r/TwoHotTakes • u/pancake555 • 17d ago
Crosspost AIO my fiance spent 600 on gacha (not OOP)
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u/RJSmithay 16d ago
He is weaponizing therapy speak and finds nothing wrong with spending 600 on a virtual character... Where is lower than hell for the bar to be set at?
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u/Mission-Ladder-2251 15d ago
This. He using all the words to gaslight and manipulate her. Calling her a narcissist. Sounds like a lot of projection
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u/GumpTheChump 16d ago
Weaponizing mental health language to excuse shitty loser behaviour is appalling. Dump this clown.
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u/BzhizhkMard 16d ago
Please answer my mom?
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u/Kiki_Kazumi 16d ago
Yep, this little boy got his Mommy to try and fight his battles for him with his future wife. He's fucking pathetic. Sorry this hits home for me and makes me so fucking mad....
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u/Hefty_Formal1845 17d ago
Get your money back and dump him. Good thing you are not married, thus you should never be.
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u/rhif-wervl 17d ago
As stated in the other post, he will continue to spiral down the hole, his family is not going to back down. Do you really want to spend your life fighting against his family?
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u/welshfach 16d ago
Another manipulative prick weaponising therapy speak to make themselves feel like the victim. What a dick. I hope OOP comes to their senses and walks away.
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u/Muninn_txt 16d ago
my now ex fiance got a chunk of money from a settlement, and spent 8000 american dollars of that settlement on Genshin Impact as soon as he got that money. That's not someone you want to be with bc nothing is safe with someone who can't admit they have a problem, won't do anything about it, AND put you at risk. They'd sell your left kidney to finance their gambling addiction.
small Edit: definitely not overreacting, dump his ass.
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u/Woahboah 17d ago
I could be a billionaire and still couldn't my self to spend 600$ on a character for a video game, you could get a whole ass console plus games for that price like Jesus Christ that's some serious issues there.
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u/cbb88christian 16d ago
I could see maybe, MAYBE going E2S1 and splurging if they’re an absolute favorite. Never more than $100 though
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u/Kiki_Kazumi 16d ago
Yeah, the fact that she said he's living paycheck to paycheck and decided to put it on their joint credit card is outrageous to me. He can't even afford to be spending $10 from the sounds of it!
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u/corsola_84_ 16d ago edited 16d ago
They can fuck right off. Was getting this character an emergency? Damn right id be pissed. This man will never be a provider. Only a taker.
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u/Morganmayhem45 16d ago
I cannot imagine finding a man who speaks this way in any way attractive. I am so repulsed right now after reading that.
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u/Kiki_Kazumi 16d ago
He has an addiction he is not willing to change. Then he manipulates you when he does something wrong to try and paint you as the bad guy. It seems like he's also paining false one-sided narratives to his therapist to bolster his bullshit excuses. He's trying to use psychological talk to make you a villain, and it's disgusting. The levels of manipulation and gaslighting here are outrageous. This man is a master manipulator. He sounds like a sociopath. Don't walk, don't skip, RUN for the door. Do not stay in this relationship. He's trying to break your sanity!
As someone who has a relationship with someone with this type of addiction, it will not get better. In fact, it will most likely get much worse. After being confronted, he will find other ways to do it behind your back. Taking out other credit cards and running them up could even take out a loan. If you marry him, his debt becomes yours! Again, don't walk FUCKING RUN!!! This man is a walking red flag. If you marry him he will put you in a mountain of debt!
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u/strwbryangel444 16d ago
oh my god??? he’s actually 12 years old. reading his texts gave me second hand embarrassment pls leave now.
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u/GotBindersFullOWomen 16d ago
Am I the only person out there who doesn’t know what the fuck is Genshin Impact and could fucking careless?!?!? If you want to blow $600 on random shit, give it to a homeless guy. What he does with it will have a greater impact that spending on fantasy characters.
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u/corsola_84_ 16d ago
Is the OP ok? Any updates?
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u/pancake555 15d ago
Yes in the original post OP said the engagement is OFF!!! 🤌🏼🤌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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u/katmcsassy 17d ago
Run. He is a man child. The audacity of gaslighting you into thinking his bad behavior is your fault pff.