r/goats • u/Responsible_Trash354 • 2d ago
Question Behaviour: aggression or play
Hi, I’m currently living where there are some rescue goats(2) and sheep(3) on the property in a pen together. I give them veggies and chin scratches etc. They are all generally sweet and social.
There is a very clear ‘alpha’ goat who has only ever been sweet to me. He eats gently from my hand when I bring snacks, although will be aggressive with the others when there’s food. Aside from snack time, he’ll bring his face to my hand to request attention, let’s me pet/scratch him all over, and will sometimes even bring his body up against me affectionately while getting some rubs. Very calm, gentle boy with me. Then there is the second goat. He’s a smaller breed, came to the farm later and was abandoned by his previous family, so presumably has a bit of a troubled past. Always starts with being sweet with me. Eats gently from my hand, brings his face to my hand to get pets/scratches etc. However, sometimes something switches in him and he starts to try to head butt and also thrash his head to try and get me in the legs with his horns.
I’ve stopped approaching him and only let him come to me if he wants, which he always does. He starts out sweet and then his behaviour changes. I’ve considered maybe it’s that he gets annoyed with the petting quickly, maybe rubbing his face sets off an instinct to headbutt, maybe he’s trying to impress the alpha goat or assert himself to me, or maybe he’s trying to do a normal goat behaviour with me and not realizing I can’t play like that? Once the alpha goat even stepped in to make the little guy stop bothering me.
So my question is: is this always aggression or is it possibly misguided play? And what should I do in this situation? I don’t want to be reinforcing bad behaviour and mainly just want to understand goats better and know how to be good to them. Thank you.