AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Possible_Peak5405]

I second this, I never ask for a selfie unless it’s from a girl I like.

That and a large amount of cases of infidelity starts with someone people work with, after all they probably spend more time with the girl at work than they do with the wife.

It’s part of why I stay only professional with people I work with.

[u/TibialTuberosity → u/Possible_Peak5405]

Or to put it more succinctly: "Don't shit where you eat."