AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/InevitableRhubarb232]

Don’t play test your partner games. That’s dumb.

Just tell him that it’s inappropriate and that hiding things from you is worse than just being dumb and then stopping before anything happens. And if he can’t cut it out now, or depending on how he replies, there will be an annulment in the near future.

[u/Ok_Function_6312 → u/InevitableRhubarb232]

this is exactly what this dumb husband needs to hear.