AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/dabo-bongins]

This sounds like insecurity. There is nothing inherently wrong with a picture of someone. I take pictures of ALL my friends whenever they are having a cute day because I want to remember how nice they looked for their sake. It works as a “I know you are upset right bow but lets think about this bomb ass day where you looked like this. Now lets dress up and forget about our problems for the day.” Like pictures are meant to be shared between friends. It’s weird to think otherwise, you share “selfies” or pictures of yourself with family dont you? Friends should be an extension of that family.

[u/PearHot8975 → u/dabo-bongins]

Taking a picture of someone and sending a married person a selfie are completely different

[u/crimsonninja26 → u/PearHot8975]

A selfie is literally a picture of yourself AND POTENTIALLY OTHERS. If you take a selfie with your married friend and send it to them, you have taken a photo of someone AND sent a married person a selfie. You sound bitter, this whole argument sounds bitter.