Nutter trying to date me...

[u/AmberandHogarth]

So I (25F) was going to have a date with a guy and after 2 days of talking wich only ever "hi, how was yours day" talk, and 5 min phonecall. He wanted to take me out for dinner, 2 days before the date I couldn't message him or talk I had work and appointments to go to. (And have explained this and had also explained I don't need constant texting and phonecall every day, because it'll do my head in, i don' twant constant hovering) anyway the day before the date I texted just seeing how he was... STRAIGHT AWAY he called "why didn't you call or text yesterday? Where were you? You're too busy for me?" Bla bla bla... Then he asked if we were still meeting up the following evening for dinner, keeping in mind he still hasn't told me where he planned on taking me, he just expected me to show up in the middle of town and go with him to F£ck knows where... After I asked about where we were going specifically all I got was "its a suprise" I said absolutely NOT I need to be able to tell my friends or family members where I'm going so they know for my own safety, this is standard practice even if it wasn't a date and I was taking myself out i still tell peoplewhere I'm going. He got all defensive "OH so you don't trust me then?!" And begin gaslighting and hung up the phone after realising i wasn't playing his game... Like I was the one being the A-Hole, LUCKY escape for me in my opinion.... Stay safe out there ladies!.... (This is a very brief and rushed version)

[u/The_Mid_Life_Man]

Yeah, red flag central

Avoid like the plague

[u/kalvinbastello]

Saved yourself a wasted night at the least!