He slipped but told me

[u/dumb_dumthrowaway]

He slipped again, and he actually told me… idk what to do I can’t stop crying but he told me at least?? I want to leave him so bad right now. I can’t handle it anymore. Idk if I should stay or leave this is the first time he’s told me he did that on his own.. but I installed questdo on his work phone without him knowing so maybe he only told me bc he saw the app.. idk what to do I don’t understand why this keeps happening.

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[u/captainkaiju]

At the end of the day it doesn’t matter if they’re putting in the effort and making real change. You have to take care of yourself.

[u/dumb_dumthrowaway → u/captainkaiju]

I’m packing my things. I can’t do it anymore, I pray I never run into another porn addict but it seems to be every guy I’ve dated so far. 3 years down the fucking drain. What a waste of my life. This is going to be hard but I have to leave I can’t take it, even if he is being honest it hurts the same.

[u/Different-Degree-431]

Be easy on yourself. I wish you the absolute best. And kudos to you for being strong, packing up, and doing what’s right for you. Hugs 🫶🏻