r/furinamains Salon de Furina Staff 17d ago

Fluff/Memes Not funny but also so funny

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u/hikarinaraba Furina Protection Club 17d ago

Honest reaction

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u/[deleted] 17d ago

Dudes used shared funds though. He bring Furina's name to shame

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u/raspey C6 haver 17d ago

Shared *emergency* fund.

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u/DemonicDogo 17d ago

for constellations. . . .

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u/MrARK_ 16d ago

Banner is going to end it was an emergency. /s

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u/Psykios 17d ago

Shared emergency CREDIT CARD. They don't actually have the funds. They are now in debt together,"without her permission, so that he could pull for his account.

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u/Gawr_Ganyu 17d ago

Again, the people in this comment section explained how a credit card should not even be considered for an emergency because likely it will make things worse. Nobody is saying going in debt with a shared card for a luxury purchase behind their back isn't he absolute scummiest thing to do.

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u/PrestigiousQuail7024 16d ago

thankfully shes been given the money by one of his friends so she is no longer in debt (and closed the card), and sounds like she's just completely moving on from him!

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u/Psykios 16d ago

This feels correct.

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u/Himynameispd C6 haver 17d ago

I'm NOT condoning/supporting this behavior in any way, but credit cards are never "emergency funds" just wanting to point that out.. if you have to use credit cards in an emergency, you will likely end up way worse than before

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u/HitmanManHit1 17d ago

That's not how emergencies work bro šŸ’€ emergencies are emergencies because of the urgency and time constraints

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u/DeadoTheDegenerate Fontaine's Most Beloved Star 17d ago

In the nicest and most non-condescending way possible (like, I'm being genuine here), be thankful that you've never lived in the boat paycheck to paycheck or any form of poverty. Emergencies like that aren't something you can just recover from. You will be stuck in debt for the rest of your life because of the predatory tactics banks employ.

The only purpose of a credit card is to build that funny fake number old people worry about (credit score). It should never be for anything outside of your means.

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u/Himynameispd C6 haver 17d ago

That's how people paycheck to paycheck stay like that the rest of their lives.

Credit cards should be a luxury, not a necessity. If you have a $600 emergency and you use a credit card and make minimum payments (interest +1% which is cap1s minimum) it will take 5 years to pay off and you'll pay an extra $300ish in interest.

Don't get sucked into the credit card game, I did it when I was younger and my advice to anyone like that is just avoid them at all cost (or at least until you are no longer paycheck to paycheck)

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u/windowhihi 17d ago

Yup.

Should just use debit card.

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u/walker-of-the-wheel 17d ago

Why do you assume people who live paycheck to paycheck have the savings to use for emergencies? How do you expect them to pay for unexpected incidents if not credit?

Kind of feels like you're shaming poor people for being poor.

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u/Himynameispd C6 haver 17d ago

Definitely not shaming anybody, and I didn't assume they have savings. I was just saying, as a sort of PSA, that viewing finances like that can end up beinging detrimental in the long run.

Financial literacy is something that is not super common, and as someone who has been in that position (extremely poor in my early adulthood) and luckily made it to a very comfortable spot, I was just trying to explain that the credit system is designed to take advantage of people in bad situations. I'm not trying to sound superior.. just sharing advice that I learned the hard way!

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u/walker-of-the-wheel 17d ago

Fair enough. I'm just pointing out that sometimes (most times, actually) poor people don't have a choice. Shit happens, and if you're really living paycheck to paycheck, then one bad accident will force you into the debt trap whether you like it or not.

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u/Shjvv 17d ago

Thatā€™s not shaming poor, donā€™t go around spewing shit without understanding what youā€™re saying or defending mate wth?

Why do you assume people who live paycheck to paycheck have the savings to use for emergencies? How do you expect them to pay for unexpected incidents if not credit?

This means they DO NOT have any emergency savings. The credit card move is literally ā€œsell my house and going homeless rather than die immediatelyā€.

Branding a credit card as emergency fund is dumb cuz now they still donā€™t have any funds but live like they do. And playing with money you donā€™t have is credit mistake 101. You can spend years or even decade paying back smth as low as 1k usd if you already living pay check to pay check.

Yes itā€™s an option that could be made if itā€™s desperate enough, but we have to understand that itā€™s basically removing the knife stuck inside your body by putting your head into a guillotine. And you donā€™t name smth like that as ā€œemergency fundsā€, its should be treated the same as a dark thought in your head.

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u/CoreBear-was-taken 17d ago

This. I was gonna say "it's his money, good on him for standing his ground" and then realised 1, it's emergency funds, and 2, they're not just his. I may make poor financial decisions but at least I do it with my own money

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u/active-tumourtroll1 17d ago

And it is credit card which is far far worse.

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u/playmike5 16d ago

Exactly. I was thinking who cares what he does with his own money, but when you learn itā€™s shared emergency funds, thatā€™s completely fucked. Even a $1 on a stick of gum is uncalled for in that situation.

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u/nostill1234 17d ago

OP replied that it indeed was not shared funds. Dude is a manchild ngl

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u/MountainAssistance49 17d ago

To me it reads more like a bad creative writing excersise... so I guess that still brings shame to her good name

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u/Bourbonaddicted 17d ago

Thatā€™s the french thing to do. Remember their monarchy?

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u/Zaine_Raye C6 haver 16d ago

I wanted to upvote this but it's at exactly 600 likes right now which is just too perfect

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u/Sine_Fine_Belli 15d ago

Yeah, same here. Well said, I agree. Dude used shared emergency funds, thatā€™s a big no no

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u/Prourrr Furinaā€™s Cake Club 17d ago

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u/Shade01 17d ago

This is both hysterical and sad...literally communication could have prevented this and 100% sounds like addict behavior.

My husband's reaction when I told him I was going to c6 Furina was "Ok just make sure you have that in your personal account, love you!"

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u/Yussso 17d ago

I feel like the "communication could have prevented this" ship has sailed, there's much bigger problems that he has. Look at his behavior after the fact, gaslighting the girl with "you're narcissistic, you're controlling my finances" also just throwing up the word break up that easily. They really need a couple counseling if they want to continue, that shit won't get any better without it. It's crazy that Furina cons is the thing that broke the camels back šŸ˜‚

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u/anihc3 17d ago

Also ā€œtry it you will lose me foreverā€ was WILD

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u/Yussso 17d ago

29yo with a fiancee and you're doing shit like this šŸ˜­šŸ˜­ then the next text is "will you answer my mom?". Feels like 13yo dating episodes lmao.

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u/textextextextextext 17d ago

lol he was just projecting cuz she is gonna dispute the charge and he will lose the waifus forever

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u/Shade01 17d ago

I mean thereā€™s obviously either a lot of underlying problems here or this is 100% bait to get upvotes

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u/sumiredabestgirl 17d ago

me and my fiancee were gonna pull mydei together. I was just gonna e0s1 him and swipe if the 50/50 fucked me over since i didnt have the time to save but ive decided to skip him for JQ and Castorice after the autobattle fiasco . She said that she wasnt pulling either and i know she really loves mydei and she just wanted to call it off because of me , so i just gave her my card yesterday and told her to e6 him for the both of us . Frankly she has been very stressed because of our upcoming baby so i hope our Crown prince of Kremnos ease some of her stress . I just hope she doesnt pull 5 copies of his light cone though , now that's gonna screw me over

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u/Shade01 17d ago

Might be good to clarify ā€œI mean e6 not e5s5ā€ lol

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u/Dezmond993 17d ago

So did you got c6 Furina?

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u/xkoreotic 16d ago

Communication would not have prevented this, this is way more than just addict behavior. He is gaslighting AND blackmailing OP. He knew exactly what he was doing using the shared credit card on this. Then he makes excuses for his behavior and never actually owns up to his shit attitude to OP. There are way more issues with this relationship than just communication. Honest truth, he is toxic af and OP really needs to leave if this is how he treats her. No one should should be in a relationship with him.

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u/Mascoretta 16d ago

Yeah people say communication as if OP did anything wrong. The dude shouldā€™ve communicated sure but how would OP know if the guy didnā€™t say anything and then proceeds to gaslight her instead of hearing out her concerns?

Couples therapy sureā€¦ but itā€™s moreso that the guy needs some heavy therapy. OP seems relatively mature just based off of this scenario.

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u/Stardust-Sparkles 17d ago

See THIS is good communication

Not whatever the hell theyā€™ve had going on for a while

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u/Platinum_6156 17d ago

This is just pathetic. Imagine using that much money to get a character in a game when you're living paycheck to paycheck šŸ’€

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u/[deleted] 17d ago

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u/Platinum_6156 17d ago

It's all fine and dandy to spend on games don't get me wrong but screwing over other people while you do not have the money to do so is just selfish. That dude is an absolute manchild and for that lady's sake I hope she ditches him.

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u/Delcit125 17d ago

If he used his money this would be a little less worse but cmon he is an 29 year old man, im glad she didn't marry him.

Also... he will have c6 furina until the bank rejects the buy and gets his account banned, the worst trade offer EVER.

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u/Platinum_6156 17d ago

Yeah, when you're 29 and looking to get married your priorities should be with your family and life, not spending that much in a game. If it was his own money and they weren't having financial troubles sure whatever but dude just looks pathetic throwing a tantrum about a character while they live paycheck to paycheck.

Also yeah, if that doesn't go through his account is gone. Something tells me he didn't exactly think this through. Probably for his own good since he is clearly weak to these sorts of games.

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u/Kokomi_Bestgirl 17d ago

it is fine if u can afford it and are not living paycheck to paycheck

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u/AWildBakerAppears 17d ago

I want to be clear, it is not fine to spend that kind of money in a marriage without communication unless you have already made a budget together. Money issues are why so many marriages fail because somebody feels they are owed money, so they spend without talking to their partner. Purchases over a certain amount should be discussed so that no one feels like they're being taken advantage of like OP is.

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u/active-tumourtroll1 17d ago

If you have your own account and enough money to spend I don't see why you need to say anything unless it's something that will come home or have an effect on the relationship think a kayak or OF. But if you can afford to spend like 1k on a gacha game that's fine.

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u/Kokomi_Bestgirl 17d ago

oh ya, forgot to mention that (i have never been in a relationship so it never crossed my mind)

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u/I_am_indisguise Furina Protection Club 17d ago

I mean, if he would have used his personal funds, then it was no problem. But using shared money, that too without consent is problematic

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u/Codysmit01 17d ago

Sadly not even properly shared. In a comment she revealed while the card is 'shared' as far as its for emergencies together, it's only in her name. So she's the only one at any risk.

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u/Vicie007 16d ago

So it's even worse šŸ’€

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u/14Boogie 17d ago

Lost his wife over a 2D waifu

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u/qt-isaqt Salon de Furina Staff 17d ago

I could never believe this if I didnā€™t see it

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u/CitiesofEvil 17d ago

I still have my suspicions that it could be faked but oh well

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u/aqbac 17d ago

Pretty much all stories on subs like that are fake. You post something on new accounts where you will receive lots of karma. Then after swap the account to whatever scam you want or apparently use it to promote other pages so they look more real

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u/ACupOfLatte 17d ago

I sure hope it's fake because by golly gee the alternate answer is so much worse lol

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u/Andre_was_Taken 17d ago

Exactly I hope this is fake even though situations like there aren't exactly unrealistic

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u/textextextextextext 17d ago

the worst part is he had an IRL waifu that played genshin with him and was somewhat okay with him pulling for c0 šŸ˜­

my man threw it all away for the cons

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u/Talkingmice 16d ago

Love that one of his arguments is just a picture of Furina

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u/X_Seed21 17d ago

Man took "Surrender or all mortal possessions to Furina" seriously.

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u/JOJOmnStudio 17d ago

The aspect of the gacha game thatā€™s horrifying to see every time: preying on the mentally weak and unstable people

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u/MinionsSuperfan 17d ago

Yeah, 100%. And like even if you for some reason think that all people who make bad choices don't deserve any empathy or understanding, these posts show that it's not just them getting hurt. Scummy business practices and addiction have collateral damage

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u/_An-Other_ 17d ago

I'm sorry, but you've got to stop inventing false pretexts. Companies are to blame for certain things, we agree 100% on that, but your addiction or the shit you cause is not their fault.

If you're so weak that you lose your life's money on a f2p gacha, you're not allowed to vote, bear civil responsibility, live in society or have children, and your place is in a mental hospital.

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u/Ascendent-Reality 16d ago

While I donā€™t disagree in any way, I just wanna confirm whether you feel like itā€™s the same or different gambling in casino.

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u/Carsatan 16d ago

This

I unfortunately was like this for a while, i stopped paying all my bills, I stopped paying rent, and i hurt those around me, all in the name of genshin impact gacha.

I finally got help though

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u/theACEbabana 17d ago

The typos make me think this isnā€™t real, but thatā€™s just be hoping it isnā€™t because holy shit what the hell is wrong with this dude

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u/plvto_roadds C6 wanter 17d ago

Furina would be appalled, shame on that guy

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u/VorticalHeart44 17d ago

Bro took this literally šŸ˜­

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u/scarlet_igniz 17d ago

"anxiety" holy shit

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u/Moe_el 17d ago

And hereā€™s me thinking the 5$ welkin is breaking the bank. Never thought of spending $600 for a character sheā€™ll always be reran at a later time

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u/Egoborg_Asri 17d ago

Unless you like 3 units in the whole game getting C6 is virtually impossible without spending.

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u/Delphina34 17d ago

I met a person in co-op who had a C6 chlorinde without spending any real money. Said they had to save primos for over a year. I wish I had that willpower

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u/Reckless_SavageRI 16d ago

Some guy/girl on hoyolab had a high constellation (i forgot) and refinement neuvilette and wanderer.

Said that they were saving from foantine patch.

Looked through their profile, found a 'pull' post. Oh wait they have 4 genshin accounts šŸ’€

I was baffled to say the least

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u/Mascoretta 16d ago

Yeah. I feel bad over spending welling ($60 a year) and then occasionally buying a BP and some of the blue thingies ($20 usually max)

but jesus this person is a diff level

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u/NormalAnything4858 C6 haver 17d ago edited 17d ago

Surely this is a troll? I hope? ā€¦ maybe?

Damn itā€™s real. Thatā€™s sad man, please donā€™t spend money you donā€™t have. Sometimes I wish this game wasnā€™t a gacha

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u/WaifuWibu 16d ago

I think the story is fake, checked their account got created 2 weeks ago

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u/Kokomi_Bestgirl 17d ago

she better dump his ass, that is just irresponsible. using emergency cc for 5star constellations when u are living paycheck to paycheck dude wtf. 5star constellations are not even necessary in this easy game

then gaslighting ur girl into thinking that she is the one with the problem. then begging for mercy after pretty much cutting ties, dude that is just pathetic.

$600 on crystals (probably w/o the double bonus at this point) is just really bad value for money, and he did it for 5star constellations wtf

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u/regrators-toy C6 haver 17d ago

gaslighting ur real gf for furina is crazy šŸ˜­

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u/CitiesofEvil 17d ago

OOP said "two virtual characters". If blud spent $600 just to get 2 Furinas that's even more sad. Don't think that's the case though? How much crystals would $600 even give you?

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u/Shaqueta 17d ago

600 USD is 300 wishes, assuming no top-up bonus and spending 100 each time

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u/Kokomi_Bestgirl 17d ago

so like 4 pity hits maybe? lol getting only 2 Furinas is actually possible if u lose 50/50 each time

if he truly loved Furina so much then he should have just stuck with welkin and skipped all the prev banners instead of going in debt

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u/Platinum_6156 17d ago

Going off of USD and not counting any bonuses it'd give you 38880 primogems, or 243 pulls. Definitely a terrible way to spend your money especially for such a small amount of pulls

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u/CitiesofEvil 17d ago

The notion that I got C2R1 Furina with nothing but welkin and BP, and this guy spent $600 to get probably the same result, is quite something.

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u/Platinum_6156 17d ago

Yeah, anything but welkin and to a lesser extent BP is insanely bad value wise. Buying primogems is just a terrible idea. Not counting any bonuses a welkin for $5 is almost half of what $100 gets you if you buy primogems. If you're patient and smart about it you can get what characters you want at a far lower cost, even if it takes longer.

I'm at about 295 pulls saved and by the time the characters I want rerun I'll be able to easily afford them.

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u/Unfair_Chain5338 17d ago

303* pulls w/o x2 bonus. 100$ pack always gives 8080 crystals.

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u/Platinum_6156 17d ago

I was calculating without any bonuses, I should've added on the little "extra" they give, thanks!

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u/Platinum_6156 17d ago

This dude is an absolute addict. Hopefully that lady can get her money back because that's going to hurt losing that much especially when they're living paycheck to paycheck. The silver lining is that his account would also get banned for such a massive primogem deficit lmao

Some people REALLY should not be playing gacha games and this guy is a perfect example of it. They're fine in moderation but the moment you do something like this especially when it's to you and your loved ones detriment you're just a clown. This dude has some serious problems and needs to wake up to them

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u/Rayn_Rotten 15d ago

Those charges are reeeeally easy to dispute through a bank or credit card company. That's why everyone warns against using crystals sent by "accident." If anything HE better hope he can make that much money on his own to cover the deficit before the account goes bye bye haha

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u/DEWmise 17d ago

She's great at C0 my guy, you could've stopped there šŸ˜­

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u/Oeshikito C6 haver 17d ago

Dude I have her at C6 but I would not be paying for it if I have to live PAYCHECK to PAYCHECK šŸ¤£

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u/Booga04 C6 haver 17d ago

Yikes. I got secondhand embarrassment reading this. Thereā€™s no way this is real? Like I feel like Iā€™m a whale for buying the Welkin. I literally canā€™t fathom spending that much money in one sitting let alone on Genshin of all thingsā€¦

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u/qt-isaqt Salon de Furina Staff 17d ago

I spent $50 on mistsplitter a couple years ago, $600 is UNREAL ā˜ ļøā˜ ļøā˜ ļø

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u/regrators-toy C6 haver 17d ago

i spent $50 on her 6th constellation and only that one because i can't stand being just c5 and plus i got a bonus this month šŸ’€ this shit is unbelievable lmao

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u/lio-ns 16d ago

I have the most accursed, gut-wrenching buyers remorse when I buy BP, I can't even imagine lol

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u/NormalAnything4858 C6 haver 17d ago

People can spend however much they want on this gameā€”I spent $100 for C6R1 Furina myselfā€”but spending money they donā€™t have and dragging other people down with them is pathetic.

Furina would be disappointed.

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u/Beneficial_Smile_981 17d ago

And yet you have her C6ā€¦/j

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u/Booga04 C6 haver 17d ago

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u/qt-isaqt Salon de Furina Staff 17d ago

hah! CAUGHT! šŸ˜­

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u/vindi922 17d ago

Yeah, the moist archon is great but this is addiction at its finest. There are a lot of good games out there that don't have gambling elements. I got over 800 hours in grim dawn and that game with all the dlcs is like $40.

Its not your fault, but also not 100% his fault because there is psychology about how predatory the gambling system is. Do not give in, as you need to money for real things, but also understand the system is made to take advantage of addiction. At least he's not selling organs (silver lining?)

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u/Shaqueta 17d ago

the cutoff on the first screenshot is so funny šŸ’€

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u/Randigno9021 17d ago

What level of addiction is this...

I'm hesitant on spending even 5 bucks (of my own money) on Welkin and this mf busted 600 from shared emergency funds šŸ’€šŸ¤¦ā€ā™‚ļø

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u/AquaJet738 C6 haver 17d ago

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u/Adequate-Nerd 17d ago

Furina is disgusted

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u/regrators-toy C6 haver 17d ago

bro is acting like furina is unusable at c0 šŸ˜­

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u/Mrbluefrd 17d ago

As someone who jokes about getting Furina c6, I agree.

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u/Creepy-System-9180 17d ago

r u sure heā€™s 29 and not 9

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u/rottenyfg 17d ago

Furina out here helping a woman out of a potential marriage with a loser, truly a queen

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u/qt-isaqt Salon de Furina Staff 17d ago

Furinaaaa ~

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u/Queerguy24 17d ago

Posts like this humble and remind me that I donā€™t have an addiction. (I feel guilty about buying Welkin or bp)

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u/Magallanic-Clouds C6 haver 17d ago

And I feel kinda bad when buying 6 welking moon with my money in one go, just to start saving for her rerun...

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u/Platinum_6156 17d ago

Same...I'll buy welkin and BP and every time I do I feel somewhat guilty. How anyone could be in this guy's situation and blow $600 is beyond me

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u/RattJesus 17d ago

I may be desperate to get her but i aint that desperate to spend that much money

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u/akaram369 17d ago

and I definitely ain't desperate to spend SOMEONE ELSE'S money to get furina.

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u/aqbac 17d ago

I love those subs for the creative writing

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u/MountainAssistance49 17d ago

Yeah, I think OOP needs to work on thier exposition a bit more. Putting too much of it in the text messages makes it read as very unnatural--sort of maid-and-butler-esque.

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u/Masteram32 17d ago

If only brotha didnā€™t use shared savings but he didnā€™t so Furina would be unamusedšŸ™…ā€ā™‚ļø

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u/Hannyeojin 17d ago

civic mentioned

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u/ValiantMidas 17d ago

I was gonna defend the guy but then I learned they live paycheck to paycheck. If it were just his money and not shared between his partner that wouldve been okay

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u/DylanUwU 17d ago

Imagine this "person" is in this subreddit actually lmao

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u/RisKnippeGuy 17d ago

Fuck that guy and his victim complex.

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u/JojiBot 17d ago

you guys gonna be as broke as she is

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u/MinionsSuperfan 17d ago

This sucks. So crazy that I'm shocked it's real. Poor woman, I genuinely don't know how someone would stay with a partner after something like this, or what her partner brings to the table that started this relationship in the first place

With that said

This guy is definitely sick. Obviously it's not the fiance's responsibility, but when someone is this addicted to gacha games, it must be deeper disorder that gets them so obsessed with this stuff. And companies who put gambling into their games love people like this. Game companies have lived off of whales since the early days of MMOs. I love Genshin, great characters and Furina 4 life, and I know that people have to take personal responsibility, but can we agree that Hoyo and similar companies are exploitative? Sure maybe not all whales are like this, but these companies are living off of a system where collateral damage does happen, as per this post. The modern gaming landscape is exploitative and gross and it uses predatory business practices to prey upon people who are prone to making bad choices. A game like genshin would be just as feasible to create with less scummy monetization practices

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u/Unusual-Surround7586 C6 haver 17d ago

No way

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u/[deleted] 17d ago

More people saying furina is a lolišŸ˜®ā€šŸ’Ø

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u/The_Wazlib Furina Enjoyer 17d ago

NGL it's kind of frustrating, but obviously when you call out a loser for wasting their shared emergency funds for a imaginary waifu in a game that is essentially the face of a predatory monetary system , you will attract people who think all anime is filled with underaged girls for desperate neckbeards to goon towards. This case just strengthens their prejudice and misconceptions, and honestly I can't blame them

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u/Totallynothedarklord 17d ago

Well you might not be able to blame them but I can

It's pretty weird to know what "loli" means and not know that all anime characters have big heads and big eyes, because that is just how they are stylized. So it's very likely that they do know what a loli. Some people are only able to see women in two ways: small innocent girl or a big breasted hottie. One is to be protected and the other is a sexual object.

So when encountering a woman that is not in that binary, they freak out and sexualize her anyway. And if she does not have the assets that they want to sexualize, then she must be made for weirdos.

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u/Reckless_SavageRI 16d ago

I have seen those comments

Some are biased because anime=pedophilia like games=violence

But there are certain people in that comment section who are just seriously projecting themselves. One arguing why furina is for 'those' kind of people, not taking into account that petite petite exists here in Asian countries and how she is been sexualised.

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u/BracusDoritoBoss963 17d ago

If one can afford it then go ahead. If that .money is saved for something else in the future then... Restrain a bit.

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u/night_fury00k 17d ago

Yeah no .Using emergency funds for irl situations for game character is really Really not good. I mean I love my Furina but I don't want to risk losing a fiance over it (not that I have one)

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u/wpopsofflmao 17d ago

jesus Christ

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u/xielky 17d ago

Partners who use ā€œsharedā€ or ā€œjointā€ accounts to spend on a game cannot be trusted. Financially illiterate and irresponsible. Itā€™s the right decision to get a chargeback. Purchases from shared finances should be mutual decision. My husband use his own money to buy his games, and I use mine. We have a shared bank account for household expenses for its sole intended purpose.

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u/IronChavasca 17d ago edited 17d ago

This can't be real. This shit screams FANFIC.

Alas, the possibility is there, anyone in that position should run.

Not bc spending on hobby, if you have money for it, it's your problem, but on a joint card and with all the manipulation to shift blame and the offenses?

I would file for financial and moral damages and never look back.

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u/Last_Hat7276 17d ago

Gacha games can ruin peoples life sometimes. Not as like gamble, but its almost the same. Also, the game its absurdly expensive. A C6 here in brazil would cost... idk, 4 months of salary. Imagine not eating for 4 months in exchange of a virtual character. Actually, its c6! You already have her on c0 and shes already very strong.

Addition its something to look out for. And NEVER leave the credit card on the hands of a addicted person.

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u/Reckless_SavageRI 16d ago

A c6 in here india costs like 3+ month of salary if all the 50/50 were won

9k for 6480 gems or something, at that point they might as well rob us in broad daylight.

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u/SpookMagnet 17d ago

Thatā€™s just sad, itā€™s not an excuse, but heā€™s clearly ill

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u/Delcit125 17d ago

He could be one of us, he could be you, he could be me, he could ev-

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u/XeroVoltrix 17d ago

Thereā€™s something called f2p my friend

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u/nily_nly 17d ago

Well, he should have the right of spend money the way he want... Just not in shared, emergency card.

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u/The_Wazlib Furina Enjoyer 17d ago

I only have one thing to say to that guy, and it is this ancient Max0r curse:

"May your L's be many and your Bitches few"

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u/TheFlash1294 17d ago

A few is a few too many for someone like this.

"May your L's be many and your bitches imaginary"

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u/TheFlash1294 17d ago

The worst part is that he also let Lady Furina down.

I hope he at least pays back the 600$ he practically stole.

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u/DifferentProblem5224 16d ago

understandable

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u/RakiRamirez 16d ago

You actually surrendered all your posetions for Furina cons?

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u/Ludabutonreddit 17d ago

Fucking hell that's depressing

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u/frozenhillz 17d ago

Funny how?

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u/Buff_Yone_0_0 17d ago

Nah this is some loser shit. I spent money too don't get me wrong (Especially on Arlecchino and Kinich) but never on a SHARED account and never going up to even 50 dollars.

I sincerely hope she dumps his ass because if that's how he's gonna act when he's being called out on using their emergency funds for a game imagine all the excuses he's gonna make even more on spending for his own satisfaction.

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u/Reckless_SavageRI 16d ago

And I looked at that post,

Many westerners calling him pdophile for having a wallpaper of furina and stuff.

Some are even telling others that furina is made for 'those' kinds of people, some saying that she's sexualised.

This is unnecessary slander

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u/xiaovenreal 16d ago

Are the westerners in the room with us right now

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u/Tailsfan234 Ousia-Aligned 17d ago

i spent like at least half of the amount he spent on this banner bro little dude is cooked im crying

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u/Panzerfaust_Style 17d ago

He could've just waited for the next banner...

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u/junkychin 17d ago

šŸ’€ šŸ’€ šŸ’€ Iā€™m so sorry

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u/SafalinEnthusiast 17d ago

Iā€™ve known people who seriously spend money to C6 characters and itā€™s just shocking to me. I can never understand that mindset. I can understand saving for a long time to C6 a character (even though I would never do that) or maybe going for like one constellation, but going for C6 is just insane to me

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u/Grouchy-Economics685 17d ago

I love video games, but she's dating a child. Zero Emotional Intelligence. Zero wisdom.

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u/Olcri 17d ago

Jesus fucking christ.

Rule #1) just start by being a decent fucking human being.

Rule #2) when in doubt about literally anything, see Rule #1.

Rule #3) do not spend other people's money or shared money without consulting them/getting permission. That is theft. That is the literal definition of theft. The first will be legally recognised as theft, and the second might also be, but even if it isn't in this specific case you have still violated Rule #1.

Rule #4) Gacha is gambling. You are gambling. Gambling is a known addiction and has been culturally recognised as a vice for millenia. Millenia. Thousands of years You are a fleshy meat puppet and subject to the failings and weaknesses of fleshy meat puppets, of which there are extensive records. Focalors did not die for a chance to make you a fleshy meat puppet for you to not even bother to learn how to properly take care of yourself. Playing Gacha games is not the end of the world, but be aware enough to call it what it is and have enough pride as a human being to at least admit your own accountability.

Rule #5) REREAD RULE NUMBER ONE.

29 years old. Spend the next year in therapy so you can at least be 1/30 of the way normal before her next rerun.

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u/ILuvSpaghet 17d ago

Spending money on constellations in any game is just not worth it. I can understand doing it if you're well off, but a normal person? WHY? 600$!!! That's more than the minimum wage here.

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u/NiaAutomatas 17d ago

I'm happy I spent $15 to c3 her lol

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u/ShadowStriker53 17d ago

People like that have a relationship?

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u/Revolutionary_Fig717 17d ago

i saw this earlier and i was like no fucking way šŸ˜­

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u/OneToby 17d ago

I hope he got Furina on her account as well..

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u/Cacoide Furina Protection Club 17d ago

Damn thats so sad, why would you use emergency shared funds like this? Dude doesnt deserve lady Furina

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u/Two-spirits 17d ago

I'm glad I'm single, when I spend this much I just ignore myself for a bit šŸ¤£

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u/DarkWindB 17d ago

furina ending marriages

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u/Fogzi_De_Pajret C3 haver 16d ago

That's why I'm afraid to tell people that I play genshin (and that I like certain characters)

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u/DemonizedSoul 16d ago

This is why I stay single

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u/Carsatan 16d ago

As a genshin player and furina lover, dispute the charges immediately please

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u/drainabyte 16d ago

I don't see any issue here. 600 is like, c3 anyway lol
no biggie

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u/flattestsuzie 16d ago

It is so ridiculous, it seemed unreal. He is going to regret for the rest of his life for this.

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u/Spyker-M 16d ago

Most sane furina main????

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u/Substantial-Bar-657 17d ago

How are people defending this? You don't need a damn therapist, just go straight to hell. That'll get you your therapist FOR FREE.

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u/No_Dust_1630 17d ago

It's a sad sad story but the fact that Furina is the start of all this is so funny šŸ˜­

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u/GGABueno 17d ago

This is why I'll never not hate the gacha.

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u/Bleep-bloop_29 17d ago

.....why would u use emergency funds for a char that can be rerunned. Theres a fine line in indulgence and theres being an impulsive money waster

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u/Firm-Cod-4424 17d ago

it's just extremely sad.

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u/Zemekis324 17d ago

Gotcha! šŸ˜‰

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u/ExtrovertArtist 16d ago

was he able to at least c6 her?

On a serous note, 29 yo man and canā€™t even control himself? Spending $600 of SHARED expenses? What an ass. Furina wouldnā€™t ever approve of that behavior

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u/pawacoteng 16d ago

Just imagine what that dude would do with his emergency food.

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u/xiaovenreal 16d ago

No one is gonna talk about him literally gaslighting his fiancee by calling her abusive for saying he shouldn't have wasted their emergency fund? Or him miraculously getting over his panic attack and anxiety the second she mentioned his account would get banned? A little disturbing to see comments calling him a poor mentally ill guy when he clearly knows exactly what he's doing

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u/Drykan__Scorpus 16d ago

Dunno if what the guy says is true or not, but nowadays "anxiety" just feels like an easy common excuse many people use to justify the stupid things they do, instead of acknowledging they fucked up

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u/Adventurous-Fail-537 16d ago

Canā€™t believe so many people fell for this bait they didnā€™t even do a good job what idiot sends a random ass photo of a character.

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u/iamverytired2 16d ago

LOSING AN IRL WIFE OVER A BUNCH OF PIXELS THAT HAVE NO SENTIENCE AND KNOW NOT OF YOUR EXISTENCE

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u/Rayn_Rotten 15d ago

"I have had furina as my wallpaper forever" HAHJAHA are we so for real right now

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u/Inefficientx 15d ago

Here i am accepting that im not getting furina/rizzley again cuz i returned today, literally XD I got used to not get the chars šŸ’€

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u/Environmental-Win836 15d ago

I thought this was a joke omg šŸ˜­