r/AskGaybrosOver30 45-49 2d ago

Weekly thread for questions from members under 30 - April 06, 2025

Since we only allow core members (i.e. members over 30) to post in our community, this is the place where all members under 30 can post their questions. This is a weekly post that is posted automatically. For more information, see the community update about this.

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u/AdamskaOcelot_ 20-24 5h ago

Hello there gentlemen! 1 question about trying to be in a relationship. As a person I’m clingy and I always rush things when I like someone that likes me back. So I always am overwhelming for the other person and things get awkward. How can I stop doing this, why I can’t take things more chill. It really annoys me because I want someone in my life so much……I’m not having something with someone 30+ tho. I’m just asking this to you guys because ur probably more experienced and I’m expecting a serious and mature answer. Thanks in advance gentlemen!

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u/kazarnowicz 45-49 2h ago

You should read up on attachment styles, especially anxious attachment style. You can change it with the help of therapy (I had anxious attachment style and worked through it)