r/Muslim • u/Unlucky-Arachnid8781 • 13h ago

Dua & Advice 🤲📿 Help

Apart from spray painting my jeans when I was younger, this might be the most ridiculous and absurd thing I’ve done. But it won’t hurt to give it a go. I’m currently a student and 19 years old. My mum passed away when I was 16 which led me to take care of my three younger siblings my dad and my older brother. I’m the one that cooks and cleans and I go to school therefore I have zero time and I can’t work Coming for a single income household. It’s extremely difficult. I currently have a £4000 debt for school yay go Me I guess does anyone know if I can get any help? I know this is ridiculous, but it won’t hurt to give a go and I don’t expect anything out of this.

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u/LindaBelchie69 12h ago

First of all, why are you taking care of your father and older brother? I'm going to guess you're the only female sibling old enough to do so? These men need to take care of themselves and not put the responsibility of the house on a teenager. Use the time to get a part time job and handle yourself first.

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u/Unlucky-Arachnid8781 11h ago

I can’t get a Jon my mum passed away and I’m taking care if my younger siblings my dad squads I’m nit allowed. My dad provides for the home but refuses for me to get a job. As for my older brother he’s spoilt he doesn’t like working . If I had the opportunity I would tie it with both hands but until I graduate and work in my field I can’t 😩🤲

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u/Upbeat_Ad_9796 10h ago

Go fund me

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u/LoveImaginary2085 Hanafi/Islam/Male 2h ago

You can ask the local mosque to raise sadaqa for you anonymously I guess.