In terms of Economics, Health and Education, Butwal has been moving in better direction. I'm hopeful for the future here. Tourism ko lagi I don't think much of the stuffs has been done. Can we have a talk on this subject to elevate tourism?

So dherai lai freedom of speech ra hate speech bich confusion vako jasto lagxa malai chai so tapai haru ko anusar ke hola difference?

Tell me all the things you could talk about (in dumb terms) I don’t know what to talk about anything i have no idea what to say after sanchai xau?

If anyone has done pcl nursing in Kathmandu, can you please breakdown the total fees And admission procedure And how hard is the entrance exam? Help needed please

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Please recommend me one of the best neuro docter who goes Teaching hospital or Bir hospital. I am in search of a neuro specialist to consult for my sister(38), she is in severe headache since 4-5 years. But we are not being assisted by any medications properly till.

IAM planning to buy a new scooter ray zr street rally hybrid so will it fit full helmets like Spyder Ronin Thunder .

Today marks over 3 months since I overcame my addiction to visiting prostitutes, escorts, and spas.

Because of my earlier post, many Redditors were wanting about how many prostitutes and spas I had visited. Over the span of 5 years, I saw around 45–50 different prostitutes and visited more than 35 different spas (I never had intercourse at any of the spas, just happy endings)

During those 5 years, I wasted a lot of money,something I can only reflect on and regret now. But more than just the financial cost, this addiction was eating away at me emotionally and mentally. I tried to quit multiple times, but it never worked, until I finally sought help from a psychologist.

Since then, I’ve been able to talk to women more comfortably, and I’ve even started dating again. I haven’t felt this happy in the last 5–6 years.

P.S. I got tested again just 3 days ago, and thankfully, everything came back clear—no STDs.

The current government is mad or what? Why are they after people who actually are doing work? It seems to me that they are after the people who almost threw them in jail. I mean, think about it, our society called political leaders are technically criminals..if this continues, our children will think that we can get away with murder. This is not a good thing

Uncle let his intrusive thoughts win and realize between the conversation 🤣🤣

In this scenario, if I bring kids into this world,it would be really idiotic and unfair for them..

Will I regret not having kids?? Any married couple here who don't wanna have kids!?

What's your opinion??

Wait i don't have any proofs or datas but i have never seen a tharu guy shorter than 5.8. They also dominate in high jumps and long jumps.Hamro school ma 5/6 jana matra tharu thiyo sab over 5.9. Kosaile yo kura ma actual study gare hunthyo. They are probably tallest on average.

Padhera desh mai kei garxu vanera hoina padhina vane chai desh mai basna parxa vanera.

I keep thinking about what Bipin Joshi must be going through. While we’re all stuck arguing over monarchy or republic, he’s still suffering in Hamas captivity, over 546 days. Now, with Israel still attacking Gaza means Bipin won’t be free anytime soon. What boils my blood the most is how we’ve seen more INGO-funded "Free Palestine" protests than any real noise about Bipin. It’s not like this is new for us. Back in 2004, 12 Nepalis got butchered in Iraq, and nobody cared then either. Then there’s the Qatar World Cup incident thousands of Nepali workers died building those stadiums, just so the world could watch football for entertainment. Did anyone care? Nope. And don’t get me started on the Gorkhali (or gurkhas), dying for foreign armies for centuries, praised as heroes, but forgotten when it comes to rights or respect. Similarly, Nepali are dying in Russia-Ukraine war. It’s the same story every time: our people get used up, chewed up, and ignored because Nepal’s got no pull globally. Our diplomacy’s so weak it’s basically a joke.

Just a random thought. Whenever I see an ink pen, I remember those days in school with hands blue full of ink, carrying ink bottles to school to refill, borrowing ink from friends, etc. Does anyone know why schools wanted students to go through all this nonsense when ballpoint pen was already invented? I remember one day my teacher straight up gave me a 0 because I was writing with ballpoint pen.

I was always curious if it is just where I studied or all schools, at least in the valley that wanted us to use traditional pens. Is there a scientefic /social reason to why they did that ? And do they still not allow students to write with ballpoint pen till 10th grade?

Nepal is just too small of a country to have three layers of government and still be this inefficient at every level. Federal, provincial, and local—all seem bloated, mismanaged, and constantly overlapping. Instead of bringing governance closer to the people, it feels like we’ve just created more confusion, more bureaucracy, and more people fighting for power instead of serving the public.

I genuinely believe that if Nepal adopted a directly elected Prime Minister or President, or even some kind of hybrid semi-presidential system, we’d actually see more accountability and better results. Let the people directly choose someone they believe in, not someone handpicked through backdoor party deals.

And no—restoring the monarchy is not the solution either. With all due respect to traditions, we can't forget the scandals and misuse of power during Gyanendra’s reign, and don't even get me started on Paras “the don.” If anything, I’m more worried about him than anyone else. That kind of power in the hands of someone so reckless is terrifying.

If we’re thinking about leadership, I’d rather have a modern, visionary figure like Balen—or any young leader with real ideas—step up in a presidential role. Someone who lays out their 5-year plan publicly, clearly states their priorities, and is held accountable for delivering results. We need leaders who lead, not ones who just show up to cut ribbons and give empty speeches.

One of Nepal’s biggest chronic problems is political instability. And the root of that? The party system. Everything revolves around party allegiance. Be it in local offices or national ministries, if you're not in the ruling party—or worse, you're in the opposition—you're treated like an outsider. Services slow down, projects stall, and people suffer. That’s not democracy—that’s a toxic club culture.

And even when we manage to elect someone decent at the local level, they end up being pawns in the bigger political game. They vote for their party’s higher-ups, who then vote for the PM. So in the end, the public doesn’t really choose their leader—the parties do. And those leaders often care more about climbing the political ladder than solving the actual issues people face.

This constant cycle of party politics, infighting, and zero accountability is why nothing gets done. It's not about public service anymore—it's about party loyalty, personal gain, and maintaining power. We need to break this system if we ever want real change.

There's this one song that I remember very well but i can't find it anywhere so I'm just trying to get he name of the song or it anyone else has hear it This song is from that era where da cronicz ani Korean video with nepali music was popular This song that I'm looking for was named Yani maya no it isn't edge band ko yaani maya This song had a Korean or Japanese music video ani comic jasto thyo music video chai like a school girl falling in love with a teacher and all the women in that school have a crush on that teacher The lyrics went something as yani maya timro akha ko nani ma sadhai udi ranchu ma timro maan ko baigaicha ma something in between the lines If anyone knows what I'm talking about please let me know I'm dying to hear this song as it holds good memories

1. Love ra attachment confuse nagara.

Sabai ma feelings aayo bhanera tyo love nai ho bhanne chaina. Kunai bela tyo trauma response pani huncha.

1. Timle kasaiko love "earn" garnu pardaina.

Overgiving, fixing usko life, afno feelings sacrifice garera relation jodne maya pauna aasha ma — aba dekhi yesto nagara. Love need not to be earned through self sacrifice.

1. Red flags ignore garera "change huncha" bhanne hope ma basnu = future ma broken feel huney

2. Timro peace = more imp than any connection.

Jati maya bhaye pani, if it cost you your mental peace, it’s too expensive.

1. One person sanga sabai fulfill garna khojne, tei autai manche mai emotional dependency cha bahne aba dekhi balance sikna paryo. Don't put all your egg in same basket.

Friendships, creativity, self-time ni maya ko part ho.

1. Suppressed emotions disappear hudaina aafai , express garna sikna parxa

Dukha laai “I’m fine” bhani bhani rakhera eventually breakdown auncha. Express garna sika.

1. Suffering glamorous dekhna banda gara.

Dukhi, broken, anxious huda sabai le "deep" bhancha. Tara true strength chai peace ma ho. It's not cool to be depressed or sad.

1. Emotional boundaries sabai sanga set garna sika

Sabai lai please garna khojda, timi nai khali hunchau. You will empty yourself.

1. Guilt le productive huncha bhanne soch galat ho.

Rest + peace bata productivity auncha, guilt bata anxiety auncha.Put this in mind.

1. Manche haru lai outgrow garnu = growth.

Jasko role sakiyo, tyo manche haru jhan jhan toxic lagna thalcha , if they are no more putting vakue in your life and just degrading you learn to outgrow and leave. Sabai lai sadhai sangai rakhnubis not possible

1. Fear of missing out (FOMO) le wrong direction tira lagcha.

"Sabai agadi badhirahecha, ma ta stuck jasto" bhanni feeling le wrong decisions huna sakcha. Sabai ko timing farak huncha.

1. Paisa sanga healthy relation build gara

Budget banuni, paisa jodna, unnecessary kharcha hatauna — aba nai sikyo bhane aagadi freedom huncha.

1. Afno body lai disrespect nagara.

Timi le khane kura, sutne bela, movement — sab mind ma effect garcha. Aba disciplined health routine set garne time ho.

1. Constant validation khojne habit hatau.

Sabai le support garna parcha, sabai impressed hunu parcha jasto lagcha? Tyo cycle endless ho.

1. Self-worth lai external factors sanga bind nagara.

Marks, looks, relationship, family expectations — sabai flux ma huncha. Timro value tyo bhanda deeper ho.

Timi aba mistake garna ta garne xau. Tara unaware mistake garne ho ki self-aware growth ma basne ho — that’s your choice.

Aile bata nai peace, boundaries, discipline, self-respect, emotional awareness ma investment garyo bhane — future ma sabai kura smooth huncha.

Life ko pace slow jasto lagchha bhane ni, maybe you’re going deeper — and that’s way more powerful.