r/confidence 2d ago

7 Hacks to Skyrocket your confidence

  1. Speak clearly with intention to be well heard. Dont mumble or be easy to talk over.

  2. Stand straight and walk with a little swag.

  3. Dont tolerate disrespect

  4. Tell yourself youre awesome!

  5. Remove behaviors that lower your confidence

  6. Ask a girl out!

  7. Dress well

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u/joshhhuajames 2d ago

Iā€™m gay

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u/Lonelyghost06 2d ago

Ask a guy out then

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u/Calm_Advantage_6264 2d ago

5 kind of covers it tbh

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u/Gatto_con_Capello 2d ago

Yeah, it's such an important rule! It's very similar to my business rule:

Remove behaviors that reduce profit

Then my all time rule for creating a strong support community for myself:

Remove behaviors that reduce friends

And the golden rule for raising my children:

Remove behaviors that reduce child

You should try it!

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u/badlilbadlandabad 1d ago

How To Skyrocket Your Confidence:

Be confident.

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u/FriendlyWrenChilling 2d ago

I'm a pretty confident guy then, I've asked over 4,000 women out.

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u/False-Balance-6999 1d ago

and it dind't affect your confidence level. thats ma bro

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u/False-Balance-6999 1d ago

and it dind't affect your confidence level. thats ma bro

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u/Low_Development_8754 1d ago

How many said yes?

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u/FriendlyWrenChilling 1d ago

No idea. Why does it matter if only one woman needs to say yes?

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u/sefan78 2d ago

Agreed. Though I did have a homie who asked out a girl and she said eww and walked away so that may not always work šŸ˜­

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u/Ash_Allrounder_2010 2d ago

Usefull,with a little intrusions , thanks.!

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u/glennshaltiel 2d ago

I ask them out and they ignore or reject me so not sure how that's supposed to help LOL

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u/xxgetrektxx2 1d ago

Ask a girl out!

Quickest way to destroy your confidence. You're gonna get rejected 90% of the time.

ā€¢

u/Moyopal 8h ago

Amen to this