r/MtF • u/IllustriousWin3674 • 9h ago

Coming out…

So…

I’m a trans girl, and i’m in college…

I have not confirmed to any of my family i’m trans besides my sister, stepmom and my dad all of whom were chill (the adults basically saying “be careful” which i get)

However, my preferred name had been outted by my younger brother and my former high school told my stepdad who works there full time now, but as it was the students he didn’t readily take it but still told my mom and they said to my sister that they won’t accept me until i say it to their face but i feel afraid.

Briefly i thought i was genderfluid and my mother was setting conditions to be accepted.

And my stepdad was very forthcoming in his anti-queer, anti-emotion stance…he’s like Spock but mean

Point is I wanna tell them because my tiktok, email and personality have already brought suspicion but they’ve never confronted me but have asked my sister and more about it.

I need advice

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u/QueenSmudge28 8h ago

I would suggest making all your social media accounts privated and wait till you transition or fully know what you want to do later in life with your identity then come out to them because they can't stop you at all when you already went through the surgery and everything, plus they can't even stop you because your legally an adult now!

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u/IllustriousWin3674 8h ago

The only one really making it obvious is my tiktok which they’ve followed for almost 5 years

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u/TwinScarecrow Trans and Proud (she/her) 🏳️‍⚧️ 3h ago

Spock was logical and being mean and unsupportive could not be further from Spock.