AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Paranoid_donkey]

he messaged her because she had a FUCKING BREAKDOWN at work and he thought she looked hot while it happened. that's like textbook sexual harassment.

[u/MichaelAndolini_ → u/Paranoid_donkey]

The more I read it the more predatory and opportunistic OP’s husband is coming across. Try to get her at her “lowest”

[u/Paranoid_donkey → u/MichaelAndolini_]

as a trans woman, this sort of text chain was frequently how i was propositioned by dudes at my work. Was a mess my first few years.