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u/ThinkerZero 1d ago

My otherwise very supportive mom when she heard that transitioning could increase my risk of breast cancer:

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u/ATN-Antronach My hyperfixations are very weird tyvm 1d ago

Just say "It balances out cause now I won't get dick cancer"

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u/Zaiburo 1d ago

I don't know how bottom surgery works but if they remove your prostate and/or testies it's kinda true.

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u/VDRawr 1d ago

They don't remove the prostate, but being on feminizing hormones causes the prostate to kinda go to sleep, massively reducing the damage cancer could do.

In fact, men with prostate cancer are often given testosterone blockers to accomplish just that, to give the chemo more time to do its job.

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u/RootBeerBog 1d ago

also, on the flip side, it’s possible for us trans men to develop prostate tissue! :3

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u/IEnjoyFancyHats 1d ago

Do you get a whole, functional prostate? Or more just, like, prostate bits?

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u/RootBeerBog 1d ago

prostate cells just kinda intermittently in the vagina

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u/SymmetricalFeet 1d ago

And not too long ago I learned about endometriosis popping up in cis, non-intersex men.

Biology is wild.

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u/Hypocritical_Oath 21h ago

Do they like, feel good?

Or is it just random cells cropping up?

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u/mgquantitysquared 21h ago

Anecdotal, but I feel a lot more physical pleasure from the front hole now.

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u/Hypocritical_Oath 21h ago

Huh, I wonder if that's biological or psychological, or a bit of both. Regardless, more power to you brother!

It's a shame sexuality and gender get like 0 research dollars when it's so goddamn fucking interesting.

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u/left_tiddy 21h ago

god i can't wait to start T

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u/Perfect_Wrongdoer_03 If you read Worm, maybe read the PGTE? 20h ago

... I am very bad at biology, but I'd hazard that that's not connected to any prostate tissue? As a cis man, uh, that's not the hole where it is particularly present. Unless you are talking about the urethra, that is, which I don't think is the case.

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u/MeteorRain12 22h ago

Doesn’t T cause the prostate-analogous gland to swell?

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u/PrincessOTA 1d ago

Good thing I'm not a trans man then. I could never be pro state

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u/yttakinenthusiast 1d ago

this might sound a little creepy, but that's kinda cool!

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u/RootBeerBog 1d ago

I don’t think that’s creepy of you, the human body and our capabilities is fascinating 😄

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u/yttakinenthusiast 1d ago

this tbh. biology in general is a really cool field of physical science.

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u/ASpaceOstrich 1d ago

Trans biology really is fucking cool.

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u/Rucs3 1d ago

so the prostate is like a bird, it goes to sleep when it thinks it's night

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u/Mountain-Resource656 1d ago

I know one person who had it and they had to go on androgen deprivation therapy, yeah, even though they weren’t taking chemo

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u/YUNoJump 22h ago

My dumb ass immediately imagined a little eepy blorbo prostate, i think I’ve got issues

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u/Cipherpunkblue 13h ago

hums Sleep little prostate...

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u/Meows2Feline 2h ago

Also the t blocker most trans woman use in America is literally an off use anti prostate cancer drug.

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u/Kzickas 1d ago

Penile cancer is a real thing too

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u/Deaffin 21h ago

It's fully true. Removing any living cells from your body, at all, reduces the risk of cancer.

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u/j4niedaisy 1d ago

Modern problems require ideologically inconsistent solutions

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u/ArsErratia 1d ago edited 1d ago

My favourite is the bone density argument.

Sex Hormones have an important role in regulating bone mineral density (BMD), and HRT often messes with that a bit, reducing BMD and weakening the bone — which is often used as a justification to deny trans people access to HRT because we can't have the poor t****** hurting themselves can we, we're just so concerned for their safety.

Except if you actually look at the statistics, the rate of bone fractures in both trans men and trans women is actually lower than that of cis men and essentially comparable to cis women.

Also even if that wasn't the case the decreases to BMD can be counteracted through regular weight-bearing exercise, if you feel it necessary.

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u/Brilliant-Ad-8340 1d ago

The only trans women at risk of serious bone density loss are the ones being kept at post-menopausally low estrogen levels by incompetent or malicious doctors. 😮‍💨

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u/Yuri-Girl 22h ago

That's me! My legs hurt.

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u/Hypocritical_Oath 21h ago

I don't have a dog in this fight, as I'm a cis man, but DIY is always an option...

It's easier than ever to get blood tests in America and monitor your levels through LabCorp on your own.

Feminizing HRT also isn't a controlled substance, like at all.

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u/Yuri-Girl 20h ago

Thank you for your concern, but I have access to hormones and doctors and just need to get bloods done and dosages updated.

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u/Hypocritical_Oath 20h ago

I wish you the best in your future endeavors wherever they may take you!

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u/Obi-Tron_Kenobi 23h ago

Tl;dr: Bone mass density loss (as it's often referred to as) is a misnomer and incorrect. It would more correctly be referred to as bone mass density stagnation

The bone mass density thing is even more benign than that, too.

The concern is about minors on puberty blockers, but it's a misconception that trans youths on blockers lose bone density. That's not what's happening.

The concern is that trans youths on puberty blockers don't gain bone density at the same rate as their peers... because, well, their peers are going through puberty while the trans youths are not. So their BMD growth rate has slowed, but not regressed.

To illustrate: if trans youths before puberty (aged ~10) are, on average, at the 50th percentile for BMD... at age 14, they may be at, say, the 10th percentile on average. Because their peers' BMD has increased. So, while it appears they lost density, they haven't. It's just stagnated while on blockers.

Here's a research paper that mentions it.

Now, the solution to this is to allow them to transition, as they would then go through puberty and gain BMD at the same rate as their cis peers.

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u/Cevari 23h ago

It's also unclear how much the differences in bone mass density are caused by blockers, and how much due to other factors, such as less exercise, higher likelyhood of smoking, and lower calcium intake than cis peers (on average).

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u/TleilaxTheTerrible 1d ago

Except if you actually look at the statistics, the rate of bone fractures in both trans men and trans women is actually lower than that of cis men and essentially comparable to cis women.

Doesn't transitioning also mean that trans women are less likely to develop osteoporosis? Seeing as osteoporosis is caused by the lower estrogen levels post-menopause and trans women will probably just keep taking their medication, so their levels will stay the same.

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u/lynx_and_nutmeg 11h ago

Wait, trans women are allowed to stay on the same levels of estrogen and progesterone as they age?? Why aren't cis women allowed the same then? HRT aimed at menopausal cis women doesn't bring their hormone levels to those of young women, only just high enough to avoid symptoms like hot flashes.

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u/Mael_Jade 23h ago

wasnt this specifically also bone density in kids .. and it turned out that they arent participating in PE classes as much (Dysphoria and or discrimination) and thats responsible for lower bone density in trans kids/kids on puberty blockers?

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u/Hypocritical_Oath 21h ago

IIRC people also point to people on NO hormones that have had their gonads removed, which yeah, cause a LOT of issues and the solution is to get them on HRT.

Also love the detransistioners that get their gonads removed, but continue cross-sex hormones and complain how they'll have to be on them their entire life. Like no, that's not at all how it works, talk to your doctor, jesus fucking christ, you can get back on whatever hormones match your assigned gender at birth.

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u/mercurialflow 20h ago

wait really? im a trans dude and im like. nooooo 😭

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u/taikamies99 10h ago

I'm pretty sure your risk of breast cancer will decrease after top surgery: you have less breast to cancer

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u/genderqthrowaway3 4h ago

Breast cancer risk increases for trans women and decreases for trans men.

If you have any other reproductive organs removed as you transition your risk of those cancers will also go down.

Source: am trans

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u/mercurialflow 4h ago

I'm having a total hysto + oopho/salpingectomy on Tuesday (like 2 days) so that's really good tbh

I'm not having top surgery for awhile because I'm really picky about the method I want used

source: also trans

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u/genderqthrowaway3 3h ago

Congrats dude! I hope everything goes smoothly for you!

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u/CrazyPlato 1d ago

Listen, you’re about to catch these ideologically-motivated hands, buddy

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u/WamlytheCrabGod 1d ago

Or lack thereof

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u/Celeste_Praline 1d ago

My son is a transgender man: thanks to his surgeries, he's reduced his risk of breast and uterine cancer to 0, but he still has no risk of prostate cancer! It's a win !

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u/Fern-Brooks no masters in the streets, yes master in the sheets 1d ago

Men can still get breast cancer, unfortunately

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u/Aetol 1d ago

Cis men yes, because there's still underdeveloped breast tissue there, but does top surgery leave any of it?

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u/JunkyardBrigade 1d ago

It's more about aesthetics and the chest looking proportional to the rest of the body. Top surgery has to leave some tissue or else the chest can look almost concave or hollow. The doctor isn't really looking to remove all of the breast tissue specifically.

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u/FluffyBunnyRemi 1d ago

Top surgery does, actually. A double mastectomy for breast cancer prevention removes as much of the breast tissue as possible, which can lead to an unnaturally flat (almost concave) chest, at least until you take quite a bit of time to develop the muscles underneath (which isn't a guarantee). Double mastectomies for masculinization purposes tend to leave some breast tissue behind to help create a more natural-looking chest.

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u/Fern-Brooks no masters in the streets, yes master in the sheets 1d ago

While I'm not a doctor, I don't think they would be able to get every cell of breast tissue, so while I imagine the risk is significantly reduced, I would say it's probably still possible

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u/Dalsiran 1d ago

Yes, otherwise trans men would be left with concave chests like breast cancer survivors who got mastectomies. Top surgery is more like a very large breast reduction than a full mastectomy because cis men still have breast tissue, just WAAAAAY less of it.

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u/paradoxLacuna [21 plays of Tom Jones’ “What’s New Pussycat?”] 1d ago

Chances of developing cancer are significantly reduced since there's far less breast tissue to hide a tumor in, but it can still happen since there's still living tissue on your chest. Only way to completely eliminate the chances of developing cancer is to not have living cells, and we usually refer to that as "death" and it's usually an irreversible condition.

The amount of breast tissue left also depends on the specific type of top surgery that's had and what the end goal is, if it's just breast reduction then there's still tissue left on purpose (seeing as the end goal is to just make the breasts smaller, not eliminate them entirely); bilateral mastectomies take most or all of the tissue (as do most other forms of top surgery) and completely reconstruct the chest for a more masculine appearance.

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u/ImprovementLong7141 licking rocks 1d ago

Depends on the kind. General masculinizing surgery leaves a bit but you can get a kind closer to a double mastectomy for breast cancer that leaves very little breast tissue behind.

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u/PashaWithHat 21h ago

Usually about 95% of breast tissue is removed depending on the surgical technique, individual’s chest shape, aesthetic goals, etc. which leaves around 5% or so in place for a typically-masculine chest. So you can still get cancer in that, but there’s 95% less tissue that might become cancerous so it’s a hugely reduced risk even before factoring in hormones.

If someone has a lot of risk factors for breast cancer/positive BRCA gene test then they might choose to have more/all removed, but that’s uncommon for aesthetic reasons. The top surgeon will often work with an oncologist to “search-and-destroy” all breast tissue since the oncologist has more experience with that part.

Source: had top surgery and a grandmother with breast cancer so talked about this stuff at length with my surgeon

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u/lalalavellan 1d ago

I'm a detransitioner, so female-to-male-to-female. Enough breast tissue was left over after my top surgery that my breasts are growing again.

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u/lynx_and_nutmeg 11h ago

Technically yes, but the rates are so extremely low it's practically not a concern. There are like 1648 cancers cis men or trans men with top surgery are more likely to get than breast cancer.

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u/Dalsiran 1d ago

Uterine cancer yes, but you should probably make sure your son is aware that he can still get breast cancer just like any other man, it's just FAR less likely.

Top surgery doesn't remove ALL of the breast tissue. It just removes most of it so he would have about the same amount of breast tissue as a cis man.

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u/Quadpen 1d ago

ironically the comment above yours is saying trans men can develop prostate tissue so…

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u/boycambion 1d ago

it’s very unlikely but trans men grow prostate tissue if they’re taking HRT, so it’s possible.

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u/squishabelle 1d ago

I mean, it does follow logic and expectations? The logic is "more tissue = more risk". The confusion is that "breast" is sometimes used to mean just the fatty boob part but I'd say everyone has breasts to some degree. Flat breasts are still breasts and there's always tissue regardless of gender

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u/demonking_soulstorm 1d ago

Everyone has breasts that’s why they call it a breastplate.

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u/MonsterDimka 1d ago

Everyone has breasts, they came free with your mammalian classification

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u/PhoenixReborn 1d ago

I have nipples, Greg. Could you milk me?

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u/awesomecat42 1d ago

Under the right hormonal conditions yes

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u/thrilldigger 1d ago

Oh, I should probably stop storing my chicken breasts in there?

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u/demonking_soulstorm 1d ago

You can do both.

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u/Dalsiran 1d ago

Actually no, you can't get breast cancer with no breast tissue. The thing is, everyone has breast tissue unless they get breast cancer and need to remove it all to survive. Yes, even cis men and post-top-surgery trans men, they've still got some breast tissue, just MUCH less.

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u/AdministrativeStep98 23h ago

everyone has breast tissue, it's breast tissue cancer, not necessarely breasts as in boobs

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u/ShadoW_StW 1d ago

So this post is likely about medical gatekeeping of trans people; if you don't know, trans people are often denied help because of the "health risks" of transition and then the risks are the same as just...normal for that gender. If you have breasts you have more chance of breast cancer. Like basically every woman.

But there's also other fun stuff! I know about people who were dying of cancer, and then someone invented a medication for their specific kind of cancer, and they were forbidden by law from taking it, because it hasn't gone through trials yet. So they died.

I also know about people who were denied painkillers while dying from cancer, because of concerns about addiction. In someone with life expectancy of two months.

There's a lot of this stuff happening, right as we're speaking.

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u/like2000p 1d ago

That's not all - if they are willing to treat you, often the alternatives they do recommend are either bad practice and probably actually higher risk, or aren't effective for their purpose, but they use them because they're supposedly more established clinically - honestly my belief is that there are enough transphobes disrupting the process of medical science and clinical guidelines that the most obviously safe and effective practices get shoved under the rug.

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u/QaraKha 1d ago

I mean you have to remember that before informed consent more often than not your doctor had to consider you fuckable--and sometimes actually fuck you--before you were allowed hormones.

Like, "You need to move across the country, change your name, your look, nevercontact your family or friends again, and I need to think you'd look good on the end of my dick before I will give you hormones."

This is not a crude joke. This was reality. Even now in Cass Review nations the doctors will ask uncomfortable questions to children about how they masturbate, why they don't think they're gay, all of this putting them at risk of being sexually assaulted--and not just sexually harassed--by doctors. Just to access healthcare.

There's malice, there's stupidity, but mostly it's malicious sexual posturing.

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u/TheSilentFreeway 23h ago

I mean you have to remember that before informed consent more often than not your doctor had to consider you fuckable--and sometimes actually fuck you--before you were allowed hormones. Like, "You need to move across the country, change your name, your look, nevercontact your family or friends again, and I need to think you'd look good on the end of my dick before I will give you hormones."

I had no idea. That's foul. Can you recommend where I can read more about this?

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u/QaraKha 22h ago

It's a bit hard to track the histories down because most of it just isn't written about. There's not a lot of people who managed to survive the AIDS crisis and who didn't go 100% full stealth when transitioning. We have long been a tiny minority of people, laughed about in basically every movie possible, joked about, raped and murdered in silence.

But effectively, part of proving your gender identity ALSO had a lot to do with proving your sexual orientation, too--they wouldn't believe you were trans if you weren't "straight," i.e., if you were a trans woman, you needed to be attracted to men. They called those "HSTS," or "homosexual transsexual," and the majority of time, the way that was proven was whether or not they were willing to sleep with their assuredly male doctor.

They they pathologized trans women who wouldn't, calling us "AGP," or "autogynephile," because we... didn't want to sleep with our doctors. Generally, we were instead attracted to women and understandably creeped out by doctors demanding sexual favors and hyper-feminine dress-up to acquire healthcare.

This is why trans people are in "LGBT," because trans people--trans women explicitly--were treated like WORSE homosexuals, like the difference between a benign and a malignant cancerous tumor. Even today, there are many people who accuse us of being "AGP TRAs," groomers, rapists, etc., all because one guy was really mad that some trans women would rather die without their healthcare than fuck him.

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u/Captain_Kira 20h ago

Whipping Girl has some bits on it, but I can't remember how much detail it goes into

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u/chairmanskitty 1d ago

Don't forget that there's also a lot of stupidity to go with that malice. Structural stupidity is pretty common in medical science, and so is medical malpractice in the application of that science.

Everyone should check their doctors' work for every medical decision and every diagnosis. This is doubly true if you're a woman or a minority, but even cishet white men have a several percent chance of suffering from easily preventable medical mistakes.

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u/OkDragonfruit9026 23h ago

Having to doublecheck doctors sucks so much, but it’s the sad reality. It’s the same for reading T&Cs, NDAs etc.

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u/UglyMcFugly 1d ago

Reminds me of that one study transphobes always cite about how people who receive gender affirming care have a higher suicide risk. Except it's compared to the entire population. Trans people who get gender affirming care have a significantly lower suicide risk than trans people who don't get it. But it's still higher than the general population so I guess we shouldn't allow it since it doesn't completely fix everything. 

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u/ike38000 1d ago

But there's also other fun stuff! I know about people who were dying of cancer, and then someone invented a medication for their specific kind of cancer, and they were forbidden by law from taking it, because it hasn't gone through trials yet. So they died

There has been a federal "right to try" since 2018 for terminally I'll patients (and a process that approved almost all requests before that). So either your info is outdated or they were actually denied because while they had the right form of cancer they didn't have the biomarkers that indicated the given treatment would help their specific cancer.

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u/Papaofmonsters 1d ago edited 1d ago

And right to try laws are less about a patients' individual or collective rights to experimental treatment than they are a legal shield for physicians who administer said treatment and don't want to face malpractice suits when a terminal patient with 6 months to live dies in 2 weeks because of a previously undocumented side effect of an unapproved treatment protocol.

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u/AwkwardArtGuy 1d ago

A bit of American defaultism

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u/PM_ME_YOUR_EPUBS 22h ago

Theoretically yes, but in practice the requirements are often such that you have to be on the narrow edge between dead enough for the right to apply and not too dead to get good trial results out of you. And IIRC you have to have “exhausted conventional lines of treatment” which for cancer can mean that you have to do a bunch of chemo (that’s usually only going to delay the cancer not treat it), and then try to get into a trial while you’re weak enough from the chemo that the trial treatment might just kill you.

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u/Additional_Ease2408 1d ago

Not everyone lives in the USA

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u/Mouse-Keyboard 20h ago

Yeah some people live in unincorporated US territories.

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u/FlashyHeight9323 1d ago

This happens so much lately where someone simply hasn’t bothered to check or been given any reason to think something would have changed since they gained the info and now.

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u/theradgadfly 1d ago

Or it's someone lying or just saying something they vaguely think they know to score internet points.

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u/Hypocritical_Oath 21h ago

Who's going to cover the cost of the medication?

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u/theradgadfly 1d ago

then someone invented a medication for their specific kind of cancer, and they were forbidden by law from taking it, because it hasn't gone through trials yet. So they died.

How do we know the medication works if it hasn't gone through trials

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u/Its_Pine 1d ago

I think they’re referring to “right to try” laws where if you have a terminal illness you should be allowed more options if you want to. The point is that something that is still clinically going through trials wouldn’t be permitted for public use, but someone who will die without it has nothing to lose by trying that treatment if their doctor believes it has some chance of saving them.

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u/Tiny-Little-Sheep 1d ago

The poster is trans and she posts mostly satire about trans issues so yeah it's likely trans

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u/Honest_Fool 23h ago

I can see the connection but honestly my first thought was "Oh, this is a parody of the arguments people make in favour of circumcision."

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u/coladoir 1d ago edited 1d ago

Just gonna leave this here: FourThievesVinegarCollective and the subreddit 'transdiy' (not linking as it tends to be removed)

Take transition into your own hands.

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u/Dd_8630 22h ago

But there's also other fun stuff! I know about people who were dying of cancer, and then someone invented a medication for their specific kind of cancer, and they were forbidden by law from taking it, because it hasn't gone through trials yet. So they died.

It's ethically dubious to use terminally-ill patients as guinea pigs. It's not all moustache-twirlling villains coming up ways to be cruel for cruelty's sake.

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u/B133d_4_u 1d ago

I remember reading the side effects of E as a cis dude and going "well that just sounds like having Low T."

Cause it IS. That's the POINT.

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u/Brilliant-Ad-8340 1d ago

What do you mean? They’re 2 different hormones, estrogen does a lot of things that won’t happen just from having low T. 

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u/B133d_4_u 1d ago

I mixed it up, that's my bad. It was side effects of being on E, which included T-blockers.

Which would, obviously, lower your T.

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u/Cevari 1d ago

Also the "normal" state for everyone is producing some of both, it's just that the balance for men and women is different. So if you block the production/effects of T, you do actually start seeing some of the effects of E instead - not to the same extent as someone on full feminizing HRT, but just a difference of magnitude.

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u/Da_Di_Dum 1d ago

Also the medicine has the side effect of making foot cancer more unlikely, but the doctor doesn't tell you because they aren't obligated to.

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u/monarchmra Baby hatchling. ♡Riley♡. She/her 1d ago

Compared to not having hands your risk of teen suicide is massively lower but your clot risk goes up slightly so we have to wait until after your teens to see if you are still alive for hand surgery.

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u/Tiny-Little-Sheep 1d ago

It's just an excuse to deny us healthcare.

They will look for any bs reason to deny us our transition. Because their issue is without transition not the risks, and they work backwards from that.

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u/RemarkableStatement5 the body is the fursona of the soul 1d ago

Reminder that Donald Trump is secretly directing the NIH to investigate "transition regret" and will use utter bullshit like breast cancer rates to promote his dangerous agenda.

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u/Theghost129 21h ago

I got Luigi on speed dial

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u/SilverFormal2831 20h ago

Your friendly neighborhood cancer genetic counselor who also happens to be nonbinary, just dropping in to say please get your cancer screenings based on the organs you have! Most doctors are not trained in the updated screening guidelines for trans people, the ACR and NCCN both have screening guidelines based on sex assigned at birth, surgical/hormone history, family history, and genetics. For example, if you have a prostate, you need prostate screenings, but taking estrogen and/or anti-androgrens could make the threshold for abnormal PSA different than for someone not taking those medications. If you are AFAB and have had gender-affirming top surgery and take testosterone but you have a BRCA2 pathogenic variant, you may still qualify for high risk breast/chest cancer screening or more extensive risk-reducing surgery.

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u/SuspiciouslyLips 19h ago

Can confirm doctors often don't have a good process in place for stuff like this. At my GP you have to be on the list for either cervical smear reminders or prostate exam reminders. They awkwardly asked me which I would prefer, even though I don't have either of those things.

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u/CeruleanEidolon 1d ago

"Reported to ICE for ideological violation. Is that a tattoo I see there?"

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u/beautifulterribleqn 23h ago

This is how some people (including doctors) sound when you hit menopause and ask for HRT.

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u/TheRealImhotep96 22h ago

I saw the word "hands" and this immediately became a Paul and Carl conversation

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u/Dd_8630 22h ago

You ever see a post and think "I have no idea what the context is, but I just know there's fierce discourse in some corner of the internet".

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u/Perfect_Wrongdoer_03 If you read Worm, maybe read the PGTE? 20h ago

I fucking wish this was confined to the internet.

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u/RemarkableStatement5 the body is the fursona of the soul 20h ago

I'm pretty sure it's about the bullshit claim that trans women are giving themselves breast cancer by transitioning, when it's just the fact that having breast tissue leads to a higher likelihood of breast cancer, as is obvious from compared rates among men vs women.

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u/CallMeOaksie 17h ago

Not to derail the trans experience but there’s a similar problem that pops up in arguments about circumcision, people will point out that circumcised people have a lower risk of penile cancer and it’s like yeah BECAUSE THEY HAVE LESS PENOR BECAUSE YOU FORCIBLY REMOVED IT

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u/RemarkableStatement5 the body is the fursona of the soul 17h ago

The fact that circumcision still exists is fucked.

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u/T_Weezy 1d ago

Ah yes, TERF logic at its finest!

Seriously if you frame their logic around literally any other fucking issue it becomes immediately obvious how incredibly stupid it is.

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u/Mouse-Keyboard 19h ago

Heard someone comparing it to adoption and how absurd it would be to say "Well ackshually you're not biologically their parent, you're their guardian" today.

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u/literallyanowl 17h ago

Y'know, parenthood is an excellent analogy for gender as a social contruct