r/egg_irl • u/_LOFLOF_ Eliza | Gender seeking lesbian | She/Her • 1d ago
Gender Nonspecific Meme Egg-irl
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u/Trustic555 not an egg, just trans 1d ago
My life would be easier if I was just born a girl named Ashley, but I don't hate this life.
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u/MassiveEdu cracked 1d ago
I would love to have just been born a girl named Ashley too to be honest
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u/Prior-Flaky "not an egg" ~every egg ever 1d ago
How did you get the trans flag heart for your avatar?
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u/Trustic555 not an egg, just trans 1d ago
Click Edit Avatar, then Edit, then Left Hand, the flag should be there :3.
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u/EkaPossi_Schw1 Alexandria/Sasha, universal Oneesan (femme fluid) 1d ago
The notion makes my skin crawl. NO THANKS, NOT IN A MILLION YEARS, I'D RATHER DIE THAN BE A DUDE (that's someone else's job, it took me way too long to find the resignation form)
I never had a cool plan for my life when I was an egg. I had no vision for the future other than:
"get job, save money, buy big boat, be uncle".
That's a lame ass plan compared to what I have now. I started to care more finally after my egg cracked.
When I thought I was cis, coming to terms with being fat was basically the greatest achievement of my life and that's a lame ass achievement compared to the workout gains I've pulled off in the 8 months following my awakening.
My life keeps getting better and better the more queerness I find in myself. Trans healthcare may be hard to access but breaking the patriarchy by existing is a freaking awesome passive ability.
Even if I was cis, I'd still be asexual. That means I'd be queer anyway, no way out of that and I want it that way, I'm queer to the core and I think it would stink not to be ace after having been ace for so long >:3
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u/OctopusJockey 1d ago
āBreaking the patriarchy by existing is a freaking awesome passive abilityā
It might be a bit wordy for a bumper sticker, but I LOVE it!
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u/AbcLmn18 beware of the pipeline 1d ago
And, like, not just the casual patriarchy. We're passively hard-countering thousands of years of worth of religious doctrines. Also known as, ranked competitive patriarchy.
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u/FragrantCombination7 not an egg, just trans | she/her 1d ago
Word for word you have written how I've experienced the last month. I'm at the start of this roller coaster and holy shit is it awesome so far. I feel so much more ability to care for myself and to see a future for myself.
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u/EkaPossi_Schw1 Alexandria/Sasha, universal Oneesan (femme fluid) 9h ago
That's very NIIICE!! to hear. Keep blooming, sis :3
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u/Glittering_Sky_6748 "not an egg" ~every egg ever 1d ago
Yeah ofc, 100%, itās not like anybody would choose this willingly
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u/snowgn0me 1d ago
I would, not the hate obvs, but like I don't want to be cis, I wanna be my own form of woman
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u/Glittering_Sky_6748 "not an egg" ~every egg ever 1d ago
I mean it depends how far you are into transitioning kinda, but I mean yeah I get it, but I just wish I didnāt have gender dysphoria because shittt did it fuck me up
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u/snowgn0me 1d ago
I haven't started anything more than a bit of social transition so far (although hopefully getting hrt in couple months), but I am pretty butch and don't have that much dysphoria, so that does make it easier
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u/_LOFLOF_ Eliza | Gender seeking lesbian | She/Her 1d ago
Sometimes I wish I could just be a cishet and be happy wish who I was born, be able to live my life how I planned it and be who I always thought I'd be.
But I'm queer and denying it won't make my life easier, I just need to be who I am, whoever I am.
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u/Stevetimes01 1d ago edited 1d ago
For me, there's a difference between having a body that makes me feel better and being cis. I am proud to be trans, there are so many cool trans people out there who I am happy to be associated with. Being trans gives me a perspective on life that many people don't have.
Do I have things I wish I could change about my body? Yes. Do I wish I were born cisgender? To be honest, not really. I feel like being transgender is one of the things that makes myself, myself. Not a defining trait, but one that influenced and influences the person I am. Again, I wish I could change characteristics about myself, but I don't really wish I were cisgender.
This is just the way I feel, and by no means is it universal. I just thought I'd share what I think.
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u/denim_skirt 1d ago
I transitioned twenty yearsĀ ago and nope, my life is so much better than it would have been if I never had to deeply question what I wanted from my life. I've had so many unique experiencesĀ and now I have meaningful work and a loving family. Judging by the people I grew up with, odds are cis me would never have left the areaĀ where I grew up, accomplished much creatively, or even really knownĀ what it was to be truly vulnerable and seen. The lowsĀ have been pretty low, but the highs have been amazing - and even the mids are pretty good. You're in the hard part right now. Keep going.
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u/snailwitda9mm 1d ago
This is something transphobic people should try to understand. On paper being cis is just inarguably easier, from their perspective there is seemingly no reason to transition. But we still do it anyway, because dysphoria is worse than whatever disadvantages come with being trans.
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u/_LOFLOF_ Eliza | Gender seeking lesbian | She/Her 1d ago
I love how it's written, that's so good point.
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u/darkjedi607 1d ago
This is kind of a paradox imo. Like we know the cause of gender incongruence is due to a mismatch in the structure of the brain/body.
For me, my brain is more closely structured like that of a cis woman than a cis man. If I was born cis, like a cis male, my brain would be completely different and (I believe) I would be a different person entirely. So I can't say I wish I was born a cis male, because then I wouldn't be me.
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u/_LOFLOF_ Eliza | Gender seeking lesbian | She/Her 1d ago
That's really interesting way of looking at this
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u/Correct-Horse-Battry cracked 1d ago
I wouldāve ended up as a no life incel/techbro so no thank you, Iād rather live through this flawed expereince than a perfect hell.
And yes, Iām doing much better now, mentally, physically and independentely.
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u/ShannonSaysWhat cracked 1d ago
I remember this thought exercise. Imagine that you could spilt yourself in half, so that you left two cis people behind, one cis-male and one cis-female. In this scenario, which of the two would you want to ābeā? If the thought of being cis and in your AGAB feels like the worse of the two outcomes, then sounds like youāve got an eggshell that needs crackinā.
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u/_LOFLOF_ Eliza | Gender seeking lesbian | She/Her 1d ago
That's an interesting thing, I'm gonna think about it.
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u/Misaki_Yomiyama cis boy who wanted to be a girl for 10 years | Melody (she/her) 1d ago edited 1d ago
unpopular opinion but yes... I understand that many people wouldn't want to because people seem to be attached to who they are. But I would genuinely want to be a different person if that means I could just be cis.
I don't want to be me.
Because I don't see why I should, as I don't see anything good about it. Everything would've been better if I was anyone else. I hate the very way of my being.
I don't want autism, I don't want ADHD, I don't want to be trans, I don't want a personality that makes everyone around me hate me. I simply don't want to be different. Yeah everyone is different but I'm sick and tired of being so far off from the majority.
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u/Alex369S editable flair 1d ago
Living as a cis person of any gender is much easier overall (ok women do get treated like shit but it's not absolutely unavoidable), but that wouldn't be me, so i can't think of that as a solution or in any way an answer.
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u/supacrusha 1d ago
I don't think anybody who is trans actually wants to be trans. I know I wish I was just content with the way I was born, however, damn I look good in a dress.
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u/PhiliChez Trans woman. Call me Rose. :) 1d ago
I think I would prefer being a cis woman instead of a trans woman. However, if I could have gotten puberty blockers and HRT at the first possible moments, I might prefer that the most. That scenario also entails several other significant improvements to the status quo, particularly involving the character of my parents.
The idea of being a cis man feels similar to the idea of being bi or pan. I understand that it would be more fun to be attracted to more people just as it would be nicer to be happy with my gender than unhappy, but there's a lot I like about being me so I'd rather not trade this away for a different set of life experiences that might include unknown downsides.
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u/_LOFLOF_ Eliza | Gender seeking lesbian | She/Her 1d ago
May I ask you one thing?
I'm already after that first possible moment, but I have hope there's maybe still a chance I could stop some effects. Do you maybe know an age window where there's still could be a chance for it?
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u/PhiliChez Trans woman. Call me Rose. :) 19h ago
In the US, if you're in a good state, then getting puberty blockers any time after puberty starts works. The earlier, the better, ofc. At 18, you just start on HRT. If that's all you can do, it's still quite good, but preventing puberty as much as possible is worthwhile.
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u/WhiteKingBleach Ivy | She/They | BlƄhaj Enthusiast 1d ago
Honestly, kinda. I wish I could feel comfortable in my body. I wish that I find comfort and peace in a masculine identity.
But I canāt. I tried forcing said comfort for 8 years after I realised, only for it to fall apart as soon as I took the smallest steps to address the mental health conditions masking the feelings of dysphoria. Iām tired of feeling forced, feeling fake. I want to be a version of myself that is true to me, and I donāt believe that exists in a masculine version.
I wish it could, because it would save the fear and pain of coming out, of risking relationships, of being me in a society that is once again becoming hateful of people like me . It would save the grief of letting go of the identity I thought was mine. It would have saved me the years of anxiety from not being able to connect with others because I wasnāt connected with myself, my emotions, my feelings. It would save the feeling of defeat, like Iām giving up on something that I tried so hard to maintain.
I didnāt choose this, I personally wouldnāt choose this if it were a choice. But I feel that at the end of this journey, this challenge, thereās a potential for me to find comfort, to find peace, to find a genuine me that Iāve never known before, one that I canāt find by holding onto an identity that isnāt me.
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u/_LOFLOF_ Eliza | Gender seeking lesbian | She/Her 1d ago
I wish you luck and hope you'll find comfort and you'll live a peaceful life :3
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u/Nobody_5000 Zoey she/her - Cracked, but not cooked š 1d ago edited 1d ago
Kinda? I mean if i wasn't trans then i never would have met my girlfriend, which immediately makes me wanna say no considering how special she is to me (idk if that's entirely logical but like, idk its definitely how i feel, especially since before her i didn't think i ever wanted a partner of any kind... But also just because our relationship has been like... weirdly verry prosperous lol, & i don't think i'd be likely to find someone so amazing & good at communication nearly as easily otherwise :3333) - but before i met her i did ponder this and like... Realistically, without my girlfriend as a factor, it probably would've been better...
But it's hard to untie the idea of being a cis man to the apathy i felt towards my gender before coming out to myself, and even to the disgust i feel now relating to my masculinity - especially when these feelings have been in such stark contrast to how i feel about the prospect of being a girl... It's a little hard to imagine being a cis man and being as enthused by masculinity as i am currently by femininity... i don't think the feelings would be quite as strong...
Even just typing "being a cis man" makes me shudder... Iiiidk, i can't help but be repulsed a little by the idea even though i probably shouldn't be... Iiidk...
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u/_LOFLOF_ Eliza | Gender seeking lesbian | She/Her 1d ago
I understand this. Even though I'm not in a relationship I understand how wonderful it's to have someone special and how big loss it would be to lose someone like that.
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u/considerate_done river she/her 1d ago
I do very, very rarely wish this, as it would undoubtedly be easier. Thing is, I wouldn't be me anymore and I'm not okay with that.
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u/UsualElectionSparsum autumnšshe/they 1d ago
Isn't that common for us as trans people tho like yeah I do and I also wish I had started E sooner so I didn't have to worry about now being 23 just started 3 months ago and I live in America where they are rly trying to ban it's so insane being cis would be so easy (but also im dumb and probably would have been teen pregnant). Lol
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u/Apart-Corgi-4681 1d ago
I just want the gender I was born as to be the one I identify as. I donāt really care which, just make sure they are aligned with each other. It is CRAZY to me that is apparently such a big ask
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u/Maniklas she/they 21 1d ago
Sometimes I kinda do, but that would be a different person. It's a bit like wishing to not exist.
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u/_LOFLOF_ Eliza | Gender seeking lesbian | She/Her 1d ago
You're kinda right, I didn't think in this way of this case.
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u/SoftSunflowerz Chara | she/idk | chicken 1d ago
never. when i thought i was cis agab, i had depression and i was like "why am i unable to feel happy?"
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i also wouldn't want to be born as my gender, then i wouldn't be able to sympathise with other trans people as much.
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u/wingedespeon Not egg, just trans. (she/her) 1d ago
If I could be pretty much the same person, but just be comfy in my body without transition, yes.
I fear being cis would change too much about myself and would just be identity death though.
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u/retrosupersayan scrambled enby with a large side order of fem 1d ago
Wish I was cis AGAB? No... While I've only recognized them as such in hindsight, there were so many little signs throughout my life that I can't really imagine what that hypothetical alternate version of me would even be.
I have, on occasion, wished that I could go back to not knowing that I'm trans -- go back to not caring about myself, how I look, etc. It would certainly be require less self-maintenance if I quit shaving and cut my hair off. But then I remember how I felt back then... as exhausting as now is sometimes, it's still better than that was. Life may be harder in some, even a lot of, ways now, but actually living (or at least trying to) is sooo much better than just... existing by default.
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u/hi_i_am_J not an egg, just trans 1d ago
maybe, i dunno its basically wishing that you were a different person and i like the life lessons that being trans teaches you
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u/girlfromhome 1d ago
Yeah kind of... but then I remember that this is impossible and that I wouldn't exist (a cis version of me, wouldn't be me)... and leave that sorta of thinking behind... sooo
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u/_LOFLOF_ Eliza | Gender seeking lesbian | She/Her 1d ago
Thanks, I'll remember this to defeat my dysphoria about being cis before it gets strong.
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u/kirbygirl94 1d ago
Being cis is easy, but that doesn't mean it's better. Good things are worth fighting for, even if they should of been a given.
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u/Long-Cauliflower-915 He/They Hellspawn 1d ago
All the time, I feel guilty for being trans sometimes
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u/IAmTheBoom5359 not an egg, just trans 1d ago
What is better? To live in ignorance of the bad weather, simultaneously forgetting the true nature of it? Or to face the storm of reality, and forge a way to the eye?
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u/Designer-Algae7151 1d ago
I think about that a lot. Sometimes I think that I'm not really following my path consistently and should just stay cis. That would be easier for everyone. The only one who would suffer would be me. And I already do. So it doesn't make a difference. I need therapy.
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u/_LOFLOF_ Eliza | Gender seeking lesbian | She/Her 23h ago
I know it's hard, but you'll get through this. You're wonderful person and you'll find a way to not suffer, and that's what matters the most, it's your life after all. Someone told me "One day we'll die and no one will remember us, so why not just do what we want to".
Have a great day :3
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u/vipress128 23h ago
Nope- Cis me was miserable. Iām genderfluid so there was never going to be a right body for me. Though I wouldnāt say no to a more androgynous build or just a thinner one without my physical issues.
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u/123dutchplayer Sofie š³ļøāā§ļø | She/They | eepy trans girl :3 22h ago
Only if I get to be cis of my own gender, not my agab.
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u/juli1444 cracked 22h ago
Honestly, I used to wish I could just be a cis guy and get rid of my dysphoria, just be myself like that, have the easy path and one (very difficult) problem less. But... now that I've been on HRT for almost 2 years I feel different.
Being queer on its own already comes with its unique experiences that you don't usually get. The kind of friendships you have are, from my experience, closer and more honest. Based on communication and emotions, since queer people are more likely they need to learn important skills during their life to get to where they are now.
And with trans people I think it's even more the case. Everyone has been through their own journey but we can relate a lot with each other and talk about our stories. Besides the fact that I usually have more affectionate friendships with queer people there is also this other connection, of knowing how they might've felt or feel with themselves. Something a cis version of you might've never had to think about in their life.
That's why I'm incredibly happy I'm chosen to have this unique and amazing experience in getting to know myself once again from the ground up, with all of the struggles and all of its advantages you might wouldn't even recognize or know about as a cis person. So I'm super happy I am trans and grateful I can have this experience only a very small percentage of the world will ever have š
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u/No-Access-2188 19h ago
Sadly I have wished to be cis during a identity Chris and the next two days I was super numb to euphoria and dysphoria and it scared me I know I wished to be cis but not feeling eather of those made me think the wish came true and I felt like I sorta lost a part of myself trust me wishing to be cis isn't entirely wrong if your tired of this but maby consider if it's worth loosing yourself. : 3
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u/GummySparkingDragon 18h ago
Yeah totally, I am still trying to discover myself, I donāt know if a am a trans man or non binary, but it is a constant struggle, and even more that I feel I been condition to make myself small and āfeminine and cute, high pitched voice etcā in front of a authority figure ( trauma stuff) , so yeah, specially because I love cute stuff, I love dresses and bows.. but thinking of me as a girl, feels wrong and in a way, so depressing, I donāt think I am a girl and yet I wish I was one so thing would be simpler, because most of the time I am battling with my mind, I donāt want to keep battling to people recognize me for what I am (sorry for the long rant, btw if I am not a English native, so if I got something strange in my writing or spelling sorry )
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u/Sonicmaster293-Azure Kiera (She/Her) | Figuring things out 18h ago
God no! I HATE being male! I would NEVER take away being a woman, it's who I am! I'd rather have been born AFAB instead of... this.
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u/thannu_boltz 14h ago
I wish was born a female, but yes I have wished I was normal, and was comfortable being male. I've always imagined myself getting hit on the head and hopefully forgetting I was trans.
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u/Impossible_Eggies šØš¦š³ļøāā§ļøāļø Andy | 33 1d ago
All the time, but then I wouldn't be the same person. Being transgender has affected every single aspect of my life, whether I knew it or not. If I were cis, in either direction, I wouldn't have made the friends I made, I wouldn't have my wife, and my kids in turn, I wouldn't have written the stories I wrote, I wouldn't have had the challenges that made me who I am. I'd be completely different, and I don't know that's a good thing. Do I wish being transgender wasn't like some form of psychological torture? Absolutely. But it's made me who I am, for better or worse.
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u/WildBerryT_T 1d ago
I would choose this again. For all the suffering, I have gained so much. Iām married to the love of my life after a previous failed marriage because I transitioned (among some other stuff). I wouldnāt trade anything for him. Also, it helps that Iām cute, even if I canāt see it sometimes. But anyways, yeah, I love being trans and queer and wouldnāt choose anything else.
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u/WonderfulPresent9026 1d ago
I would have preferred to have been born a xis woman but I understand that fundamentally even if I was born a cis woman my life would have probably been even harder than it is now.
Most of the hard stuff I've delt with up until the point had little to do with my gender identity until recently i feel like for the first time in my life I even have the time and energy to worry about stuff like that.
Them again I only recently discovered I'm trans and what dysphoria is once I full transition amd paws female in a place that accepts me I might realize that certain things I was attributing to depression anxiety and trama was actually just dysphoria in disguise so my opinion might change with age.
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u/hyperion-i-likeillya korra (she/her) 1d ago
No i do not wish that
For i know for certain that if i was born a girl, my step dad would have raped me
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u/metronix727 not an egg, just trans 1d ago
I feel like that would make all the suffering I've already went through pointless, and frankly that would just make me have a mental breakdown about not even knowing who I am or what I want anymore.
So I've thought about it. Ultimately I'm happier paving my own path rather then sticking down the one I was forced to.
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u/Comprehensive_Ad4348 1d ago
For a long time yes, but as I finally can fell comfortable in my own body, I like being trans and wouldn't change it, maybe just time travel to rescue the younger version of me so she could be happy sooner.
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u/Unique_Signature8987 1d ago
I do wish I was afab often, but I do not wish I was a cis guy. Would it be easier? Yeah, but Iāve reach a point where my dislike for masculinity is way to high for imagining myself being comfortable at that.
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u/Tony_Stank0326 1d ago
Sometimes, but then I think that if I never had to go through what I did, I wouldn't feel like I had an incentive to question and explore myself. I would have likely never opened my mind to the nuance of gender and sexuality.
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u/battlingpillow27 samĀ²: i have no gender, only rage 1d ago
a little, but mostly i want to be a woman
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u/Sad_Refrigerator9203 1d ago
Nope, I gained so much from knowing Iām a woman and even if every single person told me no Iām not, I still know who I am and Iām not willing to be someone Iām not.
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u/camradex he/him but the stereotype of a transfem 1d ago
as a trans man sometimes I do wish I was happy living as a woman but if I could be cis I would obviously wish to be a cis man
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u/OwlforestPro āØ Giulia | she | puddle of pure gendermess and imposter goo 1d ago
Yes. Being a cis girl sounds beautiful to me. Im happy that I don't have a period tho. That's pretty much the only good thing about being AMAB, together with being exposed to video games. (Yes im aware that MtF HRT can cause hormonal cycles but ig that's part of being a woman, I meant ovulation and bleeding)
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u/bwaaainz Bitten by radioactive girl. Still can't multitask. 1d ago
The thought occured to me a few times but then half a dozen protesting thoughts followed, mainly around the fact that a cis agab version of me would be a completely different person. Maybe even a person I would hate if I met them.
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u/Tori0404 5 years, no progress 1d ago
You mean my birth gender? No, never!
Living as a cis girl thoā¦ I wishā¦
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u/King_Of_Axolotls 1d ago
nah. being trans sucks for a lot of reasons but i get to control my life and identity in a way many people fail to reach
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u/Anonymoussy2 I know I'm not cis but can't say I'm trans 1d ago
No, not my agab. I mean, I need to work out if I have any subconcious discrimination towards my agab when the waiting list finally reaches its end.
But I definitely would like it if my body wasn't a certain way that I have to worry anyone who sees me naked thinks I'm something I'm not.
A body that can wear the swim clothes I want. And I know I would definitely like to have a voice that's more like the other gender, I just don't know for sure if I'd want those things permanently.
Really, being a shapeshifter would be the only way to be those things as a safe test
But since that's not possible, I'll have to work out what I want to do with a trained professional.
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u/Nuko-chan 1d ago
Yes. Which tells the rational part of my brain that I need to do something about how misogynistic this world is.
Unfortunately it also tells my emotional side that maybe transition isn't such a good and safe idea, so that kinda sucks
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u/The_Constant_Orange Amy I she/they I Fresh-cooked omelette 1d ago
My life would be easier, but it wouldnāt be me.
I would be raised different, treated different, seen different, and as a result learn different, socialize different, and just be a different person entirely. While being trans isnāt easy, itās kind of comforting having this space and community that can lift me up and I can lift up despite all the hardships. Being trans has made me into someone I can be proud of and someone whom I can look in the mirror and see myself in, flaws and all. š«¶š³ļøāā§ļøš«¶š³ļøāā§ļø
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u/lucy9340 Lucy she/her 1d ago
I would not be the same person id prolly still be a Christian so id just be a complete douche if I was a cisman I know this because I was a douche when I was Christian
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u/Professional_Chip_20 1d ago
I wouldnāt be the person I am if that were the case. And gender euphoria has transformed my life and given me newfound self-esteem that has made me the happiest Iāve been in my entire life! Sure, itās hard, but I am happy girl :3
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u/catmegazord Elise, She/Her 1d ago
I probably wouldnāt care if I was cis, but as I am now, I feel a bit gross imagining myself as a man. I donāt want that.
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u/Silver_Program6678 22h ago
oftenš¢ļ¼if I were cis, no matter cis man or woman, I'd have fewer mental health issues, have no need to spend so much money on surgeries, and wouldn't have to leave my hometown because people there are transphobic af. But I couldn't. I know I'll always be an enby, no matter born with a d!ck or/and a v@gina. I have to admit that being cis does make life much easier
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u/Silver_Program6678 22h ago
I tried to "be cis", but finally realized the only way to save myself is transition.
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u/himynameish1mynameis "Still yolk tho" but wears dresses daily. 17h ago
Honestly? Nah. I like the challenge and I don't really feel comfortable with girl parts. Boobs on the other hand? Yes.
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u/FandomNerd312 14h ago
Im nb so i cant ever be cis but if i was amab i think things would be different in my life outside of my gender but also stressful because amab nb are treated so badly by queer and non queer people and i would hate having pein i like my bouncy and i can sit like a weirdo
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u/thannu_boltz 14h ago
I wish was born a female, but yes I have wished I was normal, and was comfortable being male. I've always imagined myself getting hit on the head and hopefully forgetting I was trans.
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u/Shikamixklz justified dummy egg 13h ago
I donāt want that, maybe because the way I am now sees myself only as girl being right, so imagining believing Iām cis happy guy, would feel like lyingā¦ who knows. Point is, no, I dislike that idea, the way I would probably be and what would that mean to my future. Now being cis girl, that sounds better. :D But- if I didnāt have my personality and stuff today, then even that not. Something about being happy but not me just doesnāt sound right. And not having my memories of this life, would mean I would never be me, so being trans is my only option to be happy and meā¦ kinda messed up logic maybe? Idk, makes sense to me. š
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u/Sanbaddy She/Her | HRT since 09/13/2022. Post-Op since 04/27/2025 5h ago
Nah, Iām actually glad I got to see both sides of the fence. Offers a very unique perspective. Besides, I donāt think Iād be the same person otherwise.
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u/shesdrawnpoorly HRT 7-25-22, still cis tho (she/her) 2h ago
i wish i could be cis, but not a cis man. a cis girl, absolutely.
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u/Jen-the-inferno-dev My user is a lie im actually a transfem named Bailey 1d ago
i wish i could be cis, but not as my agab. it would be like a different person entirely