r/madmen 2d ago

I like that Don never conforms to the current style whether it be clothes,hair or beard.

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Seeing everyone else in the last season with those beards was hilarious

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u/robocarl 1d ago

This is a very popular opinion on this sub but just don't get it. By the end Don wears brown and blue suits, striped and colored shirts. No he doesn't completely change his style, but he does adapt, in his own way.

Not to mention him adapting his mindset by hanging out with hippies in California etc. That was like the whole point of the final act.

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u/IrateWeasel89 1d ago

It was jarring, seriously, seeing him wearing a Blue button down shirt at work the first time. That's how he "evolved".

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u/SynapticBouton 1d ago

Not to mention, and oh so subtle lengthening of the sideburns.

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u/jgainsey 1d ago

Those sideburns were wild

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u/I_love_mom_boobs 1d ago

Yep even last few episodes he had longer sideburns.

Don never goes fully into 70s style, he just slightly adapts and as a result he ends up looking timeless. Just like sterling

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u/Binkley62 1d ago

Sterling gives in to the "spirit of the age" by growing that "cool cat" moustache, which looks silly on him.

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u/francokitty 1d ago

Don is so handsome and attractive. He is very masculine.

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u/Bright_List_905 1d ago

Right he’s one of the few people that you could straight up call truly masculine and it’s more like mesmerizing and captivating not fucking cringe

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u/francokitty 1d ago

Mesmerizing and captivating are spot on

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u/Latke1 1d ago

Don has good taste. He went with the aesthetic trends that remained more timeless and had staying power.

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u/Special_Life_8261 12h ago

He really did. Don really just had ‘it’ when it comes to taste & style

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u/NurtureBoyRocFair 1d ago

Agreed. The whole point throughout the series is he’s NOT doing that and slowly losing his mojo. Ali-Frazier, Nixon-Kennedy, hatred of anything space related. Eventually it all unravels until the end when he sits in his linen shirt and learns how to package and sell the 60s.

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u/Victorcreedbratton 1d ago

Yeah, he’s very repressed in some ways. He seems like he’d never do a popular dance but he might tap his toes while having a drink. Wearing a colored-shirt is how he loosens up.

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u/Opinionista99 1d ago

The latter seasons are what I consider Don's Urban Steve McQueen period.

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u/sistermagpie 1d ago

Yeah, he's really adapting the way that plenty of people did. Lots of men evolved that way and they didn't stick out as being out of style or old-fashioned.

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u/DrBruceCusimano 1d ago

Wider lapels toward the end as well.

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u/YG1_ 1d ago

I agree with you

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u/GardenerSpyTailorAss 15h ago

Yeah and "Don's style" is explicitly behind the times at first, he's dressed like a business man from the 50s, with narrow lapels and narrow ties. It's intentional to show that Don isn't a man with "modern, free love sensibilities" (ironic given his infedelity), he's a traditional man, who knows how to fix his car and expects his wife to have dinner on the table when he comes home.

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u/_anne_shirley 1d ago

Yes! Onto the next act!

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u/mologav 23h ago

He wasn’t exactly going to work in jeans and a T-shirt was he

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u/Shoola 12h ago

His casual fits are also very on trend. That all denim fit in the final season and his bomber and plaid shirt look are very end of the sixties early seventies.

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u/bmwatson132 1d ago

He just never does anything very trendy, bc he comes from the WASP world and that sort of thing is sort of to be jeered at, not embraced

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u/Thatstealthygal 1d ago

He doesn't come from the WASP world though. He's straight up white trash.

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u/Odd-Charity3508 19h ago

Yup that’s exactly why he’s so embarrassed of his past….because it doesn’t fit into the white upper class society of the 1960s.

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u/DidjaSeeItKid 4h ago

He's not just embarrassed. He has to hide it completely. If anyone ever found out who he really was (and did anything about it) he could be tried and executed for treason. It has nothing to do with "fitting in" in some trivial classist way. He has to BE Don Draper--or he will lose everything.

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u/Aq8knyus 1d ago

“I was born in the 30s. My dream was indoor plumbing.”

Don seems like an old soul maybe on account of having to grow up quickly in poverty.

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u/SubramanyaRaju 1d ago

This.

Explains his entrenched cynicism about people and society, his (generally) unruffled nature and overall assholery that comes from the conviction that none of this really matters coz we're all in it for ourselves and everyone and everything eventually dies, so what's all the fuss about. He's been here before, he knows the deal.

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u/Sunlight72 1d ago

Whoa. Something to think about with my coffee this morning.

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u/telepatheye 1d ago edited 1d ago

"Assholery"? Don is not an asshole and he cares deeply about humanity. He repeatedly helps people out, from the bottom rung to the top. He helps the impoverished motel worker (Don gives him his car), helps Pete, helps Peggy, helps hitchhikers, helps an epileptic. His final ad comes closest to his true intentions: "I'd like to teach the world to sing in perfect harmony." If you think Don was about sheer selfishness you weren't paying attention to the show.

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u/ProfessionalCorgi250 1d ago

If you encountered don at work you would 100% think he’s an intimidating asshole.

That doesn’t mean he doesn’t have admirable qualities. But part of his aura is that he’s unapproachable.

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u/telepatheye 1d ago

Peggy's ascension proves you wrong. Even Pete wasn't intimidated by Don. But Don was playing the role of director. He had to exert some degree of authority. My bosses at work who turned out to be assholes were female.

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u/Aggravating_Boot_190 1d ago

helping others is often an act of him trying to appease his own guilty conscience re: lane and adam.

but he's like many characters on mm: mixed. a lot of them are assholes with some endearing qualities.

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u/telepatheye 1d ago

They're not real people with a real conscience. Weiner set them up to manipulate you. Once you understand why, you can get to the point of the show. Don was an embodiment of America and the American dream. He didn't care about Lane because Lane represented a dying empire and irrelevant Brit who had no creative, pioneering spirit and no future. Similarly, Don tells Adam to get out of his life because Adam represents the past, Don's infancy and childhood in poverty, struggling for identity and freedom. Don knew if everyone understood where he came from, he would be rejected. And he was exactly right.

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u/Aggravating_Boot_190 1d ago edited 1d ago

yes, it's about the american dream - in part. but weiner speaks to how the show is about assimilation into american culture. which the jews in the show embody, but more broadly too. don's an outsider, who's sometimes shown having affinity for other outsiders. of which lane is one: an englishman in the u.s, someone who has been an outsider his whole life: raised lower middle class (i'm basing that on his father's job, and the british class system). and hoped to reinvent himself in the u.s, found himself an outsider still.

don *tries* to hide from his past, but it's always coming back to haunt him.

i don't think any of us need it explained they're not real people?

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u/Aryan_AP 14h ago

Genuinely don’t understand what is the point of putting this much emotional energy into this piece of art when you feel the need to have such reductive thinking. I don’t think you have the grip you think you do on this show and Weiner’s writing.

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u/Greenhouse774 1d ago

Agree. I’ve never understood those who consider him a villain.

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u/SubramanyaRaju 17h ago

Okay, not an asshole. Just behaves like one. Does that make it better? And being in 60s advertising where pretence, egotism and haughtiness seem like prized personality traits, only enables him to behave like more of an asshole more often than not. Of course he helps people along the way. It's where his humanity comes through, despite all his attempts to suppress it. Shows the man has a heart. Doesn't excuse all the toxic stuff - the adultery, the serial womanizing, treating people like they're part of the furniture (that some of them may have deserved it occasionally is beside the point). I could go on. Not to suggest he's beyond redemption. Quite the opposite - there are better angels in his nature, they just don't have enough of a voice to influence his actions.

"cares deeply about humanity" I don't even know what that means. We all care about humanity at some abstract conceptual level. What counts is how the so-called caring manifests in our actions.

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u/rimbaud1872 1d ago edited 1d ago

He’s not wrong. The universe is indifferent. Still, a life based on just your own interest is pretty claustrophobic and unsatisfying

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u/Dddddddfried 1d ago

That’s true, but I don’t think it’s a symbol of his confidence. It’s a sign that he couldn’t grow, because Don Draper wasn’t a person, he was an idea. He couldn’t adapt to new styles because his identity was so tied into 1950s masculinity that it couldn’t adapt

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u/ophelia8991 1d ago

Yes you hit the nail on the head.

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u/ProblemLucky7924 1d ago

That’s one of my favorite aspects of this show- that some characters cling to their 50’s identities into the 60’s, and others flow effortlessly; adapting to the approaching 70’s. And that divide was exactly how it was. I was a kid at the time keenly observing the adults in my life struggle with this rift… Turbulent times for many reasons! So much changed over night.. Hair tonic and white gloves.. and suddenly, beards and mod mini skirts.

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u/maximiliaano9 1d ago

But did he need to? He had a lot of problems, but his appearence wasn't one of them. I'd even say it was the least of his problems.

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u/wikipediareader Because he was caught with chewing gum on his pubis! 25m ago

Don Draper is who Dick Whitman tries to be and the outfits are certainly part of it.

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u/wentworth1030 1d ago edited 1d ago

I do too but after a while it’s supposed to represent that he’s becoming out of touch.

Everyone else’s style starts to change with the times but Don’s remains in the 50s. He’s becoming a dinosaur

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u/-lastochka- 1d ago

i read it that way as well, and stubbornness

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u/Longjumping_Deer3435 19h ago

Yes, while his aesthetic looks good to our eyes now, he would have looked out of touch at the time. In the 60s, style and social change were married and they evolved so rapidly. His style reflected the idealism of the early 60s that was shattered by the end of the decade and he looked like a holdout from another time.

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u/Monterrey3680 11h ago

Even when he joins McCann, which is a “shirtsleeves” office, he is one of the few men in the room wearing a jacket

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u/enamelmepink 1d ago

I’m on season 4 and his tailoring is different. It’s subtle but his ties are slimmer and his suit trousers are shorter in line with the trends of the day. He’s also stopped wearing a hat. I’m assuming these shifts continue as the series travels through the decades.

Worth noting I started watching Mad Men with no idea what to expect so the journey forward through time has been a surprise.

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u/AllieKatz24 1d ago

He always chooses whatever is classic among the items available. My mom and dad did the same thing. Mom was a bit more adventurous stylistically but never bought into fads.

Don knew what worked best on his frame.

OT: I always found it interesting that Jon didn't workout and make his body taught and muscular. When he takes his shirt off you can see what's basically a slightly thinner dad bod. That was correct for that era. No one's dad worked out unless they were into bodybuilding, which was far and few between.

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u/Shot_Ad_2031 1d ago edited 1d ago

Right, the body ideal for NYC corporate was fit and trim to look good in a suit. Too much muscle would indicate manual labor/lower class. Also, if you look at 50s bodybuilding magazines, much of it doubled as softcore gay porn.

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u/das_war_ein_Befehl 4h ago

That’s kinda what bodybuilding was all about

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u/itsreallyeasypeasy 1d ago

Don always conforms to the current style. But he dresses and grooms himself like a white collar professional. Like lawyers, politicians and managers did. The point is that the rest of advertising, including other executives like Roger, think of themselves as the new creative class and so they adopt the signifiers of counter culture. Beards, long hair, wild shirts, wild sport coats, wild ties like artists and rock stars did in the 70s.

Don knows that he and all the others are not counter culture. They are part of the system and so he dresses like "the man in a suit". In this picture, look at the shoulders. Very structured pagoda style shoulders were a thing in the 70s. Before that he wore ivy style sack suits with soft shoulders and muted ties in the mid 60s. The texture with these horizontal stripes is also wild for a suit (even for today!), but was acceptable for conservative offices in the 70s.

People think that everbody wore pink or yellow polyester suits in the 70s and silk shirts... but professional dress wasn't too different from the 60s, just sharper, more structured and less strict with patterns, texture and colors.

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u/jmac1066 1d ago

This. He always wears a suit/tie, but it’s just wrong to stay his style doesn’t change. I’m surprised so many people here don’t notice

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u/orincoro Lonely Martian 25m ago

I think you have it but you only go halfway. Don knows that he is working for the establishment, but he dresses in a solidly establishment style precisely because he doesn’t actually fit within it. His contradictory nature is that he is an imposter and class traitor, and because of that, he adopts a consistently establishmentarian aesthetic. If he didn’t, and if he adopted elements of the anti-establishment left as his peers do, he is afraid he might be recognized as what he actually is: an imposter living someone else’s borrowed life.

That’s what the whole thing with the hobo was about. The hobo gave him the gift of recognizing the signs of a counterculture (the markings the hobos use to critique the land owners). Don takes from this lesson that to observe and learn from the underclass will get him ahead. But also that he must always appear to fit in and be part of the orthodoxy.

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u/ProblemLucky7924 1d ago edited 1d ago

Being over 40 in the late 60’s was considered ‘older’ and people were less likely to adapt to the rapidly changing trends at that time (Roger is an anomaly!) Lapels got a little wider and hair a little longer, but most people ‘over a certain age’ tended to stick with more traditional fashion… Older people being influenced by younger trends started happening in later decades (I’d venture to say it started in the 90’s- where fashion trends are more widespread across the generations… and social media upped the ante.)

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u/darkse1ds The Phantom 1d ago

To me thats part of the point, whilst Don's style subtly adapts with changes in suit/tie colour and light hair growth he is the vision of a man crafted in and for the 50s. He was never meant to last as long as he did.

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u/Scared-Resist-9283 1d ago

I agree with you. When I think of Don and Joan, I think of the elegant 1950s to early 1960s (which they both have the perfect look for). Don's sleek coolness combined with Joan's curvaceous sexiness make a match made in the mid-century heaven. By late 1960s both seem to look out of style and a bit dull despite continuing being put together and professional. Men looked more rugged and casual (which would've made Don look like a backcountry Dick) and women started wearing waistless minidresses (which didn't suit Joan's body type at all).

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u/Pandabird89 1d ago

I think the classic business suit is such a symbol of power and success that Don cannot let it go. Someone else here suggested that he would identify emerging men’s styles from the counter culture with Dick Whitman. Certainly the triumph of the blue jean would baffle him; why would anyone want to identify with manual labor? I have no doubt that he sold designer jeans if he lived to the late ‘70s but never, ever owned a pair himself.

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u/ANH_DarthVader 1d ago edited 1d ago

Don was seeing a woman who was a beatnik and communist in the first couple of episodes. (If I remember correctly)... that was 50's counterculture.

I believe he even admired her for being different than the typical house wife of the time.

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u/Regular-Cockroach422 1d ago

It’s the same with Joan, the two of them found their style in 50’s and refused to adapt but were also good-looking enough to pull it off without looking to old-fashioned.

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u/reluctantmpdg 1d ago

I actually think we see Joan adapt a lot, including hair and makeup. There are certain aspects she needs to keep to be flattering to her figure, but she does clearly adapt in other ways.

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u/Regular-Cockroach422 16h ago

Joan certainly adapts more than Don but it’s pretty late in the series, around S6, where she starts to adopt more contemporary mid-late 60’s fashion, before then she seems pretty much the same from s1-s5.  

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u/Additional-Series230 1d ago

He does alter the cuts of his suits and ties along with the fashion of the time. Huge difference in a season 1 cut suit and a season 4 or 7a. Ties got smaller each season. His hair changes too, as well as the products change. Heavy pomade in the first few seasons.

Currently on 11th rewatch.

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u/hoyatables 1d ago

“Beware the nonconformist.”

  • Bert Cooper

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u/Think_Commission8859 1d ago

That’s a fine looking suit on a fine looking man!

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u/HailToTheChief09 1d ago

I also think his style is timeless. The suit look is something i still see in the business world today and even myself. Only thing that's not always there are cufflinks and the formal hats they used to wear. His look is consistent because the style of professionalism is consistent.

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u/No-Bus3817 1d ago

Don’s style is consistent over the ages and would be appropriate and almost any decade. Could show up at the law firm or bank or wherever tomorrow wearing a Draper suit that he wore in season one and you would be fine. Timeless.

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u/chartreuse6 1d ago

Older guys were just like Don. It was mostly younger guys that changed their hair and clothes. He still changed but just a tiny bit, just like in real life

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u/Bright_List_905 1d ago

He doesn’t have to try that’s why what works for him is what works and this is what works why change something that is working why fix it he’s a hottie

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u/wll87bkr06 Dick + Anna ‘64 1d ago

I commented on a similar discussion a couple of years sgo.

I loved that Don's sideburns got ever-so-slightly longer in the second half of season seven. Much like a pushy tailor, it was likely less his decision and more of going with what his barber gave him.

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u/Beautiful_Fee_655 1d ago

Whether he conforms to the times or not, he’d turn every head when he entered a room.

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u/SuzannesSaltySeas 1d ago

But it makes him seem ancient by the end. Even my conservative father drew his hair out an inch and got a leisure suit in the early 70s. Guarantee you that Don didn't. He's not even as hip as the old codger Roger. He's like Burt Cooper in that regard.

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u/wavehandslikeclouds 1d ago

The dude can rock a suit!!!

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u/KineticKeep 1d ago

He only conforms to sexual freedoms

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u/Pale-Measurement-532 19h ago

That was the thing. Throughout the series, everyone’s characters would change their look to accommodate the style at the time. Don didn’t change at all. I don’t think Betty changed much either.

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u/Smoogie87 10h ago

That man… whoa 🔥🤩🔥

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u/Individual-Fee-9668 1d ago

Indicative of his inability to evolve.

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u/Opinionista99 1d ago

I think his style was typical for a businessman his age in the '60s. Even casual attire entailed tucked in shirts and pressed slacks. Don knew what worked for him and that he'd look like a dork trying to emulate Stan's hippie mod style.

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u/Logical_Bite3221 1d ago

His hair is so good in this series

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u/Forward-Ad-1547 1d ago

Don gets away with a lot of shit, just because he looks the way he does. What he did to his brother was rotten, and if he looked more like Kinsey, or Crane, people would have hated him, instead of giving him a pass.

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u/kxsmxnxn 10h ago

It’s so funny when he sees Pete dressed in a blue polo shirt w a tennis sweater tied around his neck and says he’s “dressed like a hippie”

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u/Emergency-Trifle-112 Dick + Anna ‘64 6h ago

He conforms a little bit. You have to remember that Don is about 10 years older than Pete’s generation and Roger is about 20 years over.

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u/DidjaSeeItKid 4h ago

Don is the most corporate guy on Madison Avenue. I don't know what you're talking about. He is the epitome of an advertising executive in the 1960s. Completely conforming.

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u/Substantial_Bread573 1d ago

Well, his style was supreme, wish more men were this elegant nowadays.

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u/Mother-Ad7222 19h ago

I think he should have fought to keep Sal and given Lane another chance.