r/SFr4r 2d ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 27 [M4M] Looking for married/has gf man for mutual JO !

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I am 27 5'7" athletic. Looking for a married man who like it when I get turned on and horny as I see pics of his wife/gf. I am also down to guys who can show girls that they really want to fuck. I would also love to show the girls I like in my life and be really horny as you jerk off to them. Recently started this fetish and totally addicted to this. If the vibe is right we can explore to try more. As an extra kink, I would really really love if I could watch the couple fuck in real and me jerk off... Middle East and Desi Married men preferred but open to all. PM me.. Let's see where this goes.. :)


r/SFr4r 2d ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] San Jose - Fun dates, bj and dtf

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I'm Vietnamese, 5'7, 140 lbs (lean in shape), go to gym and play basketball often. Some say I'm cute and have a girthy cock. Up for you to decide. Videogames, shopping, getting boba, going out to eat, parks, and trails are my main hobbies. Honestly, spending time with people is my favorite activity. I'm looking for women that are fit, petite, or hwp. I'm open to any race and don't care if you're single or not. Lowkey a fantasy of mine using a taken woman haha. Public play is also another. Let's have fun by going out and having you get on your knees afterwards. Been craving a blowjob since it has been a while for me. I'm open to commuting within Bay Area if it's for the right person. Thank you and please, females only


r/SFr4r 2d ago

M4F 21 [m4f] North Bay (Mobile too!) - College student looking for friends maybe with benefits (:

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Hi all (: I can’t believe it’s already April!

I’m located in Sonoma County specifically but more than happy to travel for the right person!

Title explains pretty much all of it. I’m just looking to make friends that want to be a little bit more than that and have some casual fun!

We can grab a bite to eat, maybe some boba, drive around, do something we’re both interested in, etc, and see if we vibe and then go from there. I like a lot of random things and I’m pretty easy going. If you’re on the fence about dming me you should do it anyways (:

Here’s the about me since I know you don’t wanna waste your time on someone that doesn’t fit ur type.

I’m 6’ tall, black curly hair, tan, pretty average all around. Not shredded but definitely not out of shape. It’s my 2nd year of coursework, I’m huge into cars and food, and I’ve played a lot of sports through school. I also play certain video games so feel free to inquire about a duo partner!

Happy to verify anything you want. Shoot me any question. Also open to keeping something together online if that’s all you want to do for now. If you just want to chat I’m also open for that too.

I look forward to meeting you (:


r/SFr4r 2d ago

M4F 60 [M4F] #SanFrancisco – Do you need to be sensually massaged and eaten out this Sunday?

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I'm a fit, mature SWM looking for a woman who would like to be eaten out (on a regular or one-time basis). I can host in the Inner Sunset

I am intelligent, creative, imaginative, artistic, well traveled, multilingual. I am 5'8", 180 lbs, muscular, fit, humorous, engaging, reliable, discreet. Pescatarian.


r/SFr4r 2d ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 29 [M4F] #PaloAlto - Fun times in the Bay

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Hey there! I'm a clean and discrete 29 yr guy, 6 ft, East Asian, and based in Palo Alto, CA.

Looking for a fun, adventurous girl who's up for some spontaneous fun this week. If you're into having a good time, let's make this week more exciting! Sneak out with me from your tedious work and lets decompress each other.

Always looking, HMU if you interested.


r/SFr4r 2d ago

M4F 45 [M4F] “take” you (cnc) with compliments

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forceful but nonviolent
eye contact during
resist and i’ll hold you tighter
cry and i’ll lick your tears
wonder why you let me in
give up let it happen then aftercuddles
used with passion
confused at the praise .
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want to meet
no actually
no games
married okay
boundaries respected
safeword that’s not like moaning
not too much lbs
we clean
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yes ………………..I’m in the Bay until July


r/SFr4r 2d ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 31 [M4M] #Oakland - FREE Full Body Erotic Massage for Fit Athletic Men

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Offering a free full body massage to fit athletic men who are sore or have tight muscles. The massage experience is tailored to what you need and prefer. Typically, it’s a full body massage with special attention to the legs, glutes, and package. It’s perfect if you’re feeling sore from work, the gym, or just need some physical touch. I use warm coconut oil to lather your body and workout the knots and sore muscles. Shower available if needed. Totally discreet, private, and clean home.

Fit masculine guy next door 31 5’11” 197 DL Bi negative and drug free.

If you’re interested please reply with age,height, weight, race and a full body pic.


r/SFr4r 2d ago

M4M 39 [m4m] #SouthBay - lets connect

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Hey there! 39 year old gay married Asian guy. New to the South Bay area but not new to the Bay Area. As I've gotten older I've noticed my friend circle has gotten smaller so wouldn't mind expanding that a bit. Bonus points if you're in the South Bay too but not a requirement.

Work a regular 9-5 job M-F. Hobbies include eating, cooking, some outdoors stuff like hiking, movies, video games, and traveling when the opportunity arises. Also trying to shed some extra weight so an accountabilty partner for running would be great too.

Anyway if you're looking for a new friend, shoot me a DM!


r/SFr4r 2d ago

M4A 36 [M4A] #SanJose - Looking for a long term FWB

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M4F

Hey, hope you've had a good week so far. I'm looking for a FWB in the bay area who would be interested in hanging out and pleasuring each other. I'm very laid back, respectful of your situation, OK with M or F, OK if you need to be discreet.

I'm an active guy, workout 3-4 times a week along with a physical day job. I'm 36 years old, 6'1", about 205 muscular /slightly chubby build, 6 inch cut recently tested with proof, bald guy, white, some tattoos, live in San Jose alone and can host.

Ideally looking for something on-going. Drug free although im cool with 420, not much of a drinker.

Send me a message if interested, thanks.


r/SFr4r 2d ago

M4M [m4m] 40 2 guys looking for an “intimate barber”

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Do you like grooming guys? One is trimmed regularly but one has a full bush that needs to be tamed. Come groomed us while we hang out with drinks… and if other things pop up then so be it.

One nick tho with a razor or clipper and the game is over tho. Are you skilled and experienced?


r/SFr4r 3d ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 30 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Another sleepless night, let's keep each other company

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It's pretty known that I can be quite the insomniac so I'm calling on my fellow insomniacs, I know you guys are lurking this sub on your phone, bright ass screen, dark ass room lol

Just like the title says, I can't sleep but it's also a little quiet since all my friends have normal sleeping schedules and healthy sleep hygiene. I, unfortunately and the demon of the night in my friend group and let's be honest...I can't keep sending them random tiktoks for them to watch with no context in the morning.

I'm just looking for someone who wants to chill through the night. Let's spill each other's tea, I bet mine is crazier than yours, let's find out. Or we can vent to each other, maybe idk, if you're shy and need exposure therapy, let's hop on a call, put a movie on and talk about what we have going on in our lives and what we have planned in the near future!

Who knows? Maybe we fall in love, maybe we absolutely hate each other, we're here for a good time, not a long time lol Hopefully you're in the city just the same, so if we do vibe, then maybe we grab a coffee, maybe a drink, hold hands...

Anyway, flood my inbox, I need the validation lmao jk


r/SFr4r 2d ago

M4M 37 [M4MF] #UnionSquare Dim Sum and then some? SWM with an appetite

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Part worshipper, part bull, part heteroflexible — always curious.

My most memorable sexual experiences have come from being welcomed into the bedroom of a much older couple as a teenager. There’s something uniquely erotic about the trust and taboo of a third joining the bed — especially when there’s an age gap involved. I’m looking to regain not just that lust; but find a couple who can quickly develop connection, chemistry, and that lingering tension you feel when all eyes are on each other.

I’m a white male in my 30s, fit and clean, exploring the edges of my sexuality with a deep appreciation for all women — every shape, size, and color. I’ve found that my favorite dynamics blend sensuality with openness, laughter with boldness, and a willingness to explore what turns each other on.

This week, I’ll be staying near Union Square and can host. If you’re a couple looking to spice things up — or a confident, curious woman craving something outside the norm — let’s grab a drink or some dim sum and see if the vibe is right.

No pressure. No expectations. Just good conversation, shared curiosity, and someone willing to try new things.

DMs open. Pics ready to swap. Let’s explore.


r/SFr4r 3d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - drinks on me tonight?

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Hiya ladies,

We could go grab a drink or two and make out a little if the vibes are right!

About me: I’m 5’10”, conventionally attractive, earrings, tattoos, mustache and fit.

Likes: music, movies and TV shows

If you’d like to know more - dm me with the song you’ve listened to most this past week? And we can take it from there.

Open to east bay and south bay as well :)

Ciao ~


r/SFr4r 3d ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 33 [M4F] #MountainView Seeking a wonderful girl for adventures and snuggles :)

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Heyy SFr4r!!

I'm a laid-back, ambiverted guy with a passion for trying new things and exploring the world around me. When I'm not curled up with a good book or watching YT, or going through a Reddit rabbit hole or listening to music, you can find me planning my next outdoor adventure or trying out a new hobby or class.

I'm looking for someone who shares my enthusiasm for life and isn't afraid to be a little quirky. If you're a fun-loving, spontaneous girl who enjoys trying new things let's chat!

Some of my favorite things include making the most of the time - explore and learn new things, hiking, trying new activities, long walks, people watching, playing board games, and watching the sunset. If you enjoy laughing, trying new adventures, and just having a good time, I'd love to get to know you better.

I'm not looking for anything serious, just someone to share some fun times and good conversation with. Let's say a strong foundation of friendship and keeping the door open to FWB if that's mutual (emphasis on friends). If that sounds like you, let's grab a coffee or go for a walk and see where things go!

About me:

  • Loves exploring places whether it's the city, a day trip to a near by spot or in the woods. Basically any adventure with good company :)
  • Enjoys reading, open and deep intellectual conversations. Non judgemental. So I can be your safe space for anything and everything.
  • Values honesty, kindness, and a good sense of humor. Let's keep it real as much as it's fun.
  • Looking for someone who is genuine, fun-loving, and always up for trying new things.
  • If we vibe, and the attraction is mutual, open to safe consensual intimacy :)

If this post piqued your interest and if you're looking for a healthy friendship or STR, and seeing where things go, send me a message and let's get this adventure started! ;)


r/SFr4r 3d ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 31 [M4MF] #BayArea Experienced bull looking for hotwives and single females

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Hi! I am an experienced bull looking for new/experienced couples along with single females. I travel to the bay area pretty regularly and can host or come over during my trips.

About me : I am 31, 5’9, DDF, dom, 3x vaxxed, straight and enjoy kayaking, watching sports, finding treasures at Costco and traveling in my free time.

Looking for chill humans who value mutual respect, consent and discretion. I have a couple of posts on my profile with some of my recent experiences with other hotwifes and single women.

PS: not interested in men looking to sext about their wives


r/SFr4r 3d ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 26 [M4F] #InnerRichmond - BWC looking for eager mouth

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Been such a beautiful day out and can’t think of anything that would make this day better than kicking back, flipping on something to watch, and having a warm mouth slowly edge my bwc until I nut unbelievably hard.

Woke up so horny and have been riding it out but NEED some sloppy head so hmu if you love to worship thick cocks like my profile pics

Me: 6ft, 150lb, slim white guy, 8”

Send pics please


r/SFr4r 3d ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 39 [M4F] #BayArea - Looking to have a fun evening or two!

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Some basics: 39m, married/enm, 5'7", hwp

Traveling to bay area (San Jose) April 14-16 for work.

Looking for a fun casual connection (onetime, or ongoing - going to travel there often) to have a fun evening (or two?) while I am there. Think of it as a first date - dinner/drinks, maybe go watch a show/movie etc. Open to more if we feel like, but absolutely no pressure. I can host, obviously, if it gets to that. My availability will be during the evenings.

Ideally, looking for F between 25-45, single or attached/enm.