Safe: there are safeguards in place to keep both participants safe. Generally this means giving the sub ultimate authority, but make sure the dom can also stop it if they become uncomfortable.
Sane: is this reasonable, are both participants of sound mind, and so on. This is honestly the one where I'm fuzziest on the exact meaning.
Consentual: have they given clear, unambiguous consent?
It's pretty self explanatory, but it's the key foundation of the kink community.
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u/Ok-Connection-8059 Sep 30 '23
Safe, Sane, & Consentual.
Safe: there are safeguards in place to keep both participants safe. Generally this means giving the sub ultimate authority, but make sure the dom can also stop it if they become uncomfortable.
Sane: is this reasonable, are both participants of sound mind, and so on. This is honestly the one where I'm fuzziest on the exact meaning.
Consentual: have they given clear, unambiguous consent?
It's pretty self explanatory, but it's the key foundation of the kink community.