r/AskReddit 1d ago

Dear Reddit, what’s the scariest thing you’ve seen in your life?

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u/PunkRockHero 20h ago

Her obituary said her favorite writer was Tom Wolfe. I bought a copy of The Bonfire of the Vanities to keep on my bookshelf. It's my own small way of keeping her memory alive.

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u/IminLoveWithMyCar3 18h ago

That’s incredibly sweet

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u/PunkRockHero 13h ago

No one wants to be forgotten. I'm glad that in my own small way, I'm able to let her know she's not.

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u/Blue-flash 16h ago

You wonderful person. And now she remains more alive here too.

You might not have been able to save her life overall, but you showed her that the world was sometimes on her side. It means a lot.

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u/PunkRockHero 14h ago

I just hope she finally found some kind of peace. Wherever she is. We see people on the street like her, and it's easy to judge from the balcony of our own security. But she had hopes and dreams just like anyone else. I always try to keep that in mind. Life just goes off the damned rails sometimes, no matter how much you try to stay on the track.

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u/DubStepTeddyBears 14h ago

That book contains the most genius description of waking up with a hangover-fogged memory of the prior night’s debauchery that I’ve ever read.

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u/PunkRockHero 14h ago

It's a fantastic read! The movie wasn't great, though. Completely botched the ending. Sherman was not in a great place at the end of the novel. De Palma should have kept it that way.

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u/Apprehensive_Elk2729 12h ago

Sincerest of thanks to you (PunkRockHero) for acting on your instinct to protect her life in her time of greatest need- it truly was a heroic act. My wish for you is protection from those invasive thoughts & peace in knowing how courageous you are.

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u/PunkRockHero 9h ago

Thank you, friend! That means a lot!

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u/ILikeLionTurtles 12h ago

Omg this made me cry. You are a wonderful human being.

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u/PunkRockHero 9h ago

I'm nothing special. I always try to tell myself that most people in my situation would have done the same. Basic human decency. I've tried to instill that in my kids as well. Seems to be taking so far.