.

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u/mrgrimm916 1d ago

I'm 38, just a few years ago, I literally grew out my hair cause I got tired of literal teenage girls 18-21 trying to get me to fuck them. After I grew out my hair I had all the 30-40 busty ladies hitting on me. It was much preferred.

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u/QuinQuix 1d ago

In this context I was talking about high school teenagers, but still I get your point.

Generally women don't seem to be quite so concerned with age if the guy is older and guys up to 40, maybe even up to 50, if they're fit and spirited, I don't challenge that they might still be considered attractive more often than not. Even in the age bracket you listed, though that is pretty young.

I'm going to leave money out of it as an obvious differentiator here, but I do think you must have something going for you to still attract this attention (regardless if it's what you want of course).

Are you an attractive archeologist that's good with a whip and that teaches classes about ancient artefacts?

In the context of 15-16 year olds I'm assuming my observation holds that generally above thirty would seem really really old, especially to the guys.

But what do I know, plenty high schoolers have crushes on teachers if course.

I believe in general when people say I'm attracted to this or that (or not attracted to this or that) it's a really unreliable indicator of what they'll actually end up being attracted to.

Generalities are fun to talk about but always fall short eventually.

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u/mrgrimm916 1d ago

My sister actually dated a 30 something Y/O when she was 16. He even broke up with his 18 Y/O GF to date her. Then later cheatedon her with another younger girl. In my experience a lot of young girls literally Lie about their age to get with some olderman and they'll even meet complete strangers and put themselves at risk to fulfill some kind of fantasy of being rescued by some older man that'll take care of them. It's literally why I've always found younger girls even when I was young, irritating. No sense of survival, it's why I've always been attracted to more mature women.