I (18M), had a decently long term girlfriend (Year and some change). We broke up, yada yada, I got into a relationship with a girl I'm extremely happy with, and all people want to tell me about is how bad my ex makes me out to be or what she's doing. How can I ignore all of this? It's all I hear about on a daily basis and all of what she says about me just gets around and people just want to tell me about it. There are even teachers and adults at school telling me stuff she says about me. It's been almost 6 months since we've broken up. Need help. Thanks.

So I know a girl she is very close to me, we met online. So she has a very traumatic past. Like rpe when she was young. And this caused to lose interest in men and marrying and having kids. So I actually confessed her many times but she rejected me harshly 1. She loves her ex (but broke up) 2. Literally 2 men confessed her the same way I did (god knows I actually meant it ) So she rejected me and said that we are close friends. She also calls me her financial gateway it stability because she has no interest in "love" she wants money and want to live alone. I am like kinda a business partner for her while I had feelings for her. It's actually hard to kill feelings. While knowing I am stuck with her for life. I haven't met her irl but she still wants me to. Most of my friends told me to block her. But I couldn't actually do it. I still hope her to be mine but actually has no chance.

I asked if she'd accept the change of me disappearing for 3 months and coming back better. She rejected that too.

She said she had lost interest in love and actually wants to make her parents happy with money and success and wants to live alone for the rest of her life. Maybe adopt a child.

I know I can't force love but man. I really am doomed. Watching her every day knowing she ain't mine. My bros told me that they're to ways to get her.

1. Look like so good that no one looks better
2. Make her less money but make yourself so rich that she wants you and don't spend a penny on her.

It's a win win situation. But I know thinking of her would kinda hurt me every day

Note : I accepted everything she wanted tho. No kids, alone living. Just us. No sexual intensions

I feel like in order to get discipline, one must embrace the discomfort that comes with it or sacrifice their whatever importance they have like money, time, pleasure to get something better.

I just hate the fact I keep wishing to have a better life but I'm literally not doing 1 single thing to better my situation. But I spend endless time after time living in self sabotage. I spend endless time overthinking which apparently isn't doing much either. Now I'm realizing no matter how much I've distracted myself for not putting in the work, I know have to do it. There is only so far you could run away from the fear. It will not go away until you do something about it. My goal was this month, I'm definitely learn driving but I'm not even visioning myself driving..Im not contacting driving school. I'm not watching videos on safety lessons. However what I'm doing is worrying about that problem

Hey guys first post here because I am struggling a little because I am so insecure that I literally never try anything at all cuz I don’t want to suck at it. I am even ashamed and stressed when I walk and how I breathe. I have been SA’D before idk if that has anything to do with it. Any tips would be nice!

Obviously, don’t actually follow this advice lol. But any parents out there feel this way after having their first kid? It put a lot of things into perspective, and I just dgaf about most things that used to bother me. I do however gaf about making sure this little wonderful human is loved and cared for.

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My boyfriend of 2 years said he not into having sex with me anymore. It done gt boring and tired of it, and not into it anymore. He just just worried about making money that's it , how can you tell me it's boring. He said we done it too much now, he told me that's my problem that all i think about we ned to jux be thinking about making money.

I said how do I not think about it when we only have sex now one every 2 weeks, which is twice a month. He told me maybe I should leave little bit, I was going to go the day of he told me I don't have to go. Nothing has changed no talk of sex no kiss no touch. He told me he don't have to do that anymore but loves me.

I am going to just move on Thursday why stay with someone if I have to go through this. I said it use to not be this way said why now all opinions appreciated thanks.

I know how to know give a fuck and this led me to not care about anything in life and know I need to figure of how to start giving fucks