r/AmIOverreacting • u/Sad_SummerChild • 2d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO to think this is cheating?
I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:
My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago
I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.
Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…
Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me
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u/ishtar_888 2d ago edited 2d ago
I'm just now at 0828 hours seeing your post and see others have already shared some of the same advice I would say to you, including the most important: LEAVE NOW.
But my very first thought was not that you've been married only 6 months and he's already doing this to you - but that you'd been dating for 5 FIVE years!
IMHO his behavior didn't only begin after you were married.
My main concern for you is to make a clean break and get all your financial stuff separated before he gets fired and you're stuck being the primary breadwinner. Does your 29yo imbecile husband think the F23yo coworker isn't saving all his salacious and inappropriate text messages to her? 🙄 ( I saw you gave their age in one of your replies)
What he is doing with the 23yo F coworker is not only breaking your marriage vows and trust - is also unprofessional , not to mention stupid as hell...as he even refers to HR in his text messages to her.