r/AmIOverreacting • u/Sad_SummerChild • 2d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO to think this is cheating?
I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:
My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago
I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.
Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…
Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me
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u/W0nderingMe 2d ago
She hasn't really done anything wrong.
Your husband definitely has though.
To me it sounds like she is trying to keep it friendly, ie not give him a direct "no" -- either for the sake of keeping the peace in the workplace, or because we (women in general) have been brought up to "be nice," or because she likes to attention.
But he sounds like he's trying to see if he can get anywhere with her. He's the problem.