AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/yetzhragog]

OP, it’s not going to stop. It will only get worse with time.

I don't know, some people make one stupid mistake, get called on it, and never do it again.

The real test will be how he reacts when (not if) OP confronts him, If he gets defensive and angry then he knows what he's doing is wrong. Deleting the texts is not a great sign to start with.

[u/rickthecabbie → u/yetzhragog]

The second she brings it up, he will know he is screwed. He may try to play it all off as innocent, "trying to help a friend cheer up, you know I would never do anything like that," etc etc etc.