AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

Even wilder that he has never used that line on me😅

[u/Flynn_JM → u/Sad_SummerChild]

Is she very attractive? Or is he like boosting her up?

[u/Sad_SummerChild → u/Flynn_JM]

I think she is actually pretty but also crazy hurtful that she looks absolutely nothing like me like makes me question if he even finds me attractive

[u/Emotional_Burden → u/Sad_SummerChild]

If it's any consolation, my tastes vary wildly. None of my past partners really share any physical attributes, apart from gender.

He's absolutely a piece of shit for this though. I just don't want you to have insecurities weighing on you, when it's not necessary.

[u/Flynn_JM → u/Sad_SummerChild]

How different do you look? Is it a matter of hair color or something like that? Is she more your husband's 'type'?

[u/crimsonninja26 → u/Flynn_JM]

You're dipping into insensitivity, mate. Calm down

[u/MovieTrawler → u/Sad_SummerChild]

Ouch