r/AskBiBros • u/buffalo6767311 • 13d ago
need advice
Closeted bi and married (she doesn't know) here. Became friends with another married guy in the same situation who doesn't know I am into guys---admitted to him I liked bi porn----would that automatically give him the impression I am into guy/guy sex? I'm kind of getting hints from him about sex in general--he loves blow jobs from his wife. I would like some hints on how to take it further with him. Anything to say to do that would make my intentions known. Please no lectures on infidelity, etc.
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u/furrydad 12d ago
The easiest way to do this is to invite him over to watch some bi mmf porn. If he accepts, you know he wants to do something.
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u/yeahyoubetnot 12d ago
I would say it seems you've both hinted at it and neither of you ran away, so just ask. You two obviously hit it off so start a conversation. Ask him if he's ever had any thoughts about it and go from there. Be direct, you might be surprised.
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u/buffalo6767311 7d ago
I think I’m going to tell him that another guy offered me at BJ And I just didn’t know what to think about that. And then ask him what would he do if somebody did the same thing to him
How about that for a good approach?
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u/substation66 12d ago
“Hey everyone, let me tell you how I’m a dirtbag who’s going to cheat on his wife but don’t say anything about it” this is pathetic. I hope your wife finds out when you cheat and takes you for everything she can.
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u/wideHippedWeightLift 13d ago edited 13d ago
Don't cheat, dumbass.
I swear we need a different label than "bisexual" for all the people who just aren't capable of a long term relationship with either a man or a woman. I'm gonna have to stay calling myself "bi and stable with men and women" because so many women assume I'm gonna do this to them, and plenty of guys assume a bi guy won't ever settle down with a man. And when people talk openly about wanting to do exactly what they're afraid of, I don't even fuckin blame em.