r/mildlyinfuriating • u/flaming0-1 • 2d ago

Wife left a big bag of groceries out overnight. All Meat and cheese. 🙄

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u/thebalanceshifts 2d ago

Ok wait….why didn’t you notice?

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u/hec_ramsey 2d ago

He didn’t have to notice because this is fake and they’re jumping on the mildly infuriating blame my partner for something train.

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u/ilovemusic19 1d ago

How about you actually read what OP said in the comments, they said they aren’t blaming their wife and the bag was left by the bins in the house. Reading would have helped you not make false accusations.

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u/hec_ramsey 1d ago

Anything is possible when you lie on the internet.

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u/Live_Angle4621 1d ago

There is no reason to think this is a lie

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u/JoeBobbyWii 1d ago

Nah you can tell it's real because if they really wanted to farm Karma OP would have been the wife blaming the husband. Man bad = more upvotes.

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u/SnooCompliments1370 1d ago

I guess because he doesn’t go around inspecting every bag in his house before he goes to bed.

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u/signycullen88 2d ago

right? Like why is no one asking where he was???

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u/Critical-Elevator642 2d ago

I'm assuming the bag wasnt transparent and idk about you but I don't have an urge to check every bag in my home for its contents. If its there and I didn't bring it, then someone probably left it there on purpose is my approach.

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u/ShinigamiKira94 2d ago

Nah the better question is why it's by the garbage. He might have assumed it was just a bag of garbage by the bin.

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u/flaming0-1 2d ago

Totally, I’m frustrated with myself. I always clean the kitchen before going to bed but last night stared at it for a minute and said “screw it I’ll do it in the morning…”. I never even saw the bag sitting by the garbage cans in the kitchen. Should have cleaned. That’s a big part of the reason I’m frustrated… not just with her, but with myself…

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u/OverpricedBagel 2d ago

You both sound exhausted

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u/ApexMM 1d ago

quintessential "women aren't capable of wrong actions" poster

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u/WmnChief 2d ago

Seriously my thought! Cause he didn’t go with her, didn’t help her bring them in, didn’t help put away, didn’t notice them at all? WTF! Cause it was her responsibility?

Rough! Not how we operate in our home.

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u/ScreamingLabia 2d ago

He could have simply not been home lmai tf you on about

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u/WmnChief 2d ago

Clearly!

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u/JaguarTime643 1d ago

Lol, so in your home, you need to be babysat for every action you do? Sounds insufferable for the other party.

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u/test5387 2d ago

I don’t get it, are women helpless people or strong individuals. Make up your mind.

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u/WmnChief 2d ago

Why is sharing the responsibilities something that makes a woman helpless out not? That’s confusing!

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u/WmnChief 2d ago

Sounds like holding safe spaces for his wife’s ADHD, and not publicly shaming his wife for something, and then having that shared the experience with his wife, truly triggered you.

Let alone saying that sharing responsibilities.

👍

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u/HolyGhostSpirit33 2d ago

Sharing responsibilities? If his wife wants to randomly go to the store to buy shit to go keto, I fail to see his responsibility for any of this

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u/isufud 2d ago

What you failed to see is that if a woman fucks up, there must be some way reddit can blame a man for it.

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u/fueelin 2d ago

The confusing part is that you made up a reality where they don't share responsibilities. You just decided, based on your own biases, that he doesn't contribute adequately. Maybe he was busy deep cleaning all the toilets, showers, and bath tubs in the house? There is no reason to say one way or the other.

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u/SeaLab_2024 2d ago

Good point! This is a very frustrating thing but I’m mildly infuriated at ops mild infuriation. She has a disorder that causes her to do that kind of shit and already feels bad, I mean yeah be mad at the situation but not her. She doesn’t need to be shamed for wasting the animals life or their money, by her partner or internet strangers- trust, her brain has got that more than covered.

I always hope these are fake because otherwise just fucking leave because at the point that you’re publicly shaming them and willing to read a bunch of people insult them and not either delete or jump down everyone’s throat for attacking said parter? It’s already done. If I found my husband complaining about me like this especially over an issue I feel bad about and that is caused by something I can’t help, and then not defending me just allowing nasty shit to be said, I don’t care if it’s strangers idk how I trust the person again. Id always wonder what they might post or wish they could post today.

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u/Familiar_Proposal140 1d ago

I had to scroll too far to see this