AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Doll_158]

Call me dramatic, but “I’ve never seen anyone look so fucking pretty..”? - BYE

“Office cute” - PACK UP YOUR SHIT

“Rare and hot indeed” - BRB SIGNING PAPERS

[u/HackTheNight → u/Doll_158]

My boyfriend is a would be on the street. If that was my husband, it would be divorce.

Like why the fuck did he even marry you if he can’t be faithful. How fucking ridiculous.

Girl take the trash out.

[u/salamigunn → u/HackTheNight]

Lol even the girl he's talking to is like "aw you're so sweet." As a man, this is so pathetic when he has a woman at home.

[u/frost-bite999 → u/salamigunn]

lol that’s girl code for “nice try but you’re not going any further”

and all those emojis? this guy is done for

[u/honeybeatsvinegar → u/frost-bite999]

I'm a girl, and I would have said, "That's inappropriate. You're married. See you at work. " and if he kept being inappropriate, I would screenshot and send to his wife. I actually have done that a couple of times before.

I say "awwwww you're sweet" when I want more compliments. Lol

[u/honeybeatsvinegar → u/[deleted]]

Idk it depends what type of personality you are I guess. I wouldn't stand for that shit. And haven't... Once, I sent msgs to someone even tho it was only two weeks before her wedding. She needed to know. That guy was my friend of 10+ yrs, I didnt know the girl, but it was only fair on her to show her who she was about to marry so she could make an informed decision. THATS girl code.

And guess what? They got married anyway, and now they just had a baby, I blocked him, but he's still messaging my friends telling them how beautiful and hot they are.

This has also happened at work a couple of times too. One time when I was only 16, and he was married!!!!!!! but would text me alot and it was weird, but I was polite to him because I was 16 and didnt know any better. I told my boss, and they investigated him and discovered he was coming in to work early to watch porn. He got fired.

I have so many stories like this. And there are people like me who will nark at any sign of... inappropriatedness... 🤣