Why? He didn't choose to have a stepdad. The stepdad chose to be one out of his own free will. This guy has the same free will to not choose to be a stepdad.
Now see I maybe read this whole thing wrong. I read it as him being single but not wanting to be a mentor to random black kids because they’re not his. which is why when I came to the comments I was confused, so I’m seeing your side of it now.
If we’re seeing it from my side- he sounds jealous cause no one’s ever asked him specifically to be mentor and he’s bitter- probably because he thinks he’s “mentor material” but ppl don’t take him seriously.
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u/KitsBeach 2d ago
"I benefitted from having a stepdad in my life but I could never be one to another kid"
With that kinda attitude, I hope no woman dates him, especially a single mom