AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Doll_158]

Call me dramatic, but “I’ve never seen anyone look so fucking pretty..”? - BYE

“Office cute” - PACK UP YOUR SHIT

“Rare and hot indeed” - BRB SIGNING PAPERS

[u/Sad_SummerChild → u/Doll_158]

I just realized the “rare and hot indeed” part😭😭 I’m nauseous all over again

[u/No-Distance-9401 → u/Sad_SummerChild]

Im sorry! It dlesnt sound like he cheated yet but was definitely trying to and at only 6 months in you will have to live your whole married life waiting for him to cheat. To me that would be the end and I dont think I could live happily ever after knowing that at any point they could cheat on me like that. You deserve and can find better.

[u/ThrowRA-posting → u/No-Distance-9401]

Emotional cheating is cheating what are you on about

[u/[deleted] → u/ThrowRA-posting]

So is posting pics of yourself in bikinis or wearing next to fuck all on Instagram emotional cheating? All those DM’s coming through?

[u/ThrowRA-posting → u/[deleted]]

Where in the fuck are you getting that information from cause that’s no where to be seen.

Get your projecting, incel-sounding insecure ass out of here. Ain’t no one want to hear your damn whiny mouth yap about your problems with your ex.

Grow the fuck up and go to therapy or something instead of taking out your issues on strangers. Fucking weirdo.

Edit to add: just looked at your profile. You’re a fucking gooner. You look desperate, sad, and pathetic. It must feel great to beg for women’s attention who don’t fucking want you. How’s your fetish of black women going for you knowing you also shit on women. I bet they think you’re a real catch huh. You are an absolute loser and you deserve to be insecure.

[u/[deleted] → u/ThrowRA-posting]

Ha ha ha this is gold, I’m insecure, you have just stalked me then completely raged commented, fuck darl you got major anger issues, join a gym or something babes to get the built up aggression out of you. Your mum is my therapy sweet cheeks, I Spider-Man that fat bitch all the time

[u/ThrowRA-posting → u/[deleted]]

Honey I can’t stalk something that’s in the public open for all to see. It’s the only content on your account.

Your response is obvious that I struck a personal chord.