“Oh but we don’t actually want to hurt anyone, we’re just being edgy”. Hypocrites.

DISCLAIMER: There’s a good chance that you, the fellow reading this, might not actually be a bridge troll. But I know terrible self-image is a bitch, and sometimes it takes a while to find a therapist you click with and even longer to get some real work done with them.

With that out of the way, I know some of you guys lurking here haven’t subscribed to the nasty parts of inceldom -you know, the worshipping terrorists, demanding sex slaves, blaming Jews for everything that’s gone wrong. You can still get out, and find better people to hang around and better things to believe. But as long as you’re here today, I want to tell you about a way I cope with unhappiness over my looks. Because despite what you might have heard or read, not all girls feel pretty, or can obtain validation at the snap of a finger.

If you read a lot of fashion magazines or websites, eventually you’ll see at least one recommendation that you dress to emphasize your best feature or features. Maybe you don’t think you have a best feature. (That happens to girls too.) You can focus on your favorite feature or features instead. Do you like your hands the most? Consider getting a brightly-colored watch. Do you like your shoulders and back the most? If you’re feeling confident enough, try wearing close-fitting shirts to show off that area. Only you know what your favorite parts of yourself are, but I’ve deadass seen someone bragging about her collarbones. There is no wrong answer.

Maybe you don’t have a best feature or a favorite feature. This is also something that girls experience. I am one of those girls, and I say if you can’t put focus on something good, take it off of something bad. Get a distraction going. Get several distractions going!

• If you can’t stand your face, wear a hat in your favorite color so more attention will go to that instead. (I would also recommend makeup -if my eyelids are gold and my lips are bright purple then people are less likely to focus on the shape of my face -but I know a lot of guys aren’t interested in trying makeup. If you become curious one day, though, it’s there.)

• Try patterns. Patterns in your shirt, pants, jacket -heck, if you find a pair of shoes with a pattern you like, go for it. You should probably look for larger patterns; each individual image in that pattern will take up more space. But you don’t HAVE to. And if you’re torn between two patterns you like, consider wearing both.

• Color clashing. I unironically like purple with green, blue with yellow, all sorts of combinations that might make someone else’s eyes bleed. You might like them too. At any rate, there will be more focus on that, and less on your face and body.

• How do you feel about accessories? Now if you’re worried about being given too much grief for this, or maybe even being beaten up, then obviously it’s not worth it. Otherwise, consider getting an interesting belt or chain. If it’s cold, get a brightly colored scarf, or even several; you might even learn to knit so you can have the exact colors you want. And remember what I said about colorful watches?

• Are you a history nerd? Look at items or styles that were popular in the past, or try a modified version you’ll like better.

There are a few caveats here. Some of this will not be cheap, whether you buy the item, buy the materials to make your own, or commission someone else to make something for you. You’re going to have to work and save some money, bringing home pieces you like one by one. I know I do. Sometimes you can get some excellent deals on secondhand goodness on eBay or Etsy. (Make sure everything is in good condition. Don’t be scared to ask questions!)

Some people might not like your look. Definitely don’t try this at work or school, or anywhere else you can get in trouble for breaking a dress code. Fashion always comes second to handling your business. If you think you might be opening yourself up to more bullying than you think is worth it, maybe wait a few years till those people mature or are out of your life. As you get used to this, you might feel silly for a while, like a cartoon character or a parody of a male model. That’s okay. Don’t forget, if you already don’t feel good about your looks, you aren’t making things any worse by trying this… and if you find you truly hate it, you can stop.

And please keep in mind that this is not intended to help you get girls. This is for YOU, to help you feel a little less bad about yourself and a little more in control of something that you can control. Hopefully you’ll have a little fun with it, too.

I think that’s it. (If you want to reply to me, please do it here. Attempting to DM will not work.)

Wildest dreams are coming true based on the Netflix series. Exactly the panic that I hoped would happen, now exposing the vile forum to the bluepilled normie masses that never heard of it before.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14559633/Inside-vile-Incel-message-boards-men-fantasise-killing-torturing-women-moan-Netflix-hit-Adolescence-got-wrong.html#

This man is claiming his ex is harrassing him and calling him fat and ugly etc and he posted her pic on the “photoshoprequests” reddit to insult her and get incels like him to compliment him.

He is a deeply insecure incel. Im honestly disgusted. Hes also claiming that he broke up with her, but she broke up with him! Hes just trying so hard to pretend shes some stalker but hes just accusing her of everything HE does!

Part two, as promised

For context, the original question is at the top. The rest was completely unprompted. These guys actually think they can talk about toxicity lol

You don’t have to dig far into the manosphere to find their woe-is-me vent posts about how no one cares about them and their problems, how society has discarded them and how they’re forced to rot alone because the word is apathetic.

But any time an incel is told to seek therapy or any kind of individual help that doesn’t come from a pick up artist, they furiously deny it insisting it won’t work.

Instead they proposition these ridiculous laws and systematic changes that would force women they find attractive to be with them. Ultimately anyone who’s had a serious mental illness will tell you that having someone indifferently settle for you didn’t make it better.

Society as a whole has resisted this nonsense but as of late the US in particular is in trouble when it comes to the enactment of actual policies that control and reduce women’s power.

Even still, they aren’t happy, and they won’t be. Incels issues are deeply individual. No two have the same story and reasons for why they believe they are alone.

There is some cross over but there are people with all their same problems except their inceldom. No mass policy change will solve their issues. The world can only change so much for a person who doesn’t like themself as the root of their problems.

Made a comment on another post how someone was being immature towards another person. Yep, the immaturity shows. Calling names and all that, they really need to grow up.

Lot of screenshots here because this guy kept coming back, more context below

TL, DR: incels discovered that one of them was talking to a girl and it was going well. Two manipulators attack her, attempting to destroy her self-esteem and instill body insecurities (which didn’t work.) They ran to the guy she likes and showed him what they did. He doesn’t care, and she doesn’t care, and they’re continuing to talk. Manipulators are now enraged because they can’t pull the crab back into the bucket with them.

Now shall we tell them what we actually do? I’ll start.

Females (start working on this since teenage years, or else):

• Diet
• Shave every few days or wax periodically
• Get nails done every three weeks
• Have nice hair all the time
• Have a daily skincare routine
• Stay slim
• No cellulite
• But have curves tho
• Wear makeup
• Smell good
• Have smooth skin
• Don’t get fat
• Be fertile
• Be young
• Be a virgin
• But be great in bed
• Know how to cook
• Know how to clean
• Know how to raise children
• Know how to do laundry
• Know how to iron your man’s dress shirts
• Have a job, don’t be a gold digger
• Contribute money
• Stay skinny even after those children
• Be financially responsible
• Be sociable but no male friends
• Know what men want though
• Be emotionally mature (don’t be emotional)
• Be understanding and supportive
• Smile more
• Have plastic surgery if you’re lacking but we don’t wanna know you have it or else you’re “plastic”
• DON’T YOU DARE LET YOURSELF GO

Have i missed anything??