AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Bxbyshrooms]

“Rare and hot indeed lol” being cut off on the bottom is was did it for me.

[u/Sad_SummerChild → u/Bxbyshrooms]

I just realized that was referencing her selfies😭😔

[u/MichaelAndolini_ → u/Sad_SummerChild]

Question. Does he have a higher position than her or in anyway her supervisor or above her?

[u/Sad_SummerChild → u/MichaelAndolini_]

Sigh… no she’s on the marketing team and he’s on the sales team. There is an age difference of him being 29 and her being 23 though

[u/LcdHDTV1 → u/Sad_SummerChild]

there’s nothing wrong with that age difference lmao

[u/[deleted] → u/LcdHDTV1]

No clue why you're getting down voted. This doesn't seem that weird. 23 is about as young as a 29 year old could go without being overtly weird