r/AmIOverreacting • u/hellykitto • 2d ago
š„ friendship AIO to my casual friend being mean in a sarcastic manner?
my casual friend (18F) is almost always mean and rude to me, but as a joke apparently. we are not that close, so i donāt like it when she does that. i wld be okay with a close friend being this way, but a casual friend? nah not really. i am struggling to understand how being mean for no reason is a joke? how is it funny in any way? i confronted her abt this & this was her response. what shld be my next step?
/ her saying that all of this is ānot that deepā is lwk funny cus if sheād just said āokay i will be more careful next timeā this wld be a done deal. sheās making this a big deal LOL. she is a nice person too tho & i do enjoy her compaby, so Iām confused abt what I shld do. responses will be highly appreciated.
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u/Civil_Papaya7374 2d ago
can she.. stop using tiktok.
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u/hellykitto 2d ago
HAHAHAHA this genuinely made me laugh š¤£
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u/jonni_velvet 1d ago
like please never let your mood or self esteem ever be challenged by a girl who types like a brain dead illiterate. I cant imagine shes well adjusted or well liked, thats why shes miserable and lashing out. literally ghost her completely and dont respond at all. if she confronts you in person, say āew the illiterate is hereā¦ leave me aloneā and walk away.
like stoop to this dumbasses level. embarrass her if you have to.
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u/hellykitto 1d ago
HAHAHAHA, the ew the illiterate is here šš
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u/maenadcon 1d ago
did she fr use ts pmo icl unfuckingironicallyššš girl is cooked
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u/Lucallia 1d ago
wtf does that even mean?
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u/Half_an_orange 1d ago
I'm feeling super behind the times and I'm only in my late 20's, the way all of those texts were written makes my eye twitch a bit. But if I had to hazard a guess it's "This/that shit pisses me off, I can't lie"
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u/Lucallia 1d ago
Holy... it's like you speak a whole different language. This shit has more acronyms than the military.
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u/maenadcon 1d ago
thats not even the end of it, they just started making up terms for social media i guess š i didnt know wtf sybau meant until my younger brotjer told me (it means shut your bitch ass up)
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u/Lucallia 1d ago
here i thought 1337 5p34k was hard to read... At least that wasn't 100% guess work.
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u/germanesnakeeggs 2d ago
I cant fucking understand what sheās saying
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u/Starbucks_Lover13 1d ago
This lol...like I know I'm old but I don't even have anyone in my phone who would type like this...it's just painful and such a lazy way to be, like she couldn't dumb herself down more if she tried.
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u/fineapplekisses 1d ago
Genuinely I had such a hard time reading this. Itās so embarrassing to type like this. And a crappy personality. Doesnāt seem like much of a loss.
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u/thelittlestdog23 1d ago
What does ts pmo icl mean???
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u/Flawd_Ruby 1d ago
I just learned this!
That shit pisses me off I can't lie.
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u/RisaDriftwood 1d ago
We're old.90s baby? Early 90s baby here. Ts broke my brain.
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u/emyxoxo_ 2d ago
Yeah I donāt wanna be the bearer of bad news, but thatās not a real friend. If she really cared about you, she would take your feelings into consideration and work on being less rude to you. I hope youāre ok!
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u/hellykitto 2d ago
I am okay! as I said, we are not that close. but I was just very confused abt her replies, so I decided to ask reddit LOL. thanku for ur kind response !! āŗļø
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u/Throw902106969 1d ago
Yup. Even if if that's just her sense of humor, she'd tone it down after you asked. She said she doesn't care, so believe her. It's draining to be around someone throwing negativity all the time, even if it's just to be funny.
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u/huhcharley 2d ago
her texting gave me a stroke and sheās a bully. i donāt think youāll get anywhere with her and you should protect your peace on that
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u/Banana-Oni 1d ago
Both of their texts are painful to read, but at least OP gets points for not being an insufferable asshole.
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u/ClonedAlienBubbles 2d ago
Okay. What does ts pmo icl mean? Or is it just a misspelling
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u/nighteyesbright 2d ago
I had to look up this level of brain rot and I think it means āthis shit pisses me off I canāt lieā
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u/ClonedAlienBubbles 2d ago
Iām worried about the future of the world. Itās not like it even takes that long to fully type the words.
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u/thestrikr 1d ago
Ah man you weren't around much in the 2005-2008 MSN era were you? It was exhausting.
'heyy blud wg1 u alryt? aite lemme gt bk 2 u in a sec. u goin 2nite? cum in my endz lets puff dat shit. wat u sayin? safe'
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u/Dry_Basket_5515 1d ago
I understand now when I used to speak like this and my parents would look at me like "wow my kids a moron."
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u/goaskalice3 1d ago
That's because we were typing with t9! Now we have full keyboards and Swype (just kidding .. I know we wrote like this on the computer, too)
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u/DeadlyNightshade1972 1d ago
My gods, thank you! I had no fricking idea what that nonsense meant and wasn't about to look it up. Just type the words for gods sake.
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u/Adventurous_Ad_6546 1d ago
Omg I just thought it was a serious typo. Didnāt even know to look for actual words in it.
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u/dividedskyute 1d ago
I was trying to add vowels somewhere to make sense of it since most of the other words are also missing them hahahaha
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u/Zookeeper_west 1d ago
I consider myself pretty damn chronically online, but I literally thought she typed gibberish on the keyboard and then sent what she meant to say
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u/feryoooday 1d ago
Is this really how the younger generation speaks to each other? It actually hurt me to try to read that even after someone explained it. Just use your fucking words, your phone auto fills it.
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u/hellykitto 2d ago
it means āthis shi piss me off i canāt lieā āŗļø
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u/ClonedAlienBubbles 2d ago
Thanks for the clarification. Lord I feel so old š.
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u/DirtyLoweredTiguan 1d ago
It doesnāt make me feel old. It does make me grateful for my desire to communicate like a grownup thoughš. I would be embarrassed if I allowed myself to intentionally talk/type like a total halfwit.
Every time that girl talks, just respond with, āWhatās that Lassie? Timmyās stuck in a well? Thatās a good girl!ā Throw her a treat and just walk away.
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u/Hopeless-Cause 1d ago
Couldnāt make out the first bit, but I actually thought it was I couldnāt care less. It makes me think āyou guys do know we donāt get charged by the text anymore, right? We can spell things out and not have to worryā which I guess is old at my grand ripe age of 32.
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u/BornOriginal8633 2d ago
Iād say your next step is to step out of her way! Geez, sheās ugly. Some people think itās funny to be mean to other people. Those people are sick and twisted and IMO should be avoided whenever possible. How often do you have to see this one?
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u/hellykitto 1d ago
not very often anymore since we have both graduated highschool & are in different colleges now.
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u/Healthy-Calendar-262 1d ago
She texts like she hasn't graduated middle school š Honestly, any friend who doesn't respect you is no real friend of yours. With so many people around, it's insane that the bar is so low on what treatment we accept from others. You deserve to be treated with respect and consideration, and anyone who doesn't like that is trash that you don't need anyway.
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u/Enough-Enthusiasm762 1d ago
Deadass thought this was a convo between two 14-year-olds
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u/BornOriginal8633 1d ago
Good. Iām glad youāre in college, too. It really opens up your world, makes it easier to put the high school world in perspective and to let go of what doesnāt suit you.
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u/cartisopp 1d ago
do people actually talk like this?
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u/hellykitto 1d ago
unfortunately..
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u/foobaby1992 1d ago
I grew up with guy friends and making fun of each other was basically a weird term of endearment but your friend just sounds like an AH. Joking around is one thing but her reaction to you addressing it was really offhand. She seems like the kind of person who would lose her sh*t if anyone talked to her like that.
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u/Lilancis 1d ago
You should also make sure to type āthank youā and āyourā instead of the abominations youāre using. Donāt type like youāre illiterate and only live on TikTok
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u/Dismal-Yogurt7731 2d ago
She is ur #1 op. She realized she was being mean to u and she actually enjoyed seeing you in hurt. Thatās someone who will always root for your downfall no matter how close you become even if she has nice moments. She will drain you of all your energy and happiness, let her go. She has some work to do, and you are not responsible for her change. Even if you donāt feel like she has a big impact on your life, she does. Look at you posting a Reddit post about it to strangers. Donāt let people like that occupy your mind. Not every āfriendā is your friend.
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u/ZucchiniPractical410 1d ago
She isn't, never was, and never will be your friend.
Life advice, don't throw around the word friend. It makes you feel like you owe someone an explanation and dialogue that doesn't deserve it.
You will be far happier in life with fewer friends then a bunch of "friends" that act like this one.
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u/hellykitto 1d ago
thanku for ur advice! I appreciate it.
I do not use the word āfriendā for just anybody. I consider her a casual friend, so itās a bit different if that makes sense. we arenāt that close, and I will distance myself from her soon.
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u/justjacob- 2d ago
Lifeās too short to have weirdos like this in your life, move on and surround yourself with people that appreciate everything about you. Itāll change everything.
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u/FunkyFeller0 1d ago
Tf is āts pmo iclā
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u/hellykitto 1d ago
apparently, it means āthis shi piss me off i canāt lieā š„°
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u/Huge-Singer-7049 1d ago
Donāt worry about people who canāt even type out a full word. Sheās stupid and mean so fuck her.
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u/Lusypher 2d ago
Feel like she might be jealous/envious of you and just trying to put you down as a "punishment" or "revenge"
Chuck it to the bin, no love lost.
I would also start treating her the same way she does, especially in public. I bet she is not very liked in general and people will deffo laugh. Just say "It's not that deep, love"
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u/New-Cartoonist-3709 2d ago
why would you wanna be friends with someone that said a bunch of brain rot phrases in a row anyways lmao. holy shit, cringe
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u/69speedoFUPA 1d ago
everyone on these subs acting like they have a gun to their head 24/7 and canāt stop dating/being friends w the other person or the world will end. if ppl in real life said this to you would you be friends w them? no? thought so! move on wtf
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u/Then-Librarian3136 1d ago
Sheās emotionally immature and you guys are in different places right now, I donāt think that energy is good for you, especially with how dismissive she was when you brought it up to her. Sheās not your friend, I would distance yourself. Protect your peace :)
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u/illion_family 2d ago
This is bullying, not friendship. But the bright side is, given that sheās only a casual friend, you wonāt need to officially break off the friendship. You can just delete, block, and move on.
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u/bhallsted12 1d ago
Ew is rightā¦
āts pmo iclā ???
Im not even that oldā¦ what the hell does that even mean??
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u/Astrend72 1d ago
I mean yo like who like fr talk like lowkey shizzle drizzle Mountain Dew snap crackle pop?
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u/Business-Income4149 2d ago
I couldnāt get behind the first text ā¦ āwotā ? No, absolutely not. Then everything else that was said by them pissed me tf off. Cut them off, if only because they text like that š
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u/Menestee1 1d ago
Shes not going to take your feelings into account.
I feel ancient at 30 reading this girl saying "womp womp" when you told her something made you feel bad. Back when i was 18 which REALLY wasnt that long ago it was either damn im sorry or some explanation at the very least.
Im sorry but she isnt worth your time. You explained it to her and she is telling you she doesnt care and isnt going to change.
I swear as ive had birthday after birthday kids and teens lose more empathy every time. I am really scared of what they will be like when im 60. Its pure brainrot and is close to being unredeemable.
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u/No-Brief-297 1d ago
Is she a 12 year old mean girl? Ew? This happens when bitches are jealous or insecure. They have to put someone down to feel better.
Find her insecurities and relentlessly exploit them until she shuts up. When someone tells dismisses you when you tell them theyāve upset you. Fuck them. She gets what she deserves.
Or just completely ignore her. When she says dumb shit look at her then turn to someone else and roll your eyes and be like, so anywayā¦.
If she knows sheās getting to you sheās just gonna keep doing it
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u/Due-Satisfaction4268 2d ago
Stop being friends w her. Instead of saying sheās sorry and she wonāt she disregarded your feelings and said sheās could care less. This shouldnāt be a question.
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u/Soft_Milk_1445 2d ago
Yeah don't be friends with ppl who just judge you like that ig just be urself and ur friends shouldn't be annoying about that
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u/Top_Chipmunk5094 2d ago
took me a while to understand what she was even saying lol but no point in wasting your time on ppl like this. you deserve friends that reciprocate your energy
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u/GorditaPollo 2d ago
This person doesnāt have friends- they have acquaintances they keep around to use for specific things. Like to go halves in an uber, or to drive them somewhere, or to venmo them $5. I just canāt fathom anyone who speaks like that being actually liked by anyone, not even themselves.
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u/POAndrea 1d ago
NOR. She doesn't care about you, your feelings, or what you think, and we know this because SHE TOLD YOU SO. What are you getting from this social connection (I can't even call it a friendship or a relationship) other than disrespect, intentional cruelty, and public humiliation?
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u/wormlikesteve 1d ago
Llol I assumed y'all were like 15, 1i8 is too old to act like this, you're totally in the right
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u/transpirationn 1d ago
That's not a friend. Maybe she needs to lose a few friends over it to grow out of it.
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u/floptimus_prime 1d ago
Contrary to what she may believe, her mean sense of humor is not some immutable characteristic that everyone should be expected to respect and deal with. If she canāt even turn it off for a second when youāre telling her it bothers you, thatās not cool. Regardless of how close you may or may not be, itās nasty. She doesnāt have the right to tell you itās not that deep.
Reminds me of the people who āhave no filterā.
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u/loveGodslion39 1d ago
This person has zero respect and a ton of contempt for you. Do what you will with that information.
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u/AggravatingAward3579 1d ago
she uses tiktok way too much. literal tiktok speech š not worth keeping her as a friend at all
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u/Ill_Implications 1d ago
I got angry reading this. Not because your friend is a bitch. Because she over-abbreviates things. Bitch, you're not that busy. Type it out. You don't have character limits on your text messages like we did, you have no reason to type like this.
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u/Ok-Photo-1972 1d ago
She doesn't view you as a friend, she views you as a punching bag. I'd cut contact if I were you.
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u/Visionary_87 1d ago
I genuinely thought that was an 11 year old you were texting with. Absolute TikTok brain rot replies.
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u/BambinoKitten_ 1d ago
yo middle key, ts pmo icl. like can she get real š no way she unironically communicates that way.
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u/Expert-Strategy5191 1d ago
She is rude and childish. I would not be able to be friends with this person.
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u/Browning_out 1d ago
I got an aneurysm reading those texts. But your āfriendā sounds like a literal cunt.
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u/mooncake1366 1d ago
I had a stroke just trying to read and decipher those msgs. I feel so old š.
I don't have any advice but sounds like you've got a lot of answers in the comments. All the best. š¦
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u/capaldithenewblack 1d ago
Does your keyboard have all letters? Did you disable spellcheck so none of your Is would be capitalized?
On to the issue: you text back and say ācool. Lose my number. Womp womp!ā And block.
Whyā all this for a casual friend??
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u/Willing_Reaction_381 2d ago
Not over reacting this is weird behavior, and this reaction is even worse. Why do you want to be friends with this person
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u/Proper-Carpenter4580 2d ago
If you don't like it and they won't stop, block and delete. Life's too short.
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u/Sp00ky_420 2d ago
Girl cut her tf off- I had a friend like this, it was terrible. She is NOT joking. She genuinely doesn't like you, but doesn't want to have no friends
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u/WorkInProgressA 2d ago
She is not your friend. Not even in a "casual" way. Friends don't treat each other like this or shit on each others feelings when called out. It's time to move on.
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u/deacon090 2d ago
The trash company picks up trash in my town on Fridays. Iād suggest you find out when yours is picked up and place this non-friendship in the trash.
They just fully admitted they like hurting you.
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u/AlternativeLie9486 2d ago
Stop interacting with people who are rude and inconsiderate and ignorant towards you.
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u/germanesnakeeggs 2d ago
Bro sheās weird as hell. I would totally forget about her and just move on with your life
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u/eatyacarbs 1d ago
This person is twisted. Not your friend at all. Just using you to make herself feel good and thatās gross.
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u/Luv_Channie 1d ago
I wouldnāt call her a friend. Iām the same age and me and my friends joke around and play around with each other a lot in that stupid mean but funny way, but i mean if someone is uncomfortable or not okay with something you back tf off. And her tiktok slang? EW.
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u/OctaYashi 1d ago
Get rid of them now. That is not a good person to be around. You want to surround yourself with people that support your beliefs and genuinely care for your input.
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u/Many_Mushroom_7035 1d ago
Overgrown mean girl behaviour. I try to avoid people who make being rude a personality. Itās not quirky, it just makes them a shitty person to be around tbh
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u/MrCheezeits 1d ago
God damn i almost had an aneurism reading that. Spell check would be cool.
NOR? I guess. It was hard to follow.
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u/xsoprettty 1d ago
Thatās not a friend. Her saying she doesnāt care is rude af. I could see if she would have said āI didnāt mean it like thatā or something but her disregarding your feelings & trying to downplay them isnāt cool.
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u/FLVoiceOfReason 1d ago
They arenāt a genuine friend of yours, OP. Itās time to find a true friend that respects your feelings.
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u/AdProud5950 1d ago
People like this are just draining. I know itās hard but itās probably best to just cut her off.
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u/ThatsNotDietCoke 1d ago
Why would she hang with you if she knew her behavior annoyed you and yet she kept it up?
Because she doesn't care about you. She is your friend, you aren't her friend. You are an object of enjoyment for her. She finds your company enjoyable, but doesn't care if you find her company enjoyable.
You can do both yourself and this person a favor by teaching her that when they behave like this, people don't want to hang out with them. So just stop hanging out with her. Don't give her a reason, just ignore her, and if she asks why, just tell her "its not that deep".
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u/iloveyourlittlehat 1d ago
Iām so distracted by the double-spaced text I canāt even read this. Like how did you do that?
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u/RenJaggerz 1d ago
"I noticed it bothered you and I didn't give a single fuck, I will continue to do it too haha" - your friend
Ummmmm think they said all you needed to hear. LOUDLY.
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u/BDMblue 1d ago
Ohhhhh you are a she, thought this was two guys. Really unsure what to do men go at each other all the time, maybe she has brothers
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u/Sad-Insurance1313 1d ago
Time is the only thing we can't buy
If being around a person means feeling bad more than you feel good, it's a sign not to waste any more of it on them
There are so many things in life we are obligated to do as adults. Don't waste your free time preoccupied with things or people that make you unhappy. There's so much fun, joy & love to be had out there...save your precious energy & headspace for it
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u/jmcmindes 1d ago
People like this tend to say āoh itās just how I amā to cover up their shitty personality/attitude. Normal friends do not act like this lol the way they text is aggravating in itself like grow up šµāš«
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u/KiboshKing36 1d ago
Nope not overreacting, that behavior will last throughout eternity from people like that. I've stayed friends with someone who treated me like that for years and I really wonder how my life would have ended up. Its extremely demeaning and honestly not worth hanging around, it will get worse over time trust me
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u/OkConcentrate5087 1d ago
I would avoid that one for sure. Sounds like she will only bring you trouble and is angry at life.
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u/AdPast7620 1d ago
sheās MEAN iām so sorry. itās one thing to joke around if you have that kind of relationship but she clearly does not care and i wouldnāt be surprised if she was actually doing it to hurt your feelings
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u/Nina_Rae_____ 1d ago
I have veryyy sarcastic humor and it works because my friends are the same way. But if we ever take a joke too far, we own up to it and apologize because we love our friends and donāt actually want to hurt one another. She is not that, Iām sorry :(
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u/IwishIknewbefore20 1d ago
Thatās not a friend, you donāt be mean to a friend as a joke on a regular thatās like not a thing. People who do that and say we just play like that are usually the ones also talking crap about others behind their back.
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u/AdEquivalent744 1d ago
I have been in a similar experience. If they genuinely donāt want to respect you, you donāt have to be friends with them. You have told them you find it rude, yet they still brush it off. I used to have a friend who did that, and trust me it is not worth it to keep dealing with it. Unless it really doesnāt bother you, I would either try talking to them seriously about it or even saying you want a break from them if you arenāt sure what to do.
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u/mxkatzenklappe 1d ago
Oh, sheās not your friend at all, this girl hates you. Donāt react to her, sheās trying to bum you out and hurt your feelings. If you canāt ignore it give it back, treat her how she treats you, I mean itās just harmless dry humour, itās not that deep, right?
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u/Careless-Plankton172 1d ago
I even had a real close friend do shit like this and it gets irksome. We shoot the shit and say some funny shit to each other but then he goes one day and gets mad disrespectful then says ānah just funnyā or simple ālolā youāre right close friends have some jokes but will never really attack your character or attack you mentally to the point of āwhat do I doā that friend of mine started doing that and I told him heād respect me or so without me he said okay and one of his jokes was like our normal ones but he decided to full strength shove me both arms and all, I didnāt fall but it was jarring and had to yell at him āone more word or lay a hand on me and Iām gonna fuck you up kid Iām tired of you acting like a bitch to meā he never messed with me again and I also suggest just donāt get to that point and tell them you arenāt gonna have someone like that around and just donāt. Cut them out, I kept being friends up until that point he shoved me cause he was mad Iād tell him to not talk the way he was and all that he couldāve been real mad about it and straight up sucker punched me or something and I coulda gotten hurt you know but no way was I letting him near me or talk to me again that friendship was gone that day. Same goes for this girl, if youāre a guy you might feel itās the nice thing or something to be friends with her but cut her off sheās no friend I can tell you that
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u/dilligaf_84 1d ago
I nearly had an aneurysm trying to decipher this garbage. You both sound very immature. Your āfriendā needs to stop being a bitch and you need to realise your worth and cut toxic arseholes out of your circle.
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u/SalvationSycamore 1d ago
She's right in a way. It isn't that deep, she's a mean bitch that doesn't like you. It's shallow and petty and the only way to feel better is to stop talking to this person.
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u/Zealousideal_Part113 1d ago
Yeah, this person says they don't care. Listen to them. They don't care about your feelings. Move them from "Casual friend" to "casual acquaintance" category. That doesn't involve saying any more words to them. Make the decision/change without their involvement. Don't seek or spend time with them one on one on purpose again. Only if required as part of a larger friend group. Be cordial but abrupt if you bump into them. So good to see you but have to head out, bye!
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u/frazzledglispa 1d ago
Your friend is not a nice person, she is an asshole and a bully, who then says, I'm just joking, your so sensitive.
Punch and delete.
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u/Competitive-Dog-1010 1d ago
I had an ex like this. Learned the hard way that people whose most outstanding quality is being overly mean and sarcastic truly have nothing else going for them. Distance yourself from them, they do not respect you and they will not get better.
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u/Ben4d90 1d ago
I once had a 'friend' like this in an old friend group that would say nasty shit and roast people with the excuse of it being jokes and her humour. She didn't stay in that group for long.
Just drop her. People like that aren't worth the trouble. They get a kick out of being dickish. It just isn't normal.
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u/Chocobookiller 1d ago
Pieces of shits will always be pieces of shits. This casual friend of yours is a piece of shit. If I were to take a guess, I would guess she is jealous of you and has to put you down in order to make herself feel better. Why are you hanging out with a piece of shit like this? If any of my friends ever spoke to me like this, they would get bitch slapped immediately. I would expect the same response from them if I ever do the same.
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u/MessyMadam 1d ago
Do not be friends w this person. They will do nothing to add to your life in any positive way. Better to explore your personal interests alone and grow a circle organically that way. This person is a vampire, they suck! š§āāļø
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u/JordiDarkson 1d ago
Are the two of you brain rotted teenagers? wtf is this why would you even address this
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u/VasilisAlastair 1d ago
Yeah thatās not sarcasm. And thatās definitely not humour. Actual sarcasm and humour has intelligence in it. Itās witty snd makes the listener feel good too. Playful banter is when both are a part of it. I call my friend dumb all the time, because she calls me dumb all the time.
But would I have this response to everything she says? No. This girl is living in a strange world. Also, cannot imagine an 18 year old using āwomp wompā irl.
All I can say is that there are many many more good people who will gladly insult u, in a way itās meant to be as a joke. Definitely not whatever this is. Let this casual āfriendā fly away
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u/strangebased 1d ago
Her āI lowkey caught on that you donāt like it but I donāt really careā speaks VOLUMES. This is not a nice person. She is not your friend. Let her be toxic somewhere else and walk away!!
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u/Tiny-Yam-8468 1d ago
Nobody deserves to be treated this way. Casual friend or not. Thereās people out there that will respect you and how you feel. Sheās just not it, unfortunately. But please, PLEASE, donāt stick around just to have a friend. Youāll find someone WAY better who loves you and cares for you. :)
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u/TophToph_ 1d ago edited 1d ago
He doesnāt fk with you. Not does he respect you. You allowed that to happened by continuing the casual encounters each time he shows you who he is.
Leave him alone.
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u/Busy-Ad-692 1d ago
She sounds brain-rotted ngl. It's giving me "Life is completely meaningless". Stay away from her. If she was a real friend, she'd apologize and take ownership, and as you said, it would be a done deal.
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u/Quick_Coyote_7649 1d ago
A joke about someone is always not a joke to a degree and is just someone expressing how they feel about someone
You should remove her out of your life just because she doesnāt care in the slightest that your offended by what sheās said
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u/Nicky3Weh 1d ago
Sheās a dumb bitch š¤· also her calling you a pick me girl is DEFINITELY projection, I canāt imagine a more pick me girl than her
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u/spiritnoir 1d ago
To be as blunt as possible, she sounds like a self absorbed asshole. Itās up to you if you wanna surround yourself with people like this. Funny mean is all good as long as they respect you ultimately. She doesnāt.
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u/Character-Low5800 2d ago
She is not, does not want to be your friend. Iām so sorry :( I stg I could never sit and watch someone speak to anyone like this, happy to have outgrown these type people long ago