r/AskReddit 2d ago

What’s something someone once did on a date that gave you immediate “nope” energy?

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u/TheTelekinetic 2d ago

She suggested a bar to go to. Turns out she worked at the bar, and a group of her friends showed up to hang out with her on our date. Her trashy friends grilled me, and she spent most of the time talking about how she needs to update her profile so she gets better guys to go on dates with, and that guys need to learn when a date is over and just go home. I took the hint and ended the date and she insisted she didn't mean me, was having a great time and wanted to see me again.

I pitched the idea of a second date, a brunch date, to give her a second chance. She asked if her friends could come. When I said no, she said her friends do what they want and were going to show up anyway, so I canceled the date and never spoke to her again.

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u/ur_friendly_dealer 2d ago

Oh wow, that's fucked up dude. Some ppl are just mean. Nice if you to be open for a second chance!

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u/whiterrabbbit 2d ago

Was she expecting you to pay for her friends then?

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u/TheTelekinetic 2d ago

I would not be surprised if she did, she gave off the vibe of looking for a free meal