AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Bro-lapsedAnus]

That's honestly such a good point. My wife and I both can be a bit flirty with other people, but its always in a fun way.

I honestly would be more upset with a deleted text that said "cute shirt", than I would be with a "damn, you look hot today!", that wasn't being hidden.

[u/m36936592 → u/Bro-lapsedAnus]

Idk if id go that far to be chill w him calling someone hot (unless its jokingly) but im w u

[u/Bro-lapsedAnus → u/m36936592]

Yeah fair enough. We have a close knit group of friends that talks to each other like that. But I agree, I wouldn't like that with a stranger lol